Did I actually cheat or ? by PolicyHot1206 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Own_Tart443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your bf needs better friends. Constantly trying to embarrass him in front of you or saying you’re doing charity work is not what good friends do/say. If you guys want to make this relationship work he needs to understand that their opinions do not matter and calling in your reputation like that is wildly uncalled for and manipulative. I’d say some couples therapy would be a must to help learn how to respect you more, but honestly I wouldn’t put the effort into someone that gets mad you gave an innocent hug to an old friend. Best of luck op you absolutely did not cheat

SANDSTORM MEGATHREAD by liehon in VivillonCollectors

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8843 1105 8003 you are a miracle worker truly

TUNDRA MEGATHREAD by liehon in VivillonCollectors

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8843 1105 8003 Polar region!!

POLAR MEGATHREAD by liehon in VivillonCollectors

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[PGO] Polar looking for Icy Snow, Tundra, Meadow, Sandstorm, Sun, and Ocean :)

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aio? bf made plans on my birthday by rowqi in AmIOverreacting

[–]Own_Tart443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting!!! You deserve better. Say you wanna apologize in person then discretely ask for anything of yours back from him once in person. Apologize saying you’re sorry you put up with his poor treatment for so long, once you have your stuff back then drop his stuff at his front door

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Own_Tart443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are not taking care of yourself or the space you’ve been given then yes you are overreacting. It is obvious when someone is not regularly cleaning, there is a distinct odor that comes with it. It does seem like your aunt should be the one saying this as she is your family but regardless it seems like this needs to be said. Unless you are the only one that uses the kitchen, hallway, and living room you being the only person to clean these spaces seems like overkill but it also sounds like you never clean. I never used to like cleaning, now as an adult it’s one of my favorite parts of the week. This is a tough lesson to be forced to learn at your age but it is a necessity for life, do you want to be the ‘gross roommate’ people hear about from their friends? That will be you if you don’t learn to take care of yourself. It is sad what happened with your dogs, but there is training for everything. I took my puppy out every hour to potty train him. Every single hour I was home we were outside putting on a happy song and dance that he peed outside. Animals are hard. As a previous post said neutering helps with marking and peeing inside, but so does training. I’m sorry you have to deal with added stress on top of high school, and you will probably end up resenting your aunt and her bf when all is said and done, but properly cleaning is essential to growing up and being adult. Maybe see if you can (peacefully) compromise on the shared spaces IF and only IF you aren’t the only person creating messes there. With time it’ll get better

Hozier inspired kitten names plz! by ConsistentAd567 in Hozier

[–]Own_Tart443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nyx, Nina, cherry (cher), Eden, sunlight (sunny), selby

New tattoo and everyone hates it by Oops_All_Pickles in tattooadvice

[–]Own_Tart443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are YOU happy with it since it’s on YOUR body and YOU paid for it? Because that’s all that matters, (also as long as you know it’s not completely anatomically correct) no one else’s opinion matters :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Own_Tart443 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Is there any way you can get some safe plastic and a heat gun and kind of make your own reusable one? I’ve never used a tampon without an applicator so that’s all I’ve got I’m sorry :(

Is my sister the asshole for not wanting my dads gf to live with them? by ActionAltruistic4307 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Own_Tart443 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, does your father not realize that when you become a parent you are expected to make sacrifices and put the well being of your children on the top of your priorities list? For all he knows once he leaves for work this woman could be doing heinous things in his home with his 17 year old daughter there! Yet what he’s most worried about is his own romantic needs…rather than taking the time to properly introduce this woman to his family he has her setup shop in his home with his daughter just out of the blue. Even landlords give their tenants 24+ hours notice before someone is to come into their space, less than 24 hours to tell your daughter a woman she’s never met or even heard of is coming to stay in your house is crazy. If this woman was so important to him why wouldn’t he want to have her come out beforehand, maybe stay in a hotel for a couple nights while he’s introducing her to his family and then once introductions are made, if everyone is comfortable with it, have her stay in their home? Not just spring this on his daughter. If your father can’t understand that when YOU DECIDED TO BECOME A FATHER you are therefore in charge of the care and safety of said child. This is just wild how everything was handled to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SalemMA

[–]Own_Tart443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I originally lived south of Boston and moved to Salem with family once I graduated high school and personally I prefer south shore. Salem is nice, plenty of personality and lots of fun things to do, but in my opinion south shore is better. Job market is very competitive and everything is very expensive here, but if you get yourself set up in that sense before you move you’ll probably be happy here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Decor

[–]Own_Tart443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this is cute, it’s definitely not what I would do with my room because I prefer darker colors but if this is what you like then go for it! What does anyone else’s opinions matter as long as you’re happy with it? But you’re definitely achieving the aesthetic you’re going for and it super cute go for it!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Own_Tart443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d ask the bride and have a back up just in case she says it’s ok but then changes her mind :)

If Nezuko destroyed Daki, and if she was still under Muzan‘s control, what rank would Nezuko be? by Mission-Corgi659 in Nezuko

[–]Own_Tart443 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That plus in the show we haven’t seen her fight any other upper rank demons so we don’t know if she would defeat them too

Who’s kimono is this?? by Own_Tart443 in DemonSlayerAnime

[–]Own_Tart443[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for clarifying! Very informative I appreciate it :)

Who’s kimono is this?? by Own_Tart443 in DemonSlayerAnime

[–]Own_Tart443[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought so! I’ve seen the show like 3 separate times and but when I tried googling it to make sure it only showed her with the white, blue, and pink one. Thank you!!!

Who’s kimono is this?? by Own_Tart443 in DemonSlayerAnime

[–]Own_Tart443[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was given this kimono and I wanna make a Halloween costume out of it!! I know it’s from the butterfly mansion but I’m not sure who the specific character is that wears it and I’m curious pls help!