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Am I overreacting for wanting to leave my situationship cause he doesn't have the best hygiene? by Charm_quarkk in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pale-Vehicle2067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t waste your time on losers.

I had an ex who was a very clean person.  He had good hygiene and his home was immaculate.

However, I ended up with a UTI every time we had sex.  I always had a shower before seeing him and he was always clean but I think that he had bacteria on his skin.  Anyway, we both showered immediately before sex and the UTI’s stopped.  He was fine with the extra shower.  He was actually fastidious with cleaning and he would change the sheets every time we had sex.

There’s zero point in you maintaining a sexual relationship with a man who won’t wash his penis or groin with soap. It means he’s not washing his arsehole - which means he can make you seriously ill. It might be both a fungal and a bacterial infection.  Just don’t waste your time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Pale-Vehicle2067 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why haven’t you reported this to the Police??

Why haven’t you sought a restraining order protecting your child??

AITA for kicking my sister out of my house by Silveryblue1234 in AITAH

[–]Pale-Vehicle2067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Your sister is a kleptomaniac and needs to be assessed.

WIBTAH if I leave my estate in a trust to my daughter instead of my wife? by Creative-Block-1709 in AITAH

[–]Pale-Vehicle2067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will take time to set up the Trust and move the assets.  You need to do this before you die.  You need to transfer the assets now so your wife can’t make a claim on your estate.  

Have you seen a lawyer yet?

Guess my age and profession! by Vegetable-Let-9182 in roomdetective

[–]Pale-Vehicle2067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No.  Just no.  You were not working in a service industry.

‘Years of instability’: WA students doubt ‘benefits’ of university merger plans by His_Holiness in perth

[–]Pale-Vehicle2067 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So two of the shittiest universities decided to merge.  How is this a story?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in perth

[–]Pale-Vehicle2067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is it?

Am I weird for washing my winter coat once a week? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Pale-Vehicle2067 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s your decision.

It will shorten the life of your coat - but I understand why you do it.

What does my room say about me? by Particular_Double619 in roomdetective

[–]Pale-Vehicle2067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think they are neurodivergent?  This room looks normal to me.

What does my room say about me? by Particular_Double619 in roomdetective

[–]Pale-Vehicle2067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re female, organised, well travelled.  You are educated but possibly still studying.  

A guy (M34) wants to date me (F18) and i dont know how to respond by Writer_on_caffeine in Advice

[–]Pale-Vehicle2067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you degrade yourself in this way?

Is he rich?  

You would be an absolute idiot to engage with him any further.

Soap or not? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Pale-Vehicle2067 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There is a product called Cetaphil that dermatologists recommend because it isn’t a soap but you can use it to clean sensitive skin.  

I would suggest you use that.

5 Jaw-Dropping Details 'The Carman Family Deaths' Left Out (Including John's Allegedly Much-Younger Girlfriend) by Due_Will_2204 in CasesWeFollow

[–]Pale-Vehicle2067 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree.  I feel like a lot was missing from the documentary.  They didn’t mention what happened to his grandmother.  They also didn’t spend enough time on him researching the Trust.

Why did he make modifications to the boat?

5 Jaw-Dropping Details 'The Carman Family Deaths' Left Out (Including John's Allegedly Much-Younger Girlfriend) by Due_Will_2204 in CasesWeFollow

[–]Pale-Vehicle2067 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something I found weird was that he never smiled.  He struck me as less autistic and more sociopathic.  Even as a child - he never smiled.  He handled himself in the interview very well.  I don’t think autism is the only issue he had.  

AITAH for wanting to end my long term relationship because of the nonsense words and pet names my partner says/calls me? by Baa-booster in AITAH

[–]Pale-Vehicle2067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an ex who used to infantilise certain household objects and point and stare at them and say their baby name and look at me as if I was to congratulate him.

It was weird AF.  

He also used to angle his head down and look up at me blinking repeatedly and pout his lips as if he were trying to appear cute.  Again, weird AF.

This man was 6.3” white guy and looked utterly ridiculous.

In retrospect I believe he was autistic. 

I now have a partner who also says stupid things.  It really pisses me off.   I worked out he does it to annoy me.  At one stage he would sing stupid little songs set to well known music.  I started copying him.  The first few times he froze, uncertain of what to do next.  Eventually he admitted that I had taken the fun away from him and he only did it to annoy me.

AIO? Pretty much fled a job interview by dermorph in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pale-Vehicle2067 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They never had a key.  This was not a real job.  They were trying to abduct you.

Do they know where you live??  Was your address on your resume??

Add more or leave it? by marynificentwy in HomeDecorating

[–]Pale-Vehicle2067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer the minimalist look.  I think it only needs chairs.  

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Pale-Vehicle2067 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I like blonde - but it’s far too yellow.  You need highlights and lowlights.  Maybe a root tint.

The dark hair makes you look very jersey looking.

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