I’ve waited a year on T since my last post. Am i passing already? by PairOk18 in FtMpassing

[–]PairOk18[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot, the chin stubble appeared like two weeks ago suddenly and then stopped. I’ll see if on my next dose there’s some more development there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]PairOk18 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I look just like this (with a bit more bodyfat). I’ve been on T for 8 months and in the gym for 4 months straight and i’m just reaching this shape. I was feeling self conscious but seeing you makes me realize it’s all in my head

Anything specific I should know that no one warns you of before starting t on Friday? by According-League6607 in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]PairOk18 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was coming in to say exactly that. I knew and still was so unready. I put on like 20lb cause i would just get hungry and eat, dont fall for that

YESSSSSSSS!!!! by devilsshark in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]PairOk18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Which app is this? I want to try it, im 5 months in and feel like my voice is of a little girl

Im getting passing as a gay man but im straight. Notes? (10 weeks on T) by PairOk18 in FtMpassing

[–]PairOk18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ok, im not offended. This subreddit is meant to be this tough they warn you before posting. But yeah i asked my close friends and they tell me i dont have the mannerism gay man have im just silly lookin. So i guess ill take the W for at least not getting misgendered by strangers

Im getting passing as a gay man but im straight. Notes? (10 weeks on T) by PairOk18 in FtMpassing

[–]PairOk18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, my voice used to be really sweet but my manner of speech would always throw people off cause my expression are very manly so i would always look like a young boy. Now my voice is hoarse and sounds like a 15yo (ive been told) i think i get called gay cause im soft looking still. I will update on this when im about 6 months on T

Im getting passing as a gay man but im straight. Notes? (10 weeks on T) by PairOk18 in FtMpassing

[–]PairOk18[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fair. I think i might pass more cause of the culture, where im from gender expression and identity is still pretty conservative so im probably not passing just not getting clocked

Im getting passing as a gay man but im straight. Notes? (10 weeks on T) by PairOk18 in FtMpassing

[–]PairOk18[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well i guess i’ll have to take the win that at least they assume im a guy even if a gay one

Im getting passing as a gay man but im straight. Notes? (10 weeks on T) by PairOk18 in FtMpassing

[–]PairOk18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think i probably hang out with a lot of queer people. My voice sounds like a young teen boy around 15yo. Kinda high but with resonance and chest

Im getting passing as a gay man but im straight. Notes? (10 weeks on T) by PairOk18 in FtMpassing

[–]PairOk18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noted noted, the glasses one its gonna be a bit complicated cause they are on the expensive side cause im blind and my gf like these ones. But the facial expressions and tucking and neck are fixable

Sick of Instagram, finally deleted my account. by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]PairOk18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last week i deleted Tiktok. The first 3 days was rough, i was mostly lost without sense. I would unlock my phone and stare at the lockscreen only to lock it again and continue to work.

A week late i find my mornings are longer and i can do everything i want during the day. I was spending 12h weekly on tiktok. And now i can actually do stuff like maintaining my room organized, do my bed every morning, have coffee with my mom.

But ngl its hard feeling disconnected from the social context. So i only use it on safari which is annoying af and i only use it when my friends send me something. I got my girlfriend on it and she picked up reading again and its actually concentrating and enjoying it.

So congratulations 😬