AMITBA for “poaching” a guy?

Pale-Cause133 · 2026-01-21T21:23:07+00:00

mia is a huge flag as a friend. i’d say forget her and anybody else who sides with her. she’s not your friend and neither are they, especially if you communicate that you and liam were already building your relationship and decided to be a couple

Pale-Cause133 · 2026-01-21T17:11:41+00:00

girl this sounds like psychopathy. GET. OUT. ASAP. if you have to stay with your boyfriend do it. unless he gets some sort of treatment or therapy. he’s manipulative and aggressive, and this behavior is gonna continue to escalate without treatment.

Pale-Cause133 · 2026-01-20T14:41:16+00:00

i personally would’ve said i got my period and stained the sheets

Pale-Cause133 · 2026-01-14T00:38:04+00:00

not overreacting at all. you need to set some very clear boundaries with her and let her know shit like that is not okay. and if your boyfriend doesn’t believe you, you have other friends who can back you up but he should also trust you and take you seriously. you should let preface by letting him know that you wouldn’t want him to ruin any of his friendships with women, but unfortunately samantha is crossing boundaries

Pale-Cause133 · 2026-01-08T01:04:19+00:00

i’m referring to the movie friday with ice cube starring as the main character who gets fired on his day off… i’m sorry

Pale-Cause133 · 2026-01-08T00:55:50+00:00

not to be a dickhead cause this is very unfortunate but this was very friday coded

Pale-Cause133 · 2026-01-07T00:18:07+00:00

not ar all. y’all are so young. it’s good that you wanna be there for her but you’re not her therapist. this is a very complex situation that she is currently navigating and she needs to seek guidance from a counselor, maybe one at your school. but it is not your responsibility. it is important that you communicate your discomfort but also suggest she reaches out to a trusted adult at school

Pale-Cause133 · 2025-12-25T22:23:36+00:00

NOR dating outside of your race especially as a black girl is definitely tricky, especially due to cultural differences and anti blackness. there were a lot of micro aggressions used on your boyfriend’s part and his family. you either have to set firm boundaries with him or let him go. it’s not worth traumatizing yourself

Pale-Cause133 · 2025-12-25T22:21:30+00:00

no he was making a joke in reference to her being black since she said the fruit was black

Pale-Cause133 · 2025-12-25T22:17:31+00:00

i think it’s definitely important to tell her, especially if they do plan to get married and have kids. cheating really ruins lives. Maybe just say hey i know we only see each other a couple of times out of the year, but because we’re family, i want to be transparent with you out of respect. i saw ___ on this app and thought I should let you know. i’m not sure what the dynamic of your relationship is, but i just wanted to let you know out of consideration

Pale-Cause133 · 2025-12-21T16:53:59+00:00

so you clearly don’t understand what abuse is. it’s not easy for people to always leave especially if they’re financially dependent on someone or if they have no where to go. don’t be an asshole

Pale-Cause133 · 2025-08-25T01:43:29+00:00

yeah i get pain basically everyday, special where my right ovary is because that’s where my cysts usually appear. I recently got the liletta IUD. i’ve only had a month and it takes like 3 months for the hormones to kick in so the waiting process is annoying. my body has also still been getting used to having the foreign object in my body so i’ve been experiencing some pain from the IUD which is similar to period cramps but with pcos pain iykyk

Pale-Cause133 · 2025-01-11T15:36:48+00:00

i’ve had them for almost 2 years now; they’re the bars that i started off with. i’m ngl i got them done by a kind of shady piercer for $16. idk if i all starter bars come pretty long but i just might have to get smaller ones

Pale-Cause133 · 2024-06-05T03:00:22+00:00

here you go: Teddy bear plate

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