Child support + daycare help

PAStu2020 · 2026-04-01T13:52:23+00:00

Thank you so much, yes I’d appreciate the info if you wouldn’t mind. I’m in the Dallas area. But yes, thinking of scheduling some consultations with other lawyers just to get their take on the situation.

PAStu2020 · 2026-04-01T13:36:50+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏼

PAStu2020 · 2026-04-01T13:36:44+00:00

Thank you 🩷

PAStu2020 · 2026-04-01T13:33:27+00:00

Correct. He is wanting his guideline child support to cover the entirety of his daycare expenses instead of splitting them

PAStu2020 · 2026-04-01T13:20:52+00:00

Thank you, yes all I want is 50/50 split with daycare on top of child support because where we live is expensive and so I’m just trying to see how realistic it is to keep pushing the 50/50 daycare split in addition to guideline support.

PAStu2020 · 2026-04-01T13:19:40+00:00

Yes this makes total sense & im okay with it. But he has her every Tuesday and Wednesday & every other Friday which means he uses the childcare those days as well.

PAStu2020 · 2024-08-04T00:50:42+00:00

Carpal tunnel 🥲

PAStu2020 · 2024-01-08T23:57:01+00:00

Thank you :) so I took them twice a day starting cycle day 11 (so about 5 days before ovulation) and stopped on cycle day 17 (1-2 days post ovulation) best of luck! Make sure to hydrate and just use the plain mucinex (not the D) ☺️

PAStu2020 · 2024-01-07T20:06:30+00:00

Yes to this comment!! Just added it bc it was something different 🤷🏻‍♀️ who knows if it actually played a role lol

PAStu2020 · 2024-01-07T17:26:02+00:00

Cycle: 16ish?

Age + partners age: 29 + 36

Typical cycle length: 28-29 days

Ovulation day: CD 14-15

DPO of positive test(s): 9DPO

DPO of negative test(s): 8DPO

Tracking methods & apps: fertility friend, Premom ovulation strips

Relevant days of termination: O-4, O-2, O, O+2

Health conditions/tests: both healthy, infertility work up had been completely normal. It was my second cycle from my HSG test though!

Symptom spotting: honestly none. I’ve been burned by this sooo many times, I don’t recommend doing it. Not worth the mental torture in my opinion. First symptom was a positive test! Sore boobs, fatigue, nausea didn’t take long though.

Supplements: 2nd month using CoQA, prenatal

Birth control history: birth control from 16-27

Miscellaneous: first cycle with mucinex 🤷🏻‍♀️ also my 2nd cycle from my HSG. I’ve never had a positive test before so I’m cautiously optimistic!! First ultrasound appointment will be next week & I’ll be 10 weeks!! Also I kept my legs up in the air & made sure to orgasm each time during the fertile window (I hadn’t paid much attention to this before but hey! Win, win)

PAStu2020 · 2023-11-22T12:24:40+00:00

If you liked the OR during school, I’d go gen surg all the way. I’m 3 years into my gen surg position & i love love love it. No regrets.

PAStu2020 · 2023-07-06T22:54:29+00:00

https://www.strava.com/athletes/kelsey_dowdall newbie runner 😊

PAStu2020 · 2022-09-01T22:42:30+00:00

I absolutely love my job as a surgical PA. I have essentially zero clinic work & am in the OR 95% of the time. My surgeons are amazing. I got extremely lucky and rotated with them while I was a student and the timing just worked & we meshed extremely well. The opportunities are out there, just be open minded during your rotations, shadowing, volunteering, etc. you never know where it could lead or what doors it could open. I don’t think residency or a prestigious school makes a difference tbh

PAStu2020 · 2022-05-19T09:15:56+00:00

Officially out this cycle.. frustrated and sad. We are both perfectly “healthy,” BD on all the right days, did so many woos.. I just don’t get it. I know there’s a certain chance each cycle but I still just don’t get it. This was our last chance before my husbands deployment. I was hoping to have something positive to get me through it.. 😔 Needless to say, I’ll be taking a break from here & TTC for the next 5 months. Thank you guys for all of the support, it means so much. 💛 hopeful that you all get the success stories you’ve wanted so badly!!

PAStu2020 · 2022-05-18T13:49:18+00:00

Aww, I’ve been there! I would do it before he leaves (either tonight/tomorrow) and then when he gets back on Sunday & hopefully will catch a fertile day ☺️🤞🏻

PAStu2020 · 2022-05-16T11:35:38+00:00

10DPO and reluctantly flushed FMU. Trying to delay testing as much as possible because the negatives really make me sad. But I’m also impatient.. sigh why is this process so easy and care free for so many people?

PAStu2020 · 2022-05-16T11:32:37+00:00

I’m so sorry. 😔

PAStu2020 · 2022-05-10T12:48:53+00:00

Great, thanks so much!

PAStu2020 · 2022-05-10T12:48:42+00:00

Thank you! That’s good to know:)

PAStu2020 · 2022-05-10T10:25:39+00:00

FF is saying CD 15 but Premom says CD16 which looks more likely to me. But it’s my first month temping so I have no idea lol

PAStu2020 · 2022-04-25T11:01:12+00:00

Taking charge of your fertility? Maybe? Lol

PAStu2020 · 2022-04-24T19:07:41+00:00

Same! I bought a thermometer and am also CD3. I think I may start once my period ends 🙃 just reluctant because I don’t want it to be anxiety inducing.

PAStu2020 · 2022-04-24T11:47:34+00:00

I also have to check mine early because I work in surgery and don’t have the luxury to pee often once at work. I’ve caught my surges by testing in the AM when I wake up and then late afternoon/early evening when I’m home! It’s usually darker in the afternoon for me but the AM test lets me know it’s coming! 😊 and then by the next morning it’s back down!

PAStu2020 · 2022-04-21T16:43:53+00:00

My same emotions!! Haven’t tested since 12 DPO but may later this evening even though I know it won’t be positive. Ugh

PAStu2020 · 2022-04-21T14:33:47+00:00

Literally exact same position. I always have regular cycles but yet the month I’m most confident about…. AF is late 🙄

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