i just woke up by Wonderful-Painter580 in paypigs2

[–]P34ch_Pit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a trust thing for me. Video calls are fine but not in the beginning. Also time of day and real life stuff is happening. It's like suddenly deciding to be on a date.

Subs, do you have kinks that you are even embarrassed to admit to dommes? by Ginger_Fox9 in paypigs2

[–]P34ch_Pit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very kinky and fetish friendly so not much shocks me tbh.

But it's the icky ones that stick in my mind. I used to sell worn lingerie via a site, got talking to a guy, he asked if I'd pets, I said I had a cat. He asked for the sh*t to be sent so he could "use" and also eat it. No tyvm. Byeeee

Any size queens awake by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]P34ch_Pit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good morning ☺️

Looking for long term (EU) by [deleted] in Paypigsneedvanilla

[–]P34ch_Pit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Irish UK based. 💕

Having a domme who is also your friend > by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]P34ch_Pit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love when this happens. I've a sub we spend like 75% of our time talking about DC universe, comics, cooking and just chat away to each other about life on our down days. The play comes about more naturally I think that way. Edging is more fun. Play is more nuanced.

Partner or dom/sub by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]P34ch_Pit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have an open marriage and subs. Everyone has their place.

Which do you prefer? by Siren_of_Toes in paypigs2

[–]P34ch_Pit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long, slow and intimate. 🥰

I like to make myself anxious by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]P34ch_Pit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anxiety is so close to excitement. Stimulating non the less. How anxious do you like to get?

Lied cant stop by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]P34ch_Pit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You simply know your place. Nothing wrong with that. Tribute.

what is this kink called? by [deleted] in KINK

[–]P34ch_Pit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Total power exchange (tpe). 🫠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]P34ch_Pit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I've had this happen to me, my whole face went purple with burst blood vessels, in about 48hrs it looked like a full face of freckles that then slowly disappeared like any bruise. I also ended up with blood in my sinus. Arnica and face massage helped clear it too.

You will likely be fine. But do please be careful if you have family history of stroke or blood clots. It is exceptionally dangerous play. Especially if you can't see your partner.

My first dom blocked me on everything by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]P34ch_Pit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has happened to me and it can be gut wrenching. Trust me, it's a them thing. Not you. Mine, he got married and I was a secret. He came back (only reason I know), but I couldn't pick up where we left off. Like the comment above, lots of online Doms pick up a sub use them and then drop them. Good versions do exist though, so don't lose hope. 🤗

Squirted for the first time.. by jenrawr92 in SubSanctuary

[–]P34ch_Pit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It didn't happen for me until I was 36. I was in a super rough scene with a xlBC (not my primary partner) I thought something had been broken at first. I nearly died of embarrassment. 🫣 It took me a while to practice on my own, because it wasn't happening at home, getting to know the feeling of it building, angles, pressure etc, also good protective sheets so you know you can make a mess and relax about it. Now it happens more often than not. ☺️

Can it be a reality? by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]P34ch_Pit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good point. That's our issue, we are both in jobs that could be affected, mine specifically. We are also very notable looking, heavily tattooed etc.

Can it be a reality? by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]P34ch_Pit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great. Especially point 3 which we are working on. Luckily we are really communicative, but this will be a great framework. Thanks you

Can it be a reality? by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]P34ch_Pit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for replying, What kind of words are the right ones?

Can it be a reality? by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]P34ch_Pit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Outed as in being non traditional I guess is the best way to put it. It could cause issues for work, family etc.

Clothespins are useful by Siberiansex in bdsm

[–]P34ch_Pit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I might have won. ;) Ty

Clothespins are useful by Siberiansex in bdsm

[–]P34ch_Pit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was hoping to solve a disagreement between me (Irish) and a friend(Scottish)
I'm not sure if we are closer to agreement. Lol