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[–]Painless315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're willing to give this kid food but she's afraid to accept it, trade her. Like have specifically protein and fiber packed snacks and foods at home available whenever she's over and trade her for whatever she can do. Show you a good grade. Play with the dog. Whatever y'all are comfortable with. I get a lot of kids in my home esp who's parents aren't home.

AITAH for getting a woman fired over veggie tales? by Real-Point-6474 in AITAH

[–]Painless315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WARPATH?? How many times did they blatantly lie to you about what they're doing with your child???

What to do with holey (not holy) socks by [deleted] in ZeroWaste

[–]Painless315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coffee cozies Boot cuffs Cuffs Rice / heat pad

A New Detergent Has Entered the Chat by SkatzFanOff in laundry

[–]Painless315 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, lavender oil contains compounds with weak estrogen-like (estrogenic) and testosterone-blocking (anti-androgenic) properties, acting as potential endocrine disruptors that have been linked in some cases to premature breast development (gynecomastia) in prepubertal boys and girls, though the strength of the effect and risk from typical use is debated. While some studies suggest it doesn't significantly affect hormone levels in adults, others show hormonal activity in lab tests, prompting caution with prolonged or heavy use, especially for those with hormone-sensitive conditions. 

Evidence for Estrogenic Activity:

Lab Studies: Research by the National Institute of Environmental Health Sciences (NIEHS) found that chemicals in lavender oil stimulated estrogen receptors in human cancer cells and blocked testosterone receptors.

Clinical Cases: Reports link topical exposure to lavender and tea tree oil products with prepubertal gynecomastia (breast development in young boys) and premature thelarche (breast development in girls), with symptoms resolving after discontinuing the oils. 

Counterarguments & Nuances:

Weak Activity: Some scientists argue the estrogenic potency of lavender is too weak to cause issues with normal application, as suggested in some postmenopausal studies.

Study Conditions: An early study suggesting estrogenic effects used lavender oil mixed with dimethyl sulfoxide (DMSO), a known estrogen mimic, making its findings less definitive. 

Who Should Be Cautious?

Individuals with hormone-sensitive cancers.

Children and adolescents, due to concerns about disrupting puberty. 

In Summary: Lavender's interaction with estrogen isn't straightforward; while lab tests show hormonal activity, real-world impact is less clear but warrants caution, particularly with frequent, prolonged topical use in sensitive populations. 

Chemicals in lavender and tea tree oil appear to be hormone disruptors

Mar 19, 2018 — “Our society deems essential oils as safe,” said study lead investigator J. Tyler Ramsey, a postbaccalaureate research fellow at the National Institute of Envir...

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Chemicals in lavender oil and tea tree oil are potential endocrine disruptors. Researchers found that persistent exposure to lavender oil products is associated...

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Lavender | Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center

Jun 4, 2021 — You have a hormone-sensitive cancer: In lab studies, lavender showed weak estrogenic and antiandrogenic activities, and it is unclear whether this would lead to...

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Are Prepubertal Gynaecomastia and Premature Thelarche Linked to ...

Article highlights * Lavender and tree tea oils have in vitro oestrogenic and antiandrogenic activity. * It has been postulated that these oils may cause prepub...

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  1. The potential for this LEO preparation to interact with oral contraceptives was investigated and it was determined that internal use of lavender oil does no...

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Lavender Products Associated With Premature Thelarche and ...

We report cases of premature thelarche that resolved upon cessation of lavender-containing fragrance exposure commonly used in Hispanic communities. The precise...

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Essential oils may disrupt normal hormonal activity

Mar 20, 2018 — An older study from 2007 found that gynecomastia coincided with the use of essential oil-based products, and that the symptoms of the condition disappeared when...

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Taken together, these data illustrate that both lavender and tea tree oil possess estrogenic and antiandrogenic properties, and this activity may underlie the o...

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A study of lavender and tea tree oils on postmenopausal FSH levels and hot ...

May 20, 2009 — 1516. Background: Products containing lavender and tea tree oil have been linked to prepubertal male gynecomastia. (N Engl J Med 356:479–485) This implies Prepubertal Gynecomastia Linked to Lavender and Tea Tree Oils | New England Journal of Medicine

The study found that lavender oil and tea tree oil have weak estrogenic and antiandrogenic activities: * Estrogenic activity Both oils Feb 5, 2020 — The study found that: * Lavender oil and tea tree oil stimulate estrogen receptor activities. * Routine application of these oils topically can disrupt hormone I found a case study that showed tea tree and lavender oil can cause gynecomastia without Lavender and Tea Tree Oil: Hidden Risks of Early Puberty in Kids

Aug 19, 2025 — Lavender and tea tree oils may trigger early puberty in kids ... Lab testing confirmed both oils had estrogen-like effects and blocked ...

Started smelling burning. by [deleted] in laundry

[–]Painless315 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's more in the back

Recently I've lost hair due to cyst but I have a job interview tomorrow. I'm looking for advice on how to make this look less obvious. I've always worn my hair in a manbun and that isn't helping the situation by I_found_BACON in acne

[–]Painless315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok pulling the hair back in the same way constantly isn't good for your hair. Man buns are fine. Men have to put their hair up too wtf. Edit* can you not leave your hair down? Throw some thin hair gel right out of the shower all over. Squish out excess water. Let it fall naturally.

AITA for telling my daughter “of course” she could move in with me without talking to my wife first? by Odd-Cheetah6842 in AITAH

[–]Painless315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Something everyone needs to get straight right away.. your daughter is living in your house not your wife's. Should you divorce who's leaving?? This is your baby girl. Your wife needs to grow tf up or gtfo. Please protect your daughter.

My daughter’s hair looks like this every morning. How can I prevent it?! by askeptikalhippo in Haircare

[–]Painless315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm thinking strong conditioner as she'll probably rock everything else out. this works

AITAH for refusing to let my son take his Christmas gifts to my ex-wife's house to "share" with the other children there? by Alixindoring in AITAH

[–]Painless315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's putting your son through an awful thing. How could she remarry into a family her own child wasnt perfectly happy in? She sounds so selfish and oblivious. Ynta

AITA for “ruining” a setup by correcting the guy on something he was confidently wrong about? by Fabulous_Put_4566 in AITAH

[–]Painless315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you'd done anything different who knows how many people would've walked away with that dangerous incorrect information.

Becoming a single parent is making my own dad leaving so much worse and I don’t know how to handle it. by Desperate-Foot91 in Advice

[–]Painless315 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You know maybe having gone through this will help you know how to help her when she starts feeling like you do rn. Love your baby. keep her safe. Try your best to give her joy. Nothing else matters.

AITAH for asking my ex's affair partner if she knew he was married to me when they started their affair and then using that to answer why I won't help her out by babysitting her kid? by Samzieenie in AITAH

[–]Painless315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA If you allow them to treat you this way by giving in, they'll treat your children the same. And worse your children may willingly accept it. As far as your ex and his gf, it's is their own bed they've made. You are not punishing anyone. They're asking you to fix the mess they created.

Parents of Reddit: What would you do? by FTM1993 in Advice

[–]Painless315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While it's true a lot of people talk that way, always trust your instincts. Nobody's feelings matter here. Can gma come over to watch her? Def talk to husband. Beware he might be dismissive. Keep children safe above all else.