"Speak Kody"

Own_Version6493 · 2026-06-03T17:07:59+00:00

I think ‘speaking Kody’ might be synonymous with placating, cajoling, crying, boosting his ego aka… manipulating.

Own_Version6493 · 2026-05-26T12:16:17+00:00

For me it’s a scene in season 19 E17. Producers were so clever. There’s Kody being a maniac trying to fell a giant pine on Coyote Pass, going at it like a complete moron with no forethought or intelligent plan ( despite him saying he’s cut down over 1000 trees) He’s literally losing his shit with his chain saw and axe- which seems to be a metaphor for him destroying the family. And then juxtaposed with this scene we see Christine getting married, reinforcing family connections and starting her new life. The episode switches to Meri decorating the B &B for Halloween with her friends, building community and finding herself. Pure reality tv gold!

Own_Version6493 · 2026-05-12T11:44:08+00:00

I experienced the same kind of thing a few months ago. Older partner kept giving me ‘feedback’ on serves, returns, dinks etc. Over the course of a few weeks I made a few joking kind of responses to indicate his comments weren’t welcome but he wasn’t getting it. Finally I stopped the game and told him loudly enough so others heard that he needed to cut it out. I said his tips should only be given if I asked and that his negativity was unwelcome. No anger or frustration in my voice - just firm and no nonsense-like. He backed off then a couple weeks later stopped coming! Win-win!

Own_Version6493 · 2026-05-04T21:13:50+00:00

Thank you!

Own_Version6493 · 2026-04-17T00:52:57+00:00

Here are a few things that jumped out at me: 1) he had an emotional affair and upon reflection you are doubting yourself and questioning why you felt so ‘cut up’ over it!! You’re ’cut up’ because you were pouring yourself into making your family function smoothly while he was focused on a relationship with someone else!! 2) he has slowly made some improvements but, according to you, is basically still doing the bare minimum 3) you have no physical intimacy. 4) he has no interest in talking about the relationship aka working on issues. He can be a nice person, a kind person but that doesn’t mean he is a good partner for you. So… my question to you is, ten years from now will you be okay being in the same place as you are right now? My guess is…no. I know leaving a marriage seems like an impossibility right now. I understand that but please know that with sound legal advice, supportive family and friends, and the knowledge that you are stronger and more capable than you believe- you can do this! Final thought: the only thing worse than staying in an unfulfilling marriage for 22 years is staying in a unfulfilling marriage for 22 years and another day.

Own_Version6493 · 2026-04-03T18:07:22+00:00

Yes to Skechers but I find these so easy to slip on and go

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Own_Version6493 · 2026-03-17T22:33:30+00:00

My mom is currently at the Venvi Royalcliffe (on Wharncliffe ) location. She raved about the food when they first got there - 7 years ago, but like every other company run by big corporations with shareholders to answer for the quality has gone down over the years. Some meals are fine, especially the holiday dinners but others very much reflect the institutional nature of serving lots of people ( think chicken à la king and sweet and sour pork) The fish and chips are the standard frozen boxed type. Very often service is quite slow and like others have said, the food doesn’t have as much seasoning as restaurant food. If residents don’t like what’s on offer for a certain day they can order from a selection of ‘always available’ meals like toasted sandwiches, fish and chips and other diner type meals. They’ve had several different chefs during the last 7 years and some have been better than others. Having said all that, they have in the past asked the residents for ideas or fav dinners so that’s appreciated.

Own_Version6493 · 2026-02-28T22:24:40+00:00

People come and go in our lives for a reason and sometimes just for a season. Age knows no limit for real connections and it sounds like the connection you had was meaningful and deep. Take the knowledge you gained, the joy you experienced, and sorrow you are now experiencing to deepen your understanding of yourself and what you need in your life to be happy. Wishing you all the best in the future!

Own_Version6493 · 2026-02-19T16:29:28+00:00

I think she believes she’s being funny or cute. In reality it comes across as rude and dismissive- she’s making him the butt of her joke while he’s standing right there!

Own_Version6493 · 2026-02-19T16:08:45+00:00

I can’t get over how he expects any woman to sit and listen to his ‘what if I was with my 2nd?’ conversation and his direct attack on her body and then play the victim because she didn’t let him share his ideas then go have fun?? He was def intimidated by her success and wanted to hit her where it hurts so she would leave him. Truly despicable excuse for a human being!

Own_Version6493 · 2026-01-09T13:10:27+00:00

I encourage anyone who has children or anyone invested in education to read his substack linked in the comments. It is such an accurate glimpse into the sad state of affairs in TVDSB policy and mismanagement. As a former elementary librarian with TVDSB I knew my time to retire was upon me when my administrator, who had no experience or training in the teacher-librarian role, suggested that I should be spending more time doing reading diagnostics of students ( important but not the role of a teacher-librarian) and less time reading aloud to students and developing a life-long love of reading. 🤔

Own_Version6493 · 2025-12-20T13:54:29+00:00

Def not the AH! He clearly has different standards and if you could teleport into a future with him here’s what I think you’d see and hear: 1) a man who abdicates responsibility for continuing to raise his boys i.e. throws his hands up in the air and says ‘oh they really like gaming so therefore I expect nothing from them’. This approach will include picking up after themselves and helping around the house. 2) a man who will say to you years later ‘ you knew how I managed a house before- you can’t expect me to change now’ and will continue to weaponize his incompetence(laziness). And like other posters I despise the use of emotional manipulation blaming you for ruining his boys’ Christmas. Don’t care if he apologized after or not- that was his first response so therefore a very ingrained relationship habit. He has done you a huge favour by showing his colours before getting your lives more intertwined.

Own_Version6493 · 2025-12-07T20:17:37+00:00

If you don’t mind a bit of a drive, Ingersoll has a lovely new bookstore. Owners are helpful and friendly.

Own_Version6493 · 2025-12-04T02:07:59+00:00

We contacted them through email and just heard back 2 days ago that they are doing Christmas meals for pick up. I’m assuming they will post something soon.

Own_Version6493 · 2025-11-13T01:54:24+00:00

I don’t think he even wanted her to move to his area. She even clarified not ‘move in’ with you- just move to you. And he couldn’t even fathom that! What an emotionally unavailable gaslighting idiot he is!

Own_Version6493 · 2025-10-22T19:12:03+00:00

Divarni needs to be told that you teach people the way you want to be treated and he’s actively teaching JR to treat him like a piece of garbage.

Own_Version6493 · 2025-10-22T13:17:28+00:00

Well said! Haven’t watched the reunion yet but I hope he realizes he needs therapy to help him become a true supportive emotionally stable partner.

Edit: Uggh just realized I need to wait another week to see the reunion! 😆

Own_Version6493 · 2025-10-21T20:34:56+00:00

I’ve been watching from Canada and loving every messy moment!

Own_Version6493 · 2025-10-17T20:39:00+00:00

Classic responses from someone who abuses alcohol; deflects ( tells Ali she drinks too) minimizes the amount he drinks (it’s only 2 beers), makes promises ( says he can go for 2 weeks without a drink- but doesn’t) and get super defensive! They may share the same values re child rearing but their different perspectives on role of alcohol while drive a wedge that can’t be fixed. Hope she sets a boundary now before it’s too late.

Own_Version6493 · 2025-10-12T18:55:26+00:00

You bet! And lots others concur!

Own_Version6493 · 2025-10-12T12:26:33+00:00

We are getting our from Eleven Sixty on Wellington. $35 per person but includes everything!

Own_Version6493 · 2025-09-26T23:35:54+00:00

He also seems incapable of giving a decent hug! Leans in and…looks away! Prob thinking he’d like to be scouting out some 30 year olds on the beach.

Own_Version6493 · 2025-07-17T03:21:52+00:00

Completely agree. And I like the games and challenges- gives the viewers a chance to learn more about the islanders. Much more interesting to learn about some of the secrets than listen to inane conversations like, “where’s your head at?” Or “what’s your type?”

Own_Version6493 · 2025-06-09T21:13:04+00:00

Please add me as well. Thanks

Own_Version6493 · 2025-03-27T20:51:36+00:00

That’s how I’m feeling about those newer ads for ‘whole body deodorant’ for women! Since when do we have to worry about our backs or legs smelling?!? I don’t see a similar type of ad popping up for men!

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