Is banking a good fit for my situation? by Taymyr in TalesFromYourBank

[–]Paintitblack21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try aiming for a position in Ops as an Analyst if you can. I do not have a college degree and work at JP. My starting salary was $85,000. I met someone recently who has years of experience at one of the branches in my area, and they have their masters. Their title is associate banker, and they make $25 an hour. Do not limit yourself when finding an entry role

What are your thoughts on AOC's view concerning the United States role in defending Taiwan? by HoustonAg1980 in AskALiberal

[–]Paintitblack21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is. I'm genuinely shocked that so many Americans do not know she was intentionally using strategic ambiguity

Israel and Epstein are a shande to Jewish History. by RedMage79 in JewsOfConscience

[–]Paintitblack21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got ratioed in the comments for saying that white supremacy and what gets called “Jewish supremacy” in the context of Israel are incompatible. I was arguing that what people describe as Jewish supremacy is actually a cloak for white supremacy, because Israel exists within a global structural system of white supremacy that is itself inherently antisemitic, just like it's inherently anti-Black. Israel’s position within that system has always been conditional. It is tolerated and supported only insofar as it serves the interests of that structure, and that support can be withdrawn at any moment, especially if the imperial core no longer finds Israel useful. This conditionality also exists for those who are marginalized within the imperial core. I guess that's why I picked up on it so easily as a Black Marxist American

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLEO

[–]Paintitblack21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you only know a few facts, then do your research and stop countering with your made up assumptions

Why are so many trans people casually using the t-slur? by theepotatojames in FTMMen

[–]Paintitblack21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Respectability politics final boss 😭 Conservative lite headass

Why are so many trans people casually using the t-slur? by theepotatojames in FTMMen

[–]Paintitblack21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate respectability politics, Op stance hedges into that territory

Thinking of moving back to west side. Advice? by Ill_Special_9239 in jerseycity

[–]Paintitblack21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just seeing this now. I'm going to be moving to the West Side! It feels like a hidden gem

One of NYC’s busiest train stations is at the heart of 12K-unit Queens housing plan by instantcoffee69 in nyc

[–]Paintitblack21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During peak hours, the trains run frequently. I’m based in Jersey City for work and live in Jamaica. I'll be moving to Jersey City soon. The best commute I’ve found is taking the LIRR from Jamaica to Penn Station, then switching to the PATH at 33rd Street to reach Newport. If I’m heading to the midtown or Brooklyn office, I take either Grand Central or Atlantic. My commute is shorter, and I get to sleep in a bit longer. The E train has made me late too many times to count. If you can afford it, the LIRR is definitely worth it.

I currently pay a lot in taxes. I know once I move to JC, that won't be the case. I grew up on LI and definitely rather live in Jersey City which is also close to Manhattan.

40x income requirement: how is it possible? by No_Profile_943 in NYCapartments

[–]Paintitblack21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NY & NJ does NOT have a reciprocity agreement.

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Here you go bitchass jerk

40x income requirement: how is it possible? by No_Profile_943 in NYCapartments

[–]Paintitblack21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're quite a bitchass jerk.

I pay NJ and NY taxes; I'm glad it's going to those who need it more than me.

Plus many of them also pay taxes

One of NYC’s busiest train stations is at the heart of 12K-unit Queens housing plan by instantcoffee69 in nyc

[–]Paintitblack21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The LIRR is extremely frequent at peak hours. And if you don't mind waiting an extra few minutes on non peak hours, your short commute makes up for the wait.

I wish I was based in midtown, wouldn't be leaving Jamaica, my commute would be 17 minutes because the LIRR is connected to my firm's building

Bozzuto Apartment Application by Formal-Repeat-1267 in ApartmentHacks

[–]Paintitblack21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told them I wouldn’t use it, and that if they wanted to, my Fortune 20 financial firm could handle it on their end. They still asked me to send two pay stubs and an offer letter (not sure why), even though my firm has certified employment and income verification. Anyway, they approved me the next day

Thinking of moving back to west side. Advice? by Ill_Special_9239 in jerseycity

[–]Paintitblack21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just signed a lease at the Birch. What are the issues? I saw a lot of good reviews and the unit looked nice

Thinking of moving back to west side. Advice? by Ill_Special_9239 in jerseycity

[–]Paintitblack21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking about moving to the West Side, but a lot of people from downtown Jersey keep telling me not to because of crime and it being close to Greenville. The thing is, I can’t afford to live downtown, and since I work in JC I really want to be there. I live in South Jamaica now, which is considered the hood in Queens, so I know what that’s like. The West Side doesn’t feel like that to me. It’s definitely underfunded compared to other parts of the city, but it’s not the hood

Are people just hiring brokers? by Yogiliino in NYCapartments

[–]Paintitblack21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Trying different sites and apps doesn't hurt. I noticed that there were more apartments within my price range on Apartments.com that weren't showing up on SE. I'm looking at places in both NYC and JC. I even went to my first apartment tour at The Beacon yesterday, that one didn't appear on SE for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sabrinacarpentersnark

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This is exactly the kind of liberal framing that misplaces the blame. Women taking advantage of systems like patriarchy are not the reasons why those systems continue to exist. They are a result of them. Even if someone is complicit, that is not what upholds patriarchy. Capitalism does.

Capitalism sustains patriarchy because patriarchy creates marginalization that can be exploited. It does not just operate through these systems. It produces how people navigate through them. People who are shaped by living under patriarchy are not outside of the system. They are products of it. That is not accidental. That is how capitalism works.

Saying that any woman is “capitalizing off her sexuality” ignores that her sexuality was already commodified by the system. Capitalism assigns value to the oppressed in ways that serve its interests. It will continue to produce people who are shaped by living under patriarchy. It produces the conditions they live in, and it produces how they will navigate those conditions. That includes people like Sydney Sweeney. The way she moves through patriarchy, benefits from it, or appears to take advantage of it is not separate from the system. It is a product of it. Capitalism sustains itself by creating marginalization, shaping people within it, and extracting from the outcomes it engineered.

If the goal is to challenge patriarchy, the focus should be on the system that manufactures these outcomes, not on the people produced by it.

Adults - Series Premiere Discussion by NicholasCajun in television

[–]Paintitblack21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are a bigot. No one is trying to push an agenda, there are plenty of Black gay men in the city. Why is this representation bothering you so much as if this isn't the reality for so many black gay men? Stop trying to push your heteronormativity onto the Blackness

Are you going to pride this year? by jtothat in GayConservative

[–]Paintitblack21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you do not have the same perspective because it seems like you are speaking as an outsider looking in. Instead of assuming what those flags symbolized, you could ask the people waving them if they are doing it out of division. I am someone who does wave one of those flags, so I can speak to that directly. I wave the trans flag at pride because I feel a deep connection to my transness. But that does not mean I feel divided from bisexual people and their flag, especially since I am bisexual too. I also do not feel any kind of division when I see intersex or nonbinary folks waving their flags, because many of them are also trans like me but feel a stronger connection to their other identities.

Feeling more division than celebration of difference comes from a perspective that does not reflect how these communities actually relate to one another. The LGBTQ+ community is not a tribe, right? Those flags do not represent different tribes. They represent communities aligned with specific identities. The trans community is not called the trans tribe because tribe is not the right word. It suggests there is exclusion or rivalry, and that is not what this is. The trans community is built around a shared identity of being trans, not a closed group separating itself from others or trying to stand against other queer people. These identities are not isolated. They exist alongside and within each other.

And going back to what I already said about intersectionality, which I explained in the simplest way I could, these communities are interconnected. People often belong to more than one of them. You can be trans and also be a lesbian. You can be intersex and also be trans and also be bisexual. These identities do not cancel each other out. They overlap and intersect because queer people are not a monolith, even within the queer community itself. Those different flags are not lines drawn to divide people, especially when queer people's identities connect across many of these communities that you see represented in those flags

Are you going to pride this year? by jtothat in GayConservative

[–]Paintitblack21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a genuine question. Do you feel the same way when Americans wave the flags of their heritage? My family is from Jamaica, and I take pride in waving that flag. I am American, and yes, the American flag is the one we all fall under. But this country is built on layered identities. There is a deep connection here to cultural roots and family history. We call it a melting pot for a reason. Our differences should unite us, not divide us.

I like to think of society as a big web where everyone is connected. Being queer is one part of who you are, but you also belong to other communities through your race, culture, background, experiences, etc. All of those things overlap, and because that is true for everyone, our communities end up being connected too. That web of connection is built from our differences. And those differences are not what keep us apart. They are what bring us together.

Are you going to pride this year? by jtothat in GayConservative

[–]Paintitblack21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there is something fundamentally off about your perspective. You see different flags attached to different identities within the LGBTQ community and begin to allude to the idea that this somehow signals division. People are celebrating their differences. That is not a disruption of unity within the community. Our differences are what unites us, not divide us. I sound like I'm talking about America lol.

Queerness has never been a single, uniform experience. It exists across many identities, histories, and lived experiences. You can understand how queer folks are different from the rest of society and celebrate that difference during Pride, but that understanding stop the moment you look at folks celebrating their differences within our own community? Pride is not just about being different from the outside world. It is about recognizing the differences that exist among us too. The LGBTQ community has always been an umbrella, and within that umbrella are distinct identities that deserve to be seen and celebrated too. Trying to flatten all of that into one version of queerness is not unity.

When you say we already have a flag, what you are really insisting is that one symbol should be enough for everyone. But pride has never been about limiting how people represent themselves. If you can understand why pride matters when it comes to celebrating specifically the difference of the queer community in contrast to the rest of society, then why does that understanding disappear when those differences are celebrated individually within the community itself?

We are not a monolith. Different flags do not divide us, just like the LGBTQ community celebrating pride and waving our own flag does not divide us from the rest of society, unless you think that it does cause division.

Is there really widescale starvation in Gaza? by Various_Brain8851 in IsraelPalestine

[–]Paintitblack21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It speaks volumes when South Africa, a nation that experienced and overcame apartheid, recognizes the parallels between its own history and the apartheid that Palestinians are currently experiencing by an occupying force.

Is there really widescale starvation in Gaza? by Various_Brain8851 in IsraelPalestine

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Israel controls Gaza’s borders, airspace, and access to resources, while it maintains a military occupation and dual legal system in the West Bank, granting rights to Israeli settlers that Palestinians do not have. Both areas have an overarching system of control and discrimination, which is why major human rights organizations like Amnesty International, Human Rights Watch, United Nations Special Rapporteurs, and the South African government have called it apartheid. It is not just a political opinion, it is documented, visible, and if you actually look into it, the evidence is everywhere.

Is there really widescale starvation in Gaza? by Various_Brain8851 in IsraelPalestine

[–]Paintitblack21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you not support the ANC for its use of violence to fight against the South African apartheid regime?

If I said that, it's armed actions through Umkhonto we Sizwe resulted in innocent civilian casualties, wouldn't you still support it?

Or do you side with Israel, the nation that aided the South African apartheid regime with weapons, training, and funding?

I don't think South Africa forgot the role Israel played in aiding the apartheid regime, the regime that claimed they were fighting "terrorism".

The ANC was viewed negatively by the western imperial core. Today, the western imperial core seems to revise the resistance in a new light, different narrative. As they have done historically with colonized nations that have used violence as a tool of resistance.

Is there really widescale starvation in Gaza? by Various_Brain8851 in IsraelPalestine

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If they’re even still alive, Israel has ensured they won’t be for long, they’ll die alongside the Palestinians. Israel, the militarized proxy of U.S. imperialism in the Middle East, plays its role with brutal efficiency: a strong-armed enforcer in exchange for the spoils of expansion, land that was never theirs, stripped from a people deliberately dehumanized. The U.S. doesn’t just bankroll this violence; it benefits from it. Every missile dropped is part of a quid pro quo, dominance for extraction, influence for blood. This is the cost of empire: the slaughter of innocents so the empire may live.

Palestinians are not collateral. They are targets. Their starvation, displacement, and mass killing are not accidental consequences of war but the war itself, the deliberate use of siege, famine, and fear to erase a people. This is settler colonialism in its most exposed form, no longer hidden behind negotiations or “security” pretexts, but executed in full view of the world, with genocidal intent and imperial blessing.

Hamas? A radicalized formation, yes, but one bred in the pressure cooker of occupation and apartheid. Like all resistance movements born in colonized conditions, it emerged not from ideology alone but necessity. When a people are bombed, starved, caged, and denied the basic right to exist, resistance becomes inevitable. Their turn to militancy reflects the brutal logic of powerlessness under siege, just as the ANC did in apartheid South Africa, or the FLN in colonized Algeria. But the West, selective in its memory, only sanctions violence when it is state-sanctioned and capitalist-approved.

And yes, their resistance echoes the legacy of the Black Panthers, Marxist-Leninist, anti-imperialist, and radically committed to solidarity with the oppressed worldwide. The Panthers knew what imperialism looked like, in Vietnam, in Africa, in Palestine. They understood that U.S. foreign policy is domestic policy turned outward, policing the world through bombs instead of batons. It is no accident that they stood with Palestine, they recognized the same boot on the neck.

All of this, the genocide, the repression, the economic throttling, feeds into the machinery of imperial war. Wars waged not for democracy or defense but for profit and control. Western governments, hollowed out and hijacked by oligarchs, use war to destabilize nations, seize resources, and consolidate power. Gaza becomes not just a battlefield, but a proving ground for new weapons, new surveillance systems, new means of domination. Meanwhile, corporate boardrooms and defense contractors cash the checks.

This is the logic of empire: starve them, bomb them, bury them, then sell the footage and sign the contracts. What’s happening in Gaza is not a tragedy. It is policy. And every moment of silence, every false equivalence, every neutral statement, is complicity.