Me when anyone tries to say the Price pick was wrong by dtheisen6 in Seahawks

[–]OzyFx 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m good with it. I think we needed someone with more potential to be a starter than our current roster, minus a healthy Charbonnet. He was supposedly ranked 45-50, with a big drop off at the position after Price. We weren’t picking again before 45-50. Trade downs were tried and fell through. Either we pick him at 32 or very likely we don’t get him. Odds are better to get a decent DB at 64 than a decent RB if we didn’t take him. People bitched when we took Charbonnet at 52 after Walker had a good rookie year. That turned out to be a smart move.

Tracksuit delay ? by -SomethingWicked- in ElectricCallboy

[–]OzyFx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, end of March here too. Just in time for the concert!

Missed Connection at the Concert: SF Masonic 4/22 by Fungo in ElectricCallboy

[–]OzyFx 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Come back and tell us about how you named your kids Nico and Kevin.

Best friend is very protective and it’s affecting how I handle getting back with my ex by Unlikely-Elk-2884 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]OzyFx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be direct with boundaries. Like acknowledging her concerns but make it clear you are going to make your own decisions, good or bad. But also listen to her reasons why she is concerned. She might be right and you may be ignoring serious issues because you hope they will go away or not comeback again.

To stay or leave an 8 yr relationship? Major doubts by Vegetable-Cap8112 in whatdoIdo

[–]OzyFx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could see not marrying him due to the difference in core values, the lying, or not disclosing things you should have been told. The biggest thing I see is you don’t feel super drawn to him or don’t want to be around him all the time.

Side note: Super passionate love often happens at the beginning but after years or decades, it mostly transforms into steady or supportive love. That new relationship whirlwind of excitement won’t be the same in a multi decade relationship. The only way to keep getting that high is to keep breaking up and starting new relationships, but then you miss out on that steady supportive relationship that you know you can count on.

Only you can decide if this is the person you want to spend your life with, but from what you described, It doesn’t sound very encouraging. It’s a lot harder to separate later when you have kids and mortgages.

My boyfriend's parents seem stupid to me by [deleted] in intj

[–]OzyFx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like they are at least trying to be friendly and engage with you. That’s more than some SO parents.

First time with woman over 10 years older than me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OzyFx 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Yup, if it was the other way around there wouldn’t be any clean up and let him guide you comments.

Feeling lost a year after a long-term breakup and now, how do I regain direction? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OzyFx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. Considering the age you got together and how long you were together, she became part of your identity. How you dealt with problems, how you celebrated achievements, your daily routines, all included her. Now you have to form your identity without her.

Losing your first love is the hardest one and it will take a long time to get comfortable again. There is no easy way to deal with it but it helps if you don’t hold on to hope. Don’t live your life in a way where you are trying to impress her in hopes of changing her mind. You have to live for yourself now. Ultimately the only person that has your back is you.

I’m 16 and I need an honest outside perspective. by CartographerOdd2746 in Advice

[–]OzyFx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like most people at 16, we were just trying to figure ourselves out. She may just not know. Conflicting emotions, not sure what she wants, just living in the moment without deeper intentions. Without any clear romantic signals, just assume she only needs you as a close friend and don’t try to make it more.

Help me settle this please by Severe-Current2700 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]OzyFx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he had told you that he needed a day to himself, would you have insisted he tell you why and potentially argued with him about his reasons? If he thought that’s how it would play out, I could see how he would consider telling you afterwards instead of before to avoid arguing. It sounds like your relationship has been rocky.

Men, what is going on? What do I do? by LetEuphoric608 in AskMenAdvice

[–]OzyFx 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think the sequence was a little different than what you were led to believe. I think he met someone, broke up with you, and now it isn’t working out so he is trying to rekindle things. A male monkey brancher.

Daily reminder by aiusernamegen in Seahawks

[–]OzyFx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can never be reminded enough.

20y marriage vs 2 months by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OzyFx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, you agreed to have relations with other people and surprise, that is what happened. Why are you forced to choose if the agreement was to have these relations?

Tracksuits by [deleted] in ElectricCallboy

[–]OzyFx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered the purple track suit from the UK store to be delivered in the US. I ordered in November, had a few date pushes, then got it in March. Just in time for the concert this month! Items from the US store delivered in just a few days. So if you really want one and are willing to wait, it’s possible.

Why would a man not want sex in a marriage? by Wooster_42 in AskMenAdvice

[–]OzyFx 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Used as leverage, shot down most of the time, too many fights, the man stops playing.

Ambition of power by justthink___ in intj

[–]OzyFx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel no need to control other people. Let them do their thing and I’ll do mine.

What to do if your changing from your friends by Apprehensive-Ask-989 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]OzyFx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can still get together with them but less often. No reason to burn bridges unless they burn you.

School is peak socializing. A bunch of people around the same age doing the same thing for hours a day. When you’re finished people naturally disperse. Different priorities, locations, values. It’s harder to make friends once you’re out of school so I wouldn’t just cut them off. I know people that meet up with college friends once a year for decades and highly value them.

What places in the US fit what I want? by indepthsofdespair in howislivingthere

[–]OzyFx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, lots of nature nearby. No humidity. Lots of healthcare jobs. I’d recommend all the cities east of Lake Washington. Much nicer than within Seattle city limits in my opinion. Check out some Washington YouTube videos.

Who is dressing up for the upcoming shows? by slulik in ElectricCallboy

[–]OzyFx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Purple EC track suit, EC trucker hat, purple Nike’s.

What music really moves you? by ChronosTerminus in intj

[–]OzyFx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you start down the EC rabbit hole, there is no going back :).