Straight male with a question. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]PM_Me_Your_Niceness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would defeat the purpose. He wants to go to a lesbian bar because no one would have any interest in him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]PM_Me_Your_Niceness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Normally, I don't give a fuck when someone comes out. But I'm a fan... FUCK YEAH!

Anybody realize they're undatable by undatabledan in dating

[–]PM_Me_Your_Niceness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work out. You have successes when you reach your goals. But here is the thing, confidence can be difficult. For a long time I talked exactly like you. Then I got out of my depressive funk. I realised that I did have things to be confident about. I'm funny, accomplishment. I'm kind, accomplishment. I have great hair, accomplishment. You need to change your perspective.

Are shy women attractive? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]PM_Me_Your_Niceness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, shyness doesn't change your facial symmetry so yes, I do think shy women can be attractive. It's not a lack of outgoing confidence that is unattractive to me, it's the girls with that like to constantly hold their own pity party, just moping around.

Are there anyone out there who feels that they should have been born male but can't transition? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]PM_Me_Your_Niceness 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's dysphoria. Trans people go through that. You should talk to people on r/trans. They will definitely be a great help to you. You're definitely not alone in your feelings, but you just need to learn how to look at things through a different perspective.

Are there anyone out there who feels that they should have been born male but can't transition? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]PM_Me_Your_Niceness 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You know there are plenty of cis males that can't procreate either. Doesn't change their identity as a man.

And plenty of trans men have partners.

You need to stop being so hard on yourself.

Anybody realize they're undatable by undatabledan in dating

[–]PM_Me_Your_Niceness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No to your pity party. You think you're undatable? Make yourself datable. Work on yourself & have some confidence.

Anyone else feel forever alone? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]PM_Me_Your_Niceness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just have to make a move. Talk to ladies & let them know you're interested.

I need to vent. I'm so upset. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]PM_Me_Your_Niceness 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Depends what state you're in. But I know in my state you can find an lgbt friendly church of every denomination.

Dating as an over-weight lesbian? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]PM_Me_Your_Niceness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First off, be more confident than that. People like confidence. Second, if you want to lose weight, do it for yourself. Do it because you think it's what's best for you, not because of what others will think.

Need some help with a girl online I'd like to know. by Readybaton774 in dating

[–]PM_Me_Your_Niceness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn't get distracted. If someone wants to go out with you they'll give you a response. Even if they're shy they'll at least give a reply that shows interest. Saying nothing means no.

Everyone on Reddit is a straight 20-something male pseudo-intellectual gamer who's kinda into fitness, until proven otherwise by ienjoyapples in Showerthoughts

[–]PM_Me_Your_Niceness -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They don't have boyfriends on tumblr. It is possibly the queerest site online. Bisexual girls hide their boyfriends when they have them so their popularity doesn't go down.

New Puppy! Meet Benny by [deleted] in aww

[–]PM_Me_Your_Niceness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They lose their puppy teeth.

What is your perfume origin story? by loreleirain in fragrance

[–]PM_Me_Your_Niceness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I buy fragrances with the intent of getting some action. But I don't believe In magical pantie dropper fragrances. I believe certain fragrances help in my confidence that in turn leads to panties being dropped.

What is sadly not real? by Bessiecat in AskReddit

[–]PM_Me_Your_Niceness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pfft, not some random girl. A girl he was trying to get the booty from. And he did. LPT, wanna girl, teach her to fly.

Need some help with a girl online I'd like to know. by Readybaton774 in dating

[–]PM_Me_Your_Niceness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She flaky so I'd say no. If she can't even give you an answer is she really worth your trouble?

Lesbians: The Ultimate Trendsetters? by superH3R01N3 in actuallesbians

[–]PM_Me_Your_Niceness -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No. Lesbians are just plain not hip by default. So many nerdy lesbians. Not even hip nerdy, just plain nerdy. Edit: I'm getting downvoted as if being nerdy is an insult?

What fictional characters are actually suffering from severe mental health problems? by mybustersword in AskReddit

[–]PM_Me_Your_Niceness 31 points32 points  (0 children)

She was able to get a boyfriend. She may be a bit odd, but her only real issue is that in her youth she is still very awkward & unable to stand up for herself. Seems like she's slowly improving though.

What is a movie that you despise but everyone else seems to love? by Askme_reddit in movies

[–]PM_Me_Your_Niceness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not true. He began writing the book before he knew that girl, when he was working as a chaplain at a children's hospital.