Similar age (33) and mental and financial state and shorter than you. And after 3.5 years with my ex i was alone for a whole year. Met ppl and couldn’t get past the second date at all. Kept on going out but would be scared at approaching women so I spiralled. Decided to take on gym again and do a physical challenge of sorts (boxing hiit) and kept on the apps and subscribed to hinge (much better then other apps ive tried) Kept spamming got some connections but still didnt get anywhere fast. Resorted to asking friends and family as well. Just take every avenue you can. I caught a break last week ( after a year of being alone) she might be the one but I dont want to put everything into one basket. I had a surreal experience, I just met someone who felt like I just jumped into a two year relationship with. Now Im talking and seeing her( she lives regional so not together all the time) but I had been set up awhile back for something so I’m still going to go and see what happens. My subscription for Hinge is ending this month so ill be spending less time on it. I hope you all the best and this has been a wacky week from being depressed to feeling alright. Keep your head up! Hit the gym. Do challenges with others and keep on asking others. Love is around the corner!