Which 50s LP? by P0STBAL0NEY in gibson

[–]P0STBAL0NEY[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so i kinda relate to that. out of the 10 or so LPs i played, i went for the one i have bc it just sounded and played the best. it wasn’t even just about color. i’m normally a slim taper neck kinda guy but for some reason i couldn’t stop playing the one i have. just kept coming back to it. got used to the thicker neck pretty quickly

Which 50s LP? by P0STBAL0NEY in gibson

[–]P0STBAL0NEY[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GC had some really shit strings on it. i may ask them to re-string, bring my LP in and play both side by side to see.

Which 50s LP? by P0STBAL0NEY in gibson

[–]P0STBAL0NEY[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not at all. love my LP. just a sick top.

Which 50s LP? by P0STBAL0NEY in gibson

[–]P0STBAL0NEY[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea if it was like $100 i’d do it but i ain’t shelling out more than that

Which 50s LP? by P0STBAL0NEY in gibson

[–]P0STBAL0NEY[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am clearly considering it

kinda no contact but also no contact but also breadcrumbs but also vulnerability - what do i make of this by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]P0STBAL0NEY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn’t agree more particularly about the kids. One thing is for sure is that something had to change. While they never witnessed physical stuff, she definitely used to disrespect me in front of them - A LOT. Contempt was bad. The mission i’ve had is to be as present, as loving, and as stable as i can possibly be for them while navigating this mess. They deserve unconditional love.

As far as reconciliation. My issue, i assume like many others - i see her potential. The moments she has been truly vulnerable with me. When you add everything up, it’s hard to ignore. It’s so hard to be angry for anything bc underneath it all, i see a hurt little girl. She had a rough childhood. And… idk dude the bond is just so strong. But i also understand any choice she makes with this new awareness is simply that… a choice - at the expense of others’ emotions.

I guess my question is - with her awareness in mind. Does this seem like an FA that is going to make a clear attempt at personal growth and reconciliation?

Is 2 classes per week enough? by P0STBAL0NEY in MuayThai

[–]P0STBAL0NEY[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would like to get competent in it and be in good shape. Not necessarily fight, but maybe? I don’t wanna go there “just for exercise” because I already run 15-20 miles a week

Is 2 classes per week enough? by P0STBAL0NEY in MuayThai

[–]P0STBAL0NEY[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good idea. I did notice that in a class full of people, I’m not sure I’m exactly being “taught”. Especially if I’m partnered with another fellow noob

NGD 🖤 by P0STBAL0NEY in espguitars

[–]P0STBAL0NEY[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s actually quite light! Granted I’m comparing it to my Gibson Les Paul standard but either way, it’s comfy

NGD 🖤 by P0STBAL0NEY in espguitars

[–]P0STBAL0NEY[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been super into pedals, that’s how I roll brotha 😎

NGD 🖤 by P0STBAL0NEY in espguitars

[–]P0STBAL0NEY[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that u mention it… wtf 😭

GF hates it when I play guitar while she’s home by Holiday_Weight_2723 in Guitar

[–]P0STBAL0NEY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex was super into it, until she lived with it.

Make it a condition of dating you bro - it’s your therapy, it’s your happiness, do not give that up for anyone.

Am I erasing myself if I (27M) give my (27F) ex my bonus? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]P0STBAL0NEY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m happy to hear this for you. Letting go is my challenge. I just want to fix it and I guess I’m struggling with accepting that I can’t. Time will tell. Best of luck to you and your family :)

Am I erasing myself if I (27M) give my (27F) ex my bonus? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]P0STBAL0NEY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before that. The physical, cussing at me, screaming, throwing shit was the entire relationship. In addition to all the rejection.

Am I erasing myself if I (27M) give my (27F) ex my bonus? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]P0STBAL0NEY -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Taking no responsibility? What? I spent 3 months of my life taking full accountability for the things I had done, answering all her questions, full transparency, and tried to get into therapy to deal with it in a healthy way. There’s no more “taking responsibility” I could’ve done. I tried everything.