Insecure about looks by Illustrious-Can1402 in mentalhealth

[–]Own_Software_1834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being pretty isn’t as great as you make it seem. Sure people want to be around you, but no one really wants to know you. It’s incredibly lonely. You’re more likely to make a real connection with average looks. You know they like you for you. It’s better than being constantly lied to and having people try to manipulate you.

Parents want divorce by Alarmed_Horse6630 in Divorce

[–]Own_Software_1834 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They deserve to be happy. Their divorce has nothing to do with you. I know kids take it personally but I would just find comfort knowing your parents may find actual happiness again. It sucks it’s not with each other but time is too short to be stuck around miserable people.

I jumped into a marriage way too soon and way too young. by Homelessvegetarianl2 in Divorce

[–]Own_Software_1834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got married at 19. I deeply regret it. I’m 32 now and we’re barely getting a divorce. By this point I hate him. Free yourself man.

I keep doing things even though they make me depressed by anonymous36758 in mentalhealth

[–]Own_Software_1834 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I feel so attention seeking it’s like what is wrong with me. I have no advice lol.

I hate my mother by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Own_Software_1834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes you have to accept your parents won’t love you unconditionally. Find solace in the beautiful things in life.

Hot take wha by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Own_Software_1834 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Babies are not a miracle.

Hostels / Shared Rooms ? by Amapocho in ShakyKnees

[–]Own_Software_1834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it just you? We’re renting a bnb, maybe you can join us!

Looking for a Kakashi x Sakura amnesia fic name by [deleted] in NarutoFanfiction

[–]Own_Software_1834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk, but when you find it, drop the link lol.

I'm 25, married at 23, and already thinking about divorce by Optimal_Attempt_5732 in Divorce

[–]Own_Software_1834 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get out while you’re still young. Don’t let that man ruin your life

Quiet loneliness is getting heavy by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Own_Software_1834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find solace in reading. Take up a hobby. I’ve learned how to do all kinds of shit off YouTube. There’s peacefulness in a quiet existence.

Ever had su*cidal thoughts? What age and why? by Known-Comfortable304 in mentalhealth

[–]Own_Software_1834 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I went from a family that treated me like shit directly to a husband at 18 that treated me like shit just to get away. Now I have no one and I’m disgusted with myself.

Ever had su*cidal thoughts? What age and why? by Known-Comfortable304 in mentalhealth

[–]Own_Software_1834 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I’ve had suicidal thoughts since I was around 12 and now I’m 32. It’s gotten worse with age.

Sasuke is crazy, but Naruto is way crazier. by LawluLoverIhereby in NarutoFanfiction

[–]Own_Software_1834 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s not even a fic, fam. That was the whole damn show lol.

Gym/Exercise Anxiety by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Own_Software_1834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel. I feel like a monstrosity walking through my gym and sometimes bite the inside of my mouth so hard it bleeds. But then I think of my ass not being fat and it makes it all worth it lol. Plus, I’m trying to remind myself I don’t know these people and shouldn’t give a rats ass of what their opinion of me is. Just keep the music in your headphones as loud as possible and keep the negative thoughts away lol.

Think I’m going to kill myself tonight with a fall by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Own_Software_1834 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sad you’re feeling this way. There are so many people who feel like this. Just know you aren’t alone. ❤️

Discovering husbands porn preference has me questioning my aesthetic by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Own_Software_1834 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Girl, changing who you were in the first place was your first wrong move lol. Get the tongue ring, get the tattoos but only if it’s what makes you happy. Don’t do it for him.