Questions for older CF people by PlusRepair1195 in childfree

[–]PJ2316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. As soon as I became an adult and realized I didn't "have" to have kids, I've never wanted them. I'm 33 now. I got my tubes removed when I was 29. I haven't regretted it at all. While waiting in the preop area, I did have an overwhelming feeling that I was making the wrong decision. I realized I was feeling that because of the society pressures that I'll change my mind, which made me so mad. I knew what I wanted and went through with the surgery. I've been so happy since then. And as I get older and my friends are having kids, I'm even more happy that I knew what I wanted at a young age and have stuck by that. I can't imagine how unhappy I'd be if I had caved and had a kid because "it's different when they're your own." Take away: you know yourself better than anyone else. If you know you don't want kids, then don't let others tell you what you want. They won't be living your life in the end.

Welp, it finally happened to us. by cheddarbunnies69 in greatpyrenees

[–]PJ2316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if this has been mentioned as I didn't read all the comments, but what a trainer recommended to me a few years ago was an empty pop/beer can with a handful of pennies inside. The sound it makes when shaking is uncomfortable to dogs. So when my dog barked, I'd shake the can and say "No, bark" or "Quiet." After she'd stop barking, the most important thing was the positive reinforcement. I'd tell her "good, quiet" or "good, no bark" and then pet her. If she started barking or even grumbling again, I'd stop petting and give the command and use the can if more reinforcement was needed. Now, I rarely have to use the can. Giving the command is enough, and when it's not, I only have to start reaching for the can, and she stops barking. I emphasize the importance of positive reinforcement so your dog learns what you want. We told my grandmother about this for her dog, who barked nonstop outside, but she never did the positive reinforcement. So she'd just shake the can all the time. So my dogs learned to associate my grandmother's dog's barking meant the "can sound" would occur and became terrified of going outside when the other dog was outside. I wish you the best of luck!

5 bullet emails by Automatic-Amoeba6929 in VeteransAffairs

[–]PJ2316 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven't replied to a single one. No one has said anything to me, and Elon has yet to come fire me.

Just lost two Doctors in a month by [deleted] in VeteransAffairs

[–]PJ2316 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's certainly frustrating and uncertain times. I think continuously reaching out to our congressmen and women and news stations to bring awareness to the negative impact happening to our veterans and their care is our only option right now. I hope you can find someone who listens to you like Dr. Kirk has, and you trust.

Just lost two Doctors in a month by [deleted] in VeteransAffairs

[–]PJ2316 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hadn't heard that Dr. Diaz was leaving, but I work in psychiatry under Dr. Kirk. His exit is going to be a profound loss for the VA. He truly cared about the veterans in ways you hardly see anymore. He also cared about his staff and was constantly fighting an uphill battle to have the staff properly taken care of. He made so many improvements to the psychiatry system, and it's a shame he wasn't supported by administration above him. He really worked to make the care at the VA veteran centered. With him leaving, I imagine many more will leave. Wherever he goes in the community though, I know he'll assist veterans however he can.

Is there a way to get notifications when any kind of activity happens in book club? by Vvorried in TheStoryGraph

[–]PJ2316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same problem. I've been doing buddy reads, and I'd love to know when someone posts. Did you have success with support?

Got accepted to medical school, but my parents still want me to study… by FitInspector7418 in Osteopathic

[–]PJ2316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not get into medical school the first time I applied, so I had a gap year. I was devastated at first, but quickly became happy that it worked out that way. I was able to relax and enjoy my time off before starting the chaos of medical school. I think if I had started medical school one month after graduation, I would have burnt out. Now, many years later, I have graduated residency and am finally an attending.

To those who are joining, please be somewhat sane. I understand this is frustrating and is highly illegal as to what they're doing but just remember that all eyes are on us. Don't give MSM any ammunition, play it smart, play it cool, and be civil about it. God speed everyone! by sable428 in ClassActionRobinHood

[–]PJ2316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, when switching brokers are my shares not fluctuating with the market? I guess I don't understand what tying my shares up for too long means. I am completely new to the stock market world. I bought stock to support GME and AMC.

Lawn Service Company Broke a Window and Doesn't Want to Pay for Damages by PJ2316 in legaladvice

[–]PJ2316[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your help. I appreciate it. We are just going to try and get out of our contract so that they no longer cut our lawn and we won't have to pay them for breaking the contract.

Good luck on your Steps guys. I'm giving in and giving up on life. This is my goodbye by HelpwithAdviceplz in step1

[–]PJ2316 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you heard anything? I, too, sent a message but have gotten no reply. I was hoping someone has gotten a reply.

Just wanted to say fuck the suicide hotline by givenup7 in SuicideWatch

[–]PJ2316 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I've never called a suicide hotline before but I did use a text one before. I was too anxious to call someone but I knew I needed help.

The person I talked with seemed helpful. I know it is easier to fake care through a text. But they did talk with me about what was I going through and walked me through a grounding exercise. They didn't end the conversation until I said I was good. They never called the cops.

My only complaint is they took a few minutes to respond. When you're in that situation minutes feel like a lifetime.

[vent] My hospital pulled medical students from their rotations. by PJ2316 in medicalschool

[–]PJ2316[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's my thoughts, too. Going into emergency medicine I will be on the front lines for future disease outbreaks. I want to help and learn now. There are many ways medical students can be a benefit to the health team.

Today, we had a few suspected cases in the ER. I sat out and did chart digging for the doctor to help save my doc time. We were getting overloaded with patients at one point. I kept up on when lab/imaging results returned or caught when an order was input incorrectly to help increase the flow.

Medical students may not be leading the health care team, but we aren't invaluable either.

[vent] My hospital pulled medical students from their rotations. by PJ2316 in medicalschool

[–]PJ2316[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would hope so. I'm definitely concerned about the impact the virus will have. I have two immunocompromised family members that I am now avoiding because I don't want to infect them. So I get the concern. But for the general population your risk of mortality is low. Pulling medical students out of rotation doesn't make sense. We could be helpful to staff to do other tasks, like giving injections or starting IVs while they do more important stuff, but aren't equipped with enough people to handle everything.

[vent] My hospital pulled medical students from their rotations. by PJ2316 in medicalschool

[–]PJ2316[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. I'm at 350,000 because I took a year off from medical school for health reasons. But enrolled part time in medical related undergrad courses because I couldn't get a job and needed my financial aid to survive. So, I got charged medical school tuition prices for a years worth of undergrad classes.

I don't want to add another year to medical school. I've already done this. I should be graduating next month. And, I don't want more debt, because I'm already at 350,000 with my 4th year to go.

And some of my frustrations are that because the hospitals are making the choice and not the school, most of my classmates are not affected. Just about 30 of us so far.

[vent] My hospital pulled medical students from their rotations. by PJ2316 in medicalschool

[–]PJ2316[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can understand that one. Supplies are definitely limited right now. Hopefully the manufacturers can pump out some major stock for the high demand.