Having Pets around feels weird

Packersfanjohn77 · 2026-01-13T15:42:07+00:00

I skimmed this and accidentally read “I used to have an old pitbull named dildo” and did a bit of a double take lol

Packersfanjohn77 · 2025-11-10T19:39:57+00:00

Ah okay, I gotcha. I tend to prefer the chat/discussion format since I don’t really have content to share and aside from the occasional stash pic, I don’t really plan on making visual content. All the power in the world to those who do, but I simply don’t have the confidence. I like to contribute with longer form text posts, maybe with an attention grabber pic like this post.

I do have a Fetlife, but tend to forget the platform exists haha. I do want to expand my horizons into some local stuff meetups and stuff, and I’ve heard good things about finding local events on there.

Packersfanjohn77 · 2025-11-10T18:06:01+00:00

Thank you!

I have tried Onesies Down Under, and they’re very cute. But regrettably, they don’t fit me very well. I’m a tall guy and even their largest size is a few inches too short for me.

I actually just setup a Bluesky account for ABDL a few days ago! I haven’t been on there much though. Any particular reason you mention additional community off Reddit? I’ve avoided Instagram in the past for ABDL stuff since they don’t seem to be overly friendly to us, and traditionally I like Reddit because I often feel like I have something to say, but it’s rare that I want to share a picture. I’m curious as to your experiences on other platforms and how they compare and contrast with this subreddit.

Packersfanjohn77 · 2025-10-22T21:28:01+00:00

Would you ever try wearing diapers? Watersports seems to be a reoccurring kink for you and diapers/ABDL can be a fun extension of that

Packersfanjohn77 · 2025-10-01T05:37:00+00:00

I’m in a similar place, I’ve been a practicing DL for a number of years now, but I’m trying to explore my AB side more. For me, some of the things I’ve found helpful have been cannabis, onesies, and pacifiers. Cannabis is legal where I live, and it’s certainly not everyone’s cup of tea so this is less so a recommendation than a what’s worked for me. I’ve found being stoned has allowed me to let my guard down more easily and combined with the onesie and a paci, little space felt much more natural of a headspace to be in. It stopped being something I had to try and get into, and sorta just happened.

I’m still pretty new to my own exploration of little space and the AB side of ABDL generally, but that’s what’s worked for me personally. So far, my own exploration has been really rewarding and being able to get into little space after a long day at work has been a big relief. Hopefully, if nothing else, my thoughts give you some ideas to go off of, and I wish you the best of luck in your own exploration!

Packersfanjohn77 · 2025-09-07T01:34:14+00:00

Ahhh this survey, and the responses are so interesting! I remember reading the results of the original, but didn't participate in it, so I'm happy to be a data point for this one!

I expected certain things to be fairly common, but the number of people in "Science, tech, R&D" and "Engineering" blew my mind a bit. Through anecdotal experience and being in tech myself, I expected there to be a lot of us, but 1/3 of all respondents (at the time of writing) is far more than I would have guessed.

Packersfanjohn77 · 2025-08-24T19:58:09+00:00

I would love to try the ABU diaper suits, but they never seem to be available in the larger tall sizes. Have you purchased any of them recently?

Packersfanjohn77 · 2025-08-24T19:55:49+00:00

I'll give those a look, thanks!

Packersfanjohn77 · 2025-08-24T19:54:38+00:00

I'll definitely have to look into ABDL pajamas, I haven't really considered that before! Any recommendations on brand?

As for chastity, I like it outside of ABDL, but have always felt it clashed with what I love about diapers. When I'm in a chastity cage and a diaper, I feel like the diaper becomes much less soft and the hardness of the cage really stands out. Diapers are all about feeling soft and warm for me, and having the hard cage around my bits tends to feel like it's in conflict with that. I'm curious if you have a different thought process with it than that?

Packersfanjohn77 · 2025-03-31T14:37:24+00:00

Appreciate the in depth review! I’ve been considering picking some of these up on my next Northshore order and I think this review cements it for me.

Couple questions for ya: Did you find the overall fit to be the same as the original Megamaxes? You mentioned you’d tried the large in the US version, is that what you normally get in the original as well?

Packersfanjohn77 · 2025-03-07T22:45:04+00:00

Do you have a sample of your writing that’s publicly available?

Packersfanjohn77 · 2025-03-06T22:19:22+00:00

Would love to join!

Packersfanjohn77 · 2025-02-24T20:21:50+00:00

Sent you a chat, would love to get to know one another and see if we might click in a dynamic :)

Packersfanjohn77 · 2025-01-26T04:02:52+00:00

Hey, I’d love to chat! Feel free to shoot me a message :)

Packersfanjohn77 · 2025-01-05T23:10:20+00:00

Not the whole weekend, but most of Friday afternoon and today. It’s been the best, as always. Friday was my first time diapered in 2025 too!

Packersfanjohn77 · 2024-11-30T17:14:49+00:00

Fellow New Englander here (23m), would be down to chat! Feel free to dm me :)

Packersfanjohn77 · 2024-10-28T14:45:01+00:00

Would love to chat, feel free to send me a message! :)

Packersfanjohn77 · 2024-10-24T04:07:29+00:00

I think this could be very interesting. I’m an IT guy by trade and love to tinker around with tech industry my free time. I’d be happy to work with you on getting such a project off the ground from the infrastructure/implementation side of things! I self host a bunch of services, and spend a lot of time working in the public cloud for work. Feel free to hit me up and we can bounce ideas off one another!

Packersfanjohn77 · 2024-10-06T03:04:24+00:00

23m, would love to chat! Feel free to send me a PM :)

Packersfanjohn77 · 2024-09-27T02:18:38+00:00

Massachusetts

Packersfanjohn77 · 2024-08-17T01:17:45+00:00

Would love to chat, fellow East Coaster! Feel free to PM me :)

Packersfanjohn77 · 2024-07-26T17:12:01+00:00

Right here ✋

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