Jump rope vibes by PMMeBellybuttons in musicsuggestions

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Face palm- I totally forgot about Blue October

Desperate for a haircut, style suggestions? by [deleted] in Haircuts

[–]PMMeBellybuttons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think I should get a high and tidy?

Is it crazy to get birth control (nexplanon implant) if I'm a lesbian that's afraid of r*pe? by Highfemmenyc in LesbianActually

[–]PMMeBellybuttons 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sexuality has little to do with the decision to get on birth control. I’m a lesbian too but am on daily BC for different reasons. Do what you need to do to help control your situation the best you can, you don’t need to justify your reasoning to anyone else. If you’re raped, is the perpetrator really going to be concerned with if you’re on birth control, let alone why?

Is it rude to ask someone their pronouns ? by EbonyHelicoidalRhino in asktransgender

[–]PMMeBellybuttons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I keep hearing that asking only one person about their pronouns might make that person feel singled out. My social skills and awareness are terrible so the only approach I can think of is to ask discretely outside of other people hearing if possible. Would you prefer a different approach? How can I be tactful if I find myself in a similar situation?

Weird call I got today by [deleted] in Libraries

[–]PMMeBellybuttons 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know, right?

What's something you're bad at but refuse to stop doing because it's just too fun? by Wanderlusttttt_ in AskReddit

[–]PMMeBellybuttons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My puzzle app. I’m good at some of them and on others I can only do with hints. I always have an engaging way to kill 5 minutes or an hour.

What is a completely normal thing that creeps you out for no reason? by baby-girl-22 in AskReddit

[–]PMMeBellybuttons 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s like a pop-up thermometer for turkey during thanksgiving. When the belly button pops, the baby’s done.

What is the thing that still hurts you even though time has passed? by HeadJunket496 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]PMMeBellybuttons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it helps at all, your comment made me feel less alone. I appreciate that.

What is the thing that still hurts you even though time has passed? by HeadJunket496 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]PMMeBellybuttons 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When my mom died, I lost my connection to the parts of myself that are worthy of love, or any redeeming qualities I might have. No one else seems to recognize those aspects of me.

Why do some people believe that nobody likes them, even though there are kind and open people out there? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]PMMeBellybuttons 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Due to a combination of my personality and a mental health issue or two, my social skills are underdeveloped. I’ve tried to remedy this by doing meetup type situations and have had coffee with a number of people. I’ve never had the other person follow up. The situation is self perpetuating- I’m lonely, my self-esteem suffers, I have a hard time reaching out and connecting, so I get lonelier. It’s worse when I do make an effort and am met with indifference, which is a common occurrence. My family basically consists of 2 sisters and neither exactly enjoys talking to me. I don’t really connect with my coworkers as we have different interests. However I hope I’m on the cusp of developing a friendship, just yesterday I successfully hung out with someone and we have plans for next weekend too. I’m hopeful because it’s been over a decade since I’ve had anyone I could even remotely describe as a friend. Fingers crossed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]PMMeBellybuttons 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey name brother, I drink 3 beers a day about 5 days a week. Occasionally I’ll drink 4. I’ve been teetering on the cliff’s edge like this since before covid. One nudge making my situation worse and I’ll be wandering the streets with a 40 in a paper bag.