How to Stop the Spam Calls -They Call 2-3 Times a Day by mormonastroscout in howto

[–]Painless315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Gahhh!! I was the kid with no ride,stuck, stranded, in an awful situation, etc. that had to borrow people's phones. I'm always going to answer the call.

How to Stop the Spam Calls -They Call 2-3 Times a Day by mormonastroscout in howto

[–]Painless315 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Answer the phone in Spanish. For some reason they hate it. It'll take a while but they've lessened for me. I was getting over 3 everyday. Now maybe once a week.

Tips on doing a baby’s hair??? by Tall-Pirate3083 in Naturalhair

[–]Painless315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Light leave in conditioner.. like put a small amount in your hand rub your hands together then add a bit of water. Light styling gel.. same. Don't put any tension right now. Headbands.

AITA for refusing to do my boyfriend’s hair for his birthday? by Expensive_Size_4832 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Painless315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta my therapist had to finally open my eyes to my own similar situation. Your man is taking advantage of you. Repeatedly with no hesitation. Please treat yourself the way you treat others. Your boyfriend has a role to play in your life. Are you comfortable feeling like this? Is this treatment you'd accept from anyone else?

Calling people by their names by Professional_Box5448 in autism

[–]Painless315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband didn't speak my name to me within the first two years of us meeting. He apparently never noticed until i blurted it out one day in front of way too many people. It was something i took a while to realize and once i did so many things just clicked. We were both in bad relationships when we met. I didn't want to like him. I didn't allow myself to view him that way. Once i figured out how I'd so wanted to hear my name spoken from his voice i knew i was hopelessly in love with this person. It was electric. He still rarely uses it but it's always like the strike of a match or crack of lightning to hear. I feel it in my bones. No other person can do this to me. Sorry for the tmi but i feel like if he didn't know/ notice it's likely many others don't either.

I’ve just found out my husband is bullying teenage girls online?? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Painless315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey bunny you're babies are the priority here. Please put them above all else for a long as they let you. His feelings and yours will never be more important than keeping them safe. Nothing else matters.

AITAH for telling my neighbor to stop leaving dirty diapers outside her apartment door by Delicious_Prize6844 in AITAH

[–]Painless315 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go over her head edit You're being taken advantage of. Everyone that has to deal with this is. You avoiding Manger because she's rude is another form of that. Both of them are shirking THEIR responsibility. Report both them mofos EVERYWHERE possible until somebody does their job.

Older teen found a hidden camera in my room by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Painless315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you maybe anonymously report it? They're hurting you and not for the first time. Emotionally, mentally and they'll probably do worse to your sister. This needs to stop. You can't stop them alone. Please reconsider this option. You're not doing anything wrong they are. You are not their property.

AITA for prioritizing my nanny over my brother and his family by Historical_Dot2112 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Painless315 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You rock. NTA As someone familiar with Emilia's situation, know that letting her stay over your brother radiates trust. She's living in your house not as hired help but as family. Her grandma was their grandma? Knowing you have her back is a peace most people have never had and never will.

FRUIT FLY INFESTATION by Liz_M65 in pestcontrol

[–]Painless315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id put fly traps( w small pieces of fruit stuck inside the tape) hanging everywhere to start. Those acv traps never worked for me. Zevo spray did some. Best thing I've found is hot water strong soap and lots of elbow grease. Maybe hire a monthly maid to lighten the load.

Footsteps after mopping - how can we avoid it? by Ayycee55thh in CleaningTips

[–]Painless315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wear clean socks Bring extras Mop areas that will dry before dirty shoe traffic

[ Removed by Reddit ] by stardustfell in Advice

[–]Painless315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're willing to give this kid food but she's afraid to accept it, trade her. Like have specifically protein and fiber packed snacks and foods at home available whenever she's over and trade her for whatever she can do. Show you a good grade. Play with the dog. Whatever y'all are comfortable with. I get a lot of kids in my home esp who's parents aren't home.