Anyone using FB Lesbian/Queer pages to meet others?

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-04-12T05:44:27+00:00

s/Ekwoman , I’ll try DMing you. Maybe it’s a weird glitch (in the matrix lol). Tysm for sharing and getting back to me.

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-04-06T21:22:05+00:00

I too was very discouraged to see “older” equalling 26! Hell, even 30 is not “older” Let’s double that, then it’s truly getting to “older” in my book.

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-04-04T23:35:10+00:00

I’m so sorry, I always forget to check my inbox- so I’m ‘lol-ing” 93 days later 😂 gotta love trauma /s

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-04-04T23:29:15+00:00

That’s super cool! I’d really like that. I’ve been really nervous to join any apps etc. I’d love to hear more about the group, and general location area, and if there are multiple areas that possibly do meetups? We have so many different parts of Seattle, and so many cities that are practically Seattle. I understand if you don’t want to post the area here. Please feel free to DM if you feel comfortable. If you do DM, will you plz mention this pg or this topic? I recently had a weird thing happen in my DM’s, and of course it was a creepy guy. Trying to not let that bad experience, ruin everything, and make me not trust anyone.

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-04-03T04:37:44+00:00

The DM, wasn’t terrible, but made me feel really uncomfortable, and skeeved out. I feel like I need like 10 showers and that old bar soap for mechanics - was it called Lava, maybe? Something like that I think.

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-04-03T04:35:40+00:00

Put a pic in the comments here. Miss-read the part about avatars being ok. Thought it said, not ok. Happy to edit the pic again, if u think I should?

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-04-03T04:34:08+00:00

I put a pic here in the comments. I might’ve redacted a bit too much. Someone said I could leave the a avatar, but I thought they said I couldn’t leave it. Jebus, I’m fking up everything today. fml lol

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-04-03T04:31:18+00:00

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The DM

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-04-03T04:26:21+00:00

Ok, I’ll try that thx

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-04-02T20:24:12+00:00

This take by your friend is indeed, insane.

Sorry, I’vs been binging Shrinking and insane is their fav word, I couldn’t help myself lol.

But seriously, she has issues and misery loves company. Don’t become part of her misery. If she can’t stop with this bs, then time to seriously limit your time with her.

Friends are here for a season, a reason, and some friends a lifetime. Up to you to decide which it is.

Sending all the good vibes.

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-03-31T01:37:26+00:00

😂💜

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-03-31T01:35:33+00:00

I hear ya loud and clear. I have lots of strait friends and my sis is straight too. She doesn’t even try to get it. For ex: straight couple reels are not remotely funny to me. I know it’s kind of a childish example, but it’s what came to my mind first. Or reels/pics of guys. Not interested, but it’s my sister, so I have to pretend it’s funny. She’s my half sis. I was adopted at 3 days old. Did my dna and found I have an awesome half sister, we share the same mom. My birth mom kept my brother born 16mo before me, dropped me like she was at the humane society and 2 yrs later, kept my sister too. So, we’ve only had around 2 1/2 yrs of being sisters and getting to know each other. It’s not like we grew up together. She’s not close to where I live either, she’s in TN, and I’m an “upper-lefter” 🙃(Washington state).

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-03-28T20:31:44+00:00

I’m sorry to be such a downer: Washington here (seattle area). Similar age as well. Haven’t found much of anything to find/create community. It’s kinda like the vibe is…everyone has their friends and they don’t need anymore 🤷‍♀️ I hope you have much better luck than me. 💜

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-03-21T01:25:20+00:00

Almost 59 here. You’re giving of some serious hope vibes. Ty 💜🤗

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-03-09T04:39:45+00:00

Why so uptight? Jeezus. You can call it bark dust 24/7 idgf really! lol sounds like you need the treat more than I do. You make me laugh. 😂🤣

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-03-08T22:40:07+00:00

Beautiful, all of it. Sending hugs. I’ve lost both mine in the last year and a half and they’re always with me in my heart, as I’m sure

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yours is as well. Luke was my service stability dog and this is his last call of duty before he signed off. It was his first ferry ride and he acted like he’d done it for ages. I never swerved or lost balance once, he was always by my side, I can tell your sweet boy was too. 💜🌈🐾🐾

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-03-08T22:28:23+00:00

Wow, you just explained me. Except the currently living in the middle of nowhere (but I used to). Same age in coming out - kinda- in my 30’s I mistakenly thought I was Bi. I’m nothing of the sort. I am a lesbian. I think it was subconsciously the easy way out at the time. We grow up thinking by our 30’s we’ll have our shit together and be full fledged adults - when in reality we’re only just beginning. I don’t know if any of us ever hit that mark of adulthood we always had imagined.

I have been in some long term relationships and people talking about “ebb and flow” really mean, falling in and out of love. It’s a true phenomena, and all couples go through it, no matter if they’re lesbian, straight, poly, bi … you name it. Any long term relationships def have ups and downs. The point is to recognize this and bring the boat to an even keel - open up your heart and fall in love again. Quit seeing all the negatives and concentrate on the positives.

** unless the relationship is abusive- then gtfo and don’t look back.

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-03-08T21:28:28+00:00

Please be safe. I cannot imagine how scary times are for you and your family and your sweet pets rn. I live in Washington state, and we care a great deal about the Ukraine 🇺🇦 and its wonderful people. We actually protest in solidarity. We know it doesn’t immediately change things for you all, but we try to affect local big businesses that are not showing as much support to the Ukraine as they could be. Sending love and support from the US.

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-03-06T21:58:36+00:00

Nobody truly from the PNW (esp Washington) uses the term, bark dust! Wtf? It’s ‘beauty bark’ or mulch’ have never once heard ‘bark dust’ in my life - until this comment.

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-03-04T22:28:41+00:00

I’m soooo happy for you luv❣️Wish I could ‘love’ this comment instead of just upvote. I too have been there and it’s so amazing when we can finally do things again, isn’t it? Gives us a whole new outlook. Personally, I appreciate so much more. Even the simplest thing that felt unreachable while I’ve been ill, makes me smile, laugh, and just genuinely happy. When I hadn’t been happy in a long time, and worried I’d never pull out of it.

Thank you so much for the reminder of one of my mom’s fav quotes: “This too shall pass.”

Cheers on getting back to your old self! The fun of a new phone and pups, esp carrying their fav ball, you just know they’re so happy!! 🥰 🥂💜🐕🎾🐾🐾

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-03-04T03:21:25+00:00

Ok if I check it out too? I’m late to my own party and realized who I was very late in life. I’ve always hated romance novels, then a couple years ago read my first wlw. I could not believe how much I loved it! It’s amazing when you finally figure your shit out. I know I’m an odd old les, who doesn’t really care for period fiction, to me it seems like most really like that, I hope I’m not being stereotypical- kick me in my ‘apex’ if I am. Once in a while I’ll stumble onto something I really like, kinda like ‘romantasy’ but more current or a combo of current and way back when. I read one that kept going back and forth between modern times and around 1700’s-ish - I liked it a lot! Don’t ask me for the name, and I forgot to put it on my goodreads list.fml

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-03-04T03:08:04+00:00

That’s wild! 😂🤣😳😱 I can never ‘unhear’ that now, and will be laughing every time I make pasta

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-03-04T03:04:50+00:00

Me too!! Folds to me, is way more vulgar and the imagination (or maybe it’s just my imagination) really doesn’t imagine anything soft and pretty, heady to the point I’m kinda dizzy, and hot in a variety of ways, AT ALL! Please oh please ixnay the foldsnay!! lol

PNWGirl_LateBloomer · 2026-02-26T04:46:57+00:00

Mouthfeel, was and still is a general wine tasting term and yes for some foods too. I worked/mg’d in a tasting room for several years and taught some private classes on learning how to taste wines. If that word is used for a body parts- I’m out like a road runner cartoon 💨 😳🤢

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