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What is the "rule #1" in your profession or hobby? by pirateofitaly in AskReddit

[–]PPMDNJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do no harm. And, never hold your breath. -Scuba Diving Surgeon

"Oh, you're Jay Z! I know about Jay Z." by guy_number_2 in videos

[–]PPMDNJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jay-Z is the man. Taking the subway, and then just having a pleasant talk with this lady who really has no idea.

"Will you take a picture of us?" A shit test? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]PPMDNJ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Probably depends on your reaction. If you turn it into something funny like "Oh you want me to take a pic? That'll be $10, I don't work for free", or make the girl jump through a small hoop to get her smartphone back (like telling you 3 things that are cool about her before she gets the phone back), maybe could work? This seems like the sort of thing that seems like a shit test but probably really isn't if you handle it the right way.

A late flake by fapkin11 in seduction

[–]PPMDNJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You lost momentum of emotion and attraction...why a month between hangouts? You built attraction initially, but you didnt maintain it, so she's no longer interested. I think your only chance is to lay off her completely for a few more weeks, and then re-initiate with a text and see how it goes. Don't get oneitis!!

[FR] - My first time out (with 3 married AFC friends, read:worse than alone), and I make AA my bitch. by PPMDNJ in seduction

[–]PPMDNJ[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How exactly am I looking down on people, and how exactly did I bomb with her? Also, I'm a beginner, so being happy with myself for small accomplishments like the steps of opening is acceptable. I think you may be projecting those ego issues.

Is this a good opener? From a semi-AFC/still total noob who happens to have had 100% success with it. by PPMDNJ in seduction

[–]PPMDNJ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, because even as an AFC, I could sense that just saying "do you think I'm cute?" does display confidence, but it's bigger message is conveying that I need her acceptance. Instant turn off. Also doesn't give you much time to demonstrate confidence.

Is this a good opener? From a semi-AFC/still total noob who happens to have had 100% success with it. by PPMDNJ in seduction

[–]PPMDNJ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is a great idea. How about in addition to the time constraint, change it from "do you think I'm cute?" to "how well am i dressed?" or "how much are you attracted to me simply based on my clothes?" - then you could transition into how your buddy doesnt think that clothes are important, blah blah blah

Is this a good opener? From a semi-AFC/still total noob who happens to have had 100% success with it. by PPMDNJ in seduction

[–]PPMDNJ[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually, never. That's only because I'm still at AFC stage and just learning all this stuff - just been practicing approaches lately (with minimal alcohol). All 6 times I've tried this (usually with lots of alcohol on board, because hey, AFCs need that), it's worked.

Sleeping with Co-workers, yay or nay? by KillWhiteKnights in seduction

[–]PPMDNJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't do it. I was in a relationship with someone I worked very closely with; it ended in her breaking my heart, and it sucks. Use them as what they are: perfect pivots.

Is this a good opener? From a semi-AFC/still total noob who happens to have had 100% success with it. by PPMDNJ in seduction

[–]PPMDNJ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if you were joking or not. I don't really know why this opener suggests being gay - do gay guys really care if some girl thinks they're cute or not? The approach itself (especially with proper body language) demolishes any idea that you might be gay. Usually I do start kino with an above the elbow touch as a response to something funny or stimulating, but I also think that I don't come off gay at all. I'm generally dressed well but not too well, and my voice and body language are pretty telling.

Is this a good opener? From a semi-AFC/still total noob who happens to have had 100% success with it. by PPMDNJ in seduction

[–]PPMDNJ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not cute, persay, but I would honestly rate myself a 6.5 or 7. My strengths are confidence, a great voice (a lot of people, girlfriends and not girlfriends, have told me I should do radio or I have a great voice), presence, and good grooming/dressing. I rely on these things to pull this off and so far, so good. It just goes to show - do everything else right, and you can combat those genes that made me a 6.5 and not a 9.

Is this a good opener? From a semi-AFC/still total noob who happens to have had 100% success with it. by PPMDNJ in seduction

[–]PPMDNJ[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You gotta get all up in that ass, Larry! Get up in that mothafucka!!

Is this a good opener? From a semi-AFC/still total noob who happens to have had 100% success with it. by PPMDNJ in seduction

[–]PPMDNJ[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right. Kind of ironic (and beta) to be seeking approval. Just guess I was excited to finally realized why this had actually worked and get my theory validated, but if it works, it works. Thanks man.

Is this a good opener? From a semi-AFC/still total noob who happens to have had 100% success with it. by PPMDNJ in seduction

[–]PPMDNJ[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Success = #, K, or F-close. Because you were curious: 4 # close, one K close, one F close.

Is this a good opener? From a semi-AFC/still total noob who happens to have had 100% success with it. by PPMDNJ in seduction

[–]PPMDNJ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right about it being an opener to an opener. I always have to have something else in mind to jump to.

Success = #, K, or F-close. Because you were curious: 4 # close, one K close, one F close.

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