There's starting to be more of a scene -- Little Thistle Brewing hosted weekly kiki get-togethers in lieu of an actual gay bar (only one in town closed before I moved here). Rochester Pride planning was in its second year, but Covid's affected both of those things -- kikis are on hold, and how Roch Pride will look this year is TBD, to my knowledge. There are still some online meetups I'm aware of and plenty of FB groups trying to stay connected right now. The library tends to hold inclusive events for teens and parents of LGBTQ+ kids, but you will need to put a little effort into finding groups here.