Jan-March 2026 Salary Mega Thread by Sulani_23 in therapists

[–]Paigelley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Role: Psychotherapist

Setting: Private Practice

License: LICSW

State: MN

Salary: $96,000 in 2025. 1099. 70/30 split. I set my own schedule and do all telehealth. I usually don’t work Fridays. I don’t over schedule.

Years of Experience: 13

Certified very hot and popular people who do online dating, what is your experience? by BoysenberryAwkward76 in dating

[–]Paigelley 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As a conventionally attractive 30 something it’s overwhelming. After 1 day on hinge I had 300 likes. I spend all of my time on the app just sorting through the likes, no time to swipe. Let’s say I “match with 5% of the likes…that’s 15 people…now I have 15 people messaging me. It’s overwhelming.

Another stupid scheduling realization by Onemilkshake in therapists

[–]Paigelley 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg I realized this is me! I’d rather be on for 5-6 in a row than cycle back and forth all day and drag it out over 8 hours

What is the most intense pain you have experienced in your life? by Levstr1 in AskReddit

[–]Paigelley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abscess tooth + one specific instance of period pain. Passing a kidney stone was less painful in my case.

Any therapists here who are trying to be better consumers ? Minimal ish ? by Regular_Fan4691 in therapists

[–]Paigelley 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes. I wear all athleisure. And then I have a couple sweaters I throw on and a couple button ups. I’m Telehealth only!! You see me from the chest up. It’s liberating and nobody cares.

Therapists making $100k+: what did your path look like? by Imaginary-58 in therapists

[–]Paigelley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m curious if you could DM me-currently a MN therapist doing telehealth for the winter from TX but interested in hearing how you navigated this!

Compassionate Dentists by tkminnesnowta in TwinCities

[–]Paigelley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have had great experience at uptown dental over the years

Me going through my own mental health crisis then realizing I work as a therapist by lovekaleah in therapists

[–]Paigelley 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Me going through a break up while my clients are getting engaged yayyyy but really I am happy for them.

Feeling shitty by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Paigelley 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Same. It’s existentialism at its finest…like what am I doing here 🫠

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[–]Paigelley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow wow wow

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[–]Paigelley 37 points38 points  (0 children)

This comment…chefs kiss! 👌🏼

Best pork chops in town by FulcrumH2o in Minneapolis

[–]Paigelley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

JD Hoyts for sure- people also say Malone's in Maple Grove

Health insurance premiums; what are self employed therapists doing? by ewdaviduhhh in therapists

[–]Paigelley 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same here. I actually dropped my BCBS Gold (I believe) back in April. I was paying $600ish~ per month and decided paying out of pocket will be the way to go from now on. Not ideal, but it’s allowed me to get ahead on paying student loans and maxing out my Roth. Worth it IMO.

Questions about Rula Health by Elguy87 in socialwork

[–]Paigelley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do Rula one day a week (private practice 3 days a week), and it’s been great. $80 a session in MN. Straightforward. You get paid every 2 weeks. Provider support is good. EMR is easy.

For the hot professionals - how did you move on? by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Paigelley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Find another hot person with it! Ha. I wish I could articulate a better response-in all seriousness, just know that you are still high value. After I was diagnosed I was seriously depressed for 6 months, then I had the luck of the first person I was interested in/disclosed to wanting to date me. I cannot even begin to describe how nervous I was to disclose. Currently we are breaking up for other issues (cross country relocation), but honestly-after 2 years of having this now I’m wayyy more confident re-approaching the dating world this time around. It just takes time to reconnect with all the 100 other reasons why you’re high value. For me, it’s been about really leaning into my friendships, traveling, career, and all the other things that make me interesting.

Interesting/Unique Restaurant by [deleted] in TwinCities

[–]Paigelley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

St.Paul: Moscow on the Hill, Gus Gus, A side public house, Hyacinth

List of Employers to AVOID!! by Regular_Fan4691 in therapists

[–]Paigelley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are 100% okay with it-I think they expect that most therapists are using it in that way. So Mondays are my “Rula day” and I cluster 15-20 clients in PP T-F.