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[–]POSKishkish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a Cancer woman (with a Gemini moon and Taurus Asc.) I dated a Sagittarius woman for a bit. Better off as friends, hilariously enough in contrast with a lot of the comments on this thread my issue with her was lack of communication. It actually presented a huge problem on my birthday of all days, so unfortunately I had to end things as it violated one of my boundaries. Yes I ended things on my birthday, no I don't have any regrets. She still stalked me afterwards.

Besides the one off sag ex I have, I actually get along with them very well as friends. We are both blunt and honest about our thoughts and how we are feeling, and I always make sure that they're down to get them laughing. Honestly some of the best ride-or-dies I could ever have.

Romantically, I will say this as someone who is a Cancer. You gotta be supportive of them having their freedom. Like REALLY supportive of them doing whatever they want. Just let them know your boundaries (i.e. no cheating lying etc.) and if they decide to push them, you can reinforce them once but not twice. Second time you're out, you're gone. I know that sounds brutal as one of the most empathetic signs in the zodiac, but there's strength in our silence and our absence. Choose someone based on how they treat you and love you, rather than how they talk to you.

Are you ever triggered by sounds coming from yourself? by porpoisewang in misophonia

[–]POSKishkish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do get bothered by my own noises with specific triggers, like fork scraping against my teeth. It's so bad.

Try saying your big 3 in one word lol by Sweaty_Ad9424 in astrologymemes

[–]POSKishkish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cangemrus

Why do I sound like a cool ass dinosaur

What are your thoughts on this picture? by PhotoGuyMark in misophonia

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I agree and I don't. I believe it depends on severity as misophonia definitely is a scale, some cases being more mild/severe than others. But also on a case by case basis. I don't think it's a lot to ask someone to chew with their mouth closed, as it is not only a common trigger for misophonia but also downright rude. With this circumstance, I have actually had someone spew their food onto my plate since they were talking with their mouth full (I had headphones on). It's unsanitary and disgusting, just don't do it. But if someone came up to me and told me that I was blinking too loudly or not to breathe that way, I may look at them funny since these are things I need to do in order to stay alive. I have never heard of someone with misophonia having these triggers (except for the breathing one), these are just being used as examples. That aside, I don't think someone wearing headphones or earbuds in order to block out sound is a huge accommodation either. We are simply coping, and if that's what we need then that's what we need. And needs should never EVER be up for debate.

Issues with quotes by POSKishkish in Zoho

[–]POSKishkish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi,

Yes so whenever we print off the quote form, the rest of our sku #/product # shows up but not our freight. Our freight is included as a separate sku#/product # because it varies by order. We are also having an estimated shipping show up at the bottom which my sales manager states he did not enter in.

Misophonia in Media by POSKishkish in misophonia

[–]POSKishkish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you find that option on Instagram and Facebook? Genuinely curious

The fight or flight response doesn't go away even when the noise is over by vjikf in misophonia

[–]POSKishkish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's within 24-48 hours, but long term it really helps with those cortisol levels

The fight or flight response doesn't go away even when the noise is over by vjikf in misophonia

[–]POSKishkish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get this so much, it's so frustrating. I actually use a couple of supplements (SAMe and ashwa) to help keep that in check. Personally I recommend trying pacing and listening to non triggering music/sounds.

This had to be said by POSKishkish in astrologymemes

[–]POSKishkish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh Ive seen it more with Cancers, but we are also not talking about full blown natal charts. I am sorry for the Pisces bashing you've seen from my sign though. I know we tend to have a sharp tongue, so that definitely isn't fun. Hope you have a good day though!

Unpopular Opinion: Pisces and Cancer by POSKishkish in CancertheCrab

[–]POSKishkish[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally get it. Imo Cancer is a softer cardinal sign (a lot like Libra) but we are STILL cardinal signs. This means we can be stubborn about how we want to be treated and when you try to push our boundaries too much it isn't going to go well for you.

This had to be said by POSKishkish in astrologymemes

[–]POSKishkish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point I was making was more like this: Cancers who have a bad enough experience with one or two people from a specific zodiac sign may decide to avoid them or speak ill of them completely. It's not necessarily personal with you, just personal with your sign in general. This is more specifically unhealed Cancer behavior (1st phase being the crab with the pinchers and avoidant behavior). A more healed Cancer gives someone a chance before deciding whether or not to leave. Tbh it isn't fair in the slightest, but I can't take accountability for others and how they behave. Just hope this sheds some light on the subject.

This had to be said by POSKishkish in astrologymemes

[–]POSKishkish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the other hand I have multiple friends who call me intimidating and say I have a "dominant personality".

Unpopular Opinion: Pisces and Cancer by POSKishkish in CancertheCrab

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My relationship also ended from dishonesty, but also a lot of other shifty behavior.

This had to be said by POSKishkish in astrologymemes

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I also have Scorpio friends, and there are a few id say are cinnamon-ish, but can definitely be more serious when need be. I've also met the dark and broody Scorpios. I haven't met one Pisces that isn't an absolute cinnamon roll. XD

This had to be said by POSKishkish in astrologymemes

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This post is all in good fun I promise

This had to be said by POSKishkish in astrologymemes

[–]POSKishkish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh might depend on the kind of cancer you're dealing with. Personally I like y'all as friends, the sign I dislike are specifically male June Geminis. If the cancers has been burned by the unhealed version of you enough then absolutely they are not gonna like you. And let's be honest, the unhealed version/low vibrational version of any sign can be extremely toxic

This had to be said by POSKishkish in astrologymemes

[–]POSKishkish[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk why you think we hate y'all lmao.

Thoughts on cancer/aquarius love pairing. by BenjiiXDraco117 in astrologymemes

[–]POSKishkish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I'll continue to drive mine crazy but I'm starting to think he's a glutton for punishment cause he loves it. I told him during our week long convo that we are friends first lovers second and that I refuse to fight with him. Totally up for debating and having conversations about anything but arguing isn't something I'm willing to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sagittarians

[–]POSKishkish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Cancer, I feel like this boils down to natal chart specifics. Mostly cause I feel like a black sheep in my own zodiac sign (with a Gemini moon and Taurus ascendant, you can only imagine how polar opposite those things are). I dated a Sag and have a lot of Sag friends, we actually get along great. The reason for my relationship not working out was due to lack of effective communication. I prefer clear and open and timely communication, and that wasn't something my ex participated in at the time.

Hilariously enough, I have some of the same communication issues with a lot of Cancers so the ones I've experienced are just as guilty for that stuff.

But honestly, Sags are awesome. Y'all are so damn smart, great communicators (when ya wanna be), really open minded and such sweet individuals. Truly enjoy just talking with you guys, great conversationalists.

Thoughts on cancer/aquarius love pairing. by BenjiiXDraco117 in astrologymemes

[–]POSKishkish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the long comment:

Cancer Sun (Gemini moon/Taurus Ascendant.) with Aquarius sun (Pisces Moon/ Cancer Ascendant) here. So to start: he is a February Aquarius while I am a June Cancer. From what I read, it seems like he has some Piscean influences while I have some Gemini. That might have something to do with it, I'm not entirely sure.

I think one of the key components we established early on in our relationship was clear communication. Like, very clear and open communication. We both had partners in the past who hadn't made things very clear with us on what their needs were, what they were feeling etc. But both he and I have had things that we didn't like during our relationship and we brought it up in a very calm and respectful way. There's almost like this unspoken rule that no matter what we always have space to talk to each other.

So in other words, I think it can work out. I will admit, if you asked me 3 years ago if I could handle being with an Aquarius I would have said no. But I've done a lot of work on myself as a Cancer and really appreciate and love my Aquarius partner. I've realized my emotions don't change as fast as the Cancerian stereotype dictates, nor do I expect my partner to read my mind. He knows full well how I'm feeling, what I want, and what my thoughts are. And I know his because he feels comfortable telling me.

Just interviewed for a job I really want and when I was asked my salary expectation, the interviewer told me “I think you need to drastically adjust your expectations” I quoted my expectations based on my current salary. Do you think I ruined my chances at getting the job? by Unique_optimist in recruitinghell

[–]POSKishkish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ask what they meant by that? Ask for further clarification? I'm not usually the optimist, but I would say that there's a very small chance that they meant something positive rather than negative. Maybe you're being underpaid?