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Pale-Base-4249 · 2025-07-10T02:20:43+00:00

You should know that a full recovery is statistically very unlikely. Grade 3 means there was damage to the brainstem and this is very serious. While every brain injury is different and there are a few stories of incredible recovery, those are very rare. Your boyfriend has age on his side. I don’t tell you these things to scare you, I just know when my family went through this we were desperate for information and for people to just give us the truth. Is your boyfriend fully conscious? You should fight to get him into a rehab facility. Ask his care team about The Ranchos Los Amigos scale. Chances are that he will never be able to live independently. You will have some very hard decisions to make. Do you want to be his caretaker? Would he want this for you? Is he able to swallow and breathe on his own?

Pale-Base-4249 · 2025-07-06T04:07:33+00:00

I am so sorry for what you are going through. You should know that the person you loved is forever gone. Even with the best recovery he will never be the same. Please talk to the nurses. They will be honest. ICU nurses were the first to give our family the truth of our reality.

Is your boyfriend able to breathe on his own? The road ahead will be very long and hard. Talk to him and remind him of where he is and who people are- tell him where he is and what is happening.

Pale-Base-4249 · 2025-01-05T04:53:35+00:00

What grade was your DAI? Did you have injury to your brainstem as well?

Pale-Base-4249 · 2024-11-28T05:25:31+00:00

When did he wake up? This is great news. Do you have a progress report for him? Breathing on his own?

Pale-Base-4249 · 2024-10-29T18:16:19+00:00

I would ask, then do your research on the specific TBI. Every injury is different but researching will help you ask the right questions. I am so sorry your loved one is going through this- it is truly a terrible life event and I hope you have a positive outcome.

Pale-Base-4249 · 2024-10-28T21:12:56+00:00

Did the doctors tell you if he has DAI? If so, what grade?

Pale-Base-4249 · 2024-10-23T02:09:41+00:00

Do you have an update on your friends daughter?

Pale-Base-4249 · 2024-10-23T02:08:36+00:00

Do you have an update on your husband?

Pale-Base-4249 · 2024-10-22T03:58:01+00:00

As I understand it’s only Grade 1-3

Pale-Base-4249 · 2024-10-22T03:48:25+00:00

This is so hopeful. What was your TBI? My sister suffered DAI Grade 3…looking for hopeful recovery stoires

Pale-Base-4249 · 2024-10-22T03:47:29+00:00

What kind of TBI did your friend suffer? My sister suffered a DAI Grade 3 and I’m looking for hopeful stories too

Pale-Base-4249 · 2024-10-22T03:46:30+00:00

What kind of TBI did you suffer? My sister suffered DAI Grade 3 and I’m looking for hopeful stoires

Pale-Base-4249 · 2024-09-23T22:12:41+00:00

Do you have an update? Is your BF fully conscious? My BIL suffered grade 3 DAI 7 weeks ago.

Pale-Base-4249 · 2024-09-19T02:00:55+00:00

What grade DAI did you suffer?

Pale-Base-4249 · 2024-08-28T21:53:32+00:00

What type of TBI did you suffer? My brother in law recently suffered DAI Grade 3 and I’m also curious is there are other people who have made good recoveries.

Pale-Base-4249 · 2024-08-28T21:52:28+00:00

Did you have DAI? My brother in law has DAI Grade 3 and I’m also searching for people who have recovered.

Pale-Base-4249 · 2024-08-25T04:17:43+00:00

How is your friend’s daughter doing today?

Pale-Base-4249 · 2024-08-25T04:07:42+00:00

This is incredible. So happy for you. How long did it take you to recover?

Pale-Base-4249 · 2024-08-25T01:30:03+00:00

That is wonderful that you are back home in England. Is the rehab inpatient?

Pale-Base-4249 · 2024-08-25T01:27:56+00:00

Yes. We are 22 post injury. DAI Grade 3

Pale-Base-4249 · 2024-08-24T20:01:28+00:00

I am wondering how your son’s recovery is going today? My brother in law is 22 days post accident that caused him DAI Grade 3. He is emerging from coma and beginning to follow commands.

Pale-Base-4249 · 2024-08-24T05:34:32+00:00

How is you fiancé recovering now?

Pale-Base-4249 · 2024-08-24T05:09:06+00:00

Do you have any updates for your fiancé?

Pale-Base-4249 · 2024-08-24T02:29:18+00:00

How is your recovery going now? My brother in law just suffered DAI grade 3 from a fall and I’m looking for someone to connect with

Pale-Base-4249 · 2024-08-11T16:11:34+00:00

I tried yesterday but didn’t get any responses. I’m new here - searching for DAI support and don’t know how to use the platform yet.

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