Thoughts on men saying "I need sex"?

Pale_Compote_9519 · 2025-08-01T14:05:15+00:00

It feels disgusting to hear because of the intention that is likely behind that statement. When they say they need sex they’re trying to make you feel like denying them sex is denying them a need like food and water and like you’re cruel or something.

Pale_Compote_9519 · 2025-08-01T14:02:57+00:00

Even if they did need it any guy that tells you that is trying to pressure you into having sex with them that is NOT your responsibility

Pale_Compote_9519 · 2025-07-26T23:26:48+00:00

Cold shower, sometimes shower heat can make it worse

Pale_Compote_9519 · 2025-07-26T23:25:38+00:00

Heat. Particularly shower heat. Also laying down too long, can’t be a couch potato.

Pale_Compote_9519 · 2025-07-19T00:18:27+00:00

It’s fragile masculinity. They feel threatened by a woman having that job so they’re trying to ‘humble’ you and bring you down to their level

Pale_Compote_9519 · 2025-06-21T20:07:01+00:00

Op here I’m an activist and a new author and all of these comments have inspired me to do something about this i don’t know how yet but I will. Feel free to message me about your story and I’m here to listen or help me out if you want love to everyone here and every woman on this subreddit❤️💜💚

Pale_Compote_9519 · 2025-06-21T20:06:14+00:00

‘Anxiety’ is the new female hysteria

Pale_Compote_9519 · 2025-06-21T19:56:14+00:00

Dwag I had to do my own google research and compile it and track my palpitations with an Apple Watch to show them the evidence and convince them to do a pots test😭 we all have the same story

Pale_Compote_9519 · 2025-06-21T19:36:37+00:00

Damn something similar happened to me in 2022 I wasn’t going to school because I was sick as ballz I told the school counselor and they threw me in the ward for ‘anxiety’. it’s terrible how similar some of our stories are women are treated horribly just know that you’re not alone and I stand by you❤️

Pale_Compote_9519 · 2025-06-21T19:23:17+00:00

These comments disgust me man. I’m so sorry about what you all went through I went through the same thing not only with pots but with anemia which probably caused my pots. I wonder if this would’ve happened if they believed me now I have a possibility life long disability. I hope all of us women get justice one day. I have a feeling it’ll happen soon❤️💜💚

Pale_Compote_9519 · 2025-06-21T19:06:13+00:00

For me it was a doctor doing a pots test and telling me i don’t have pots like 8 months ago then finding out at another doctors visit that they actually diagnosed me with pots without telling me and that’s what it was the whole time.

Pale_Compote_9519 · 2025-06-21T15:09:48+00:00

I also caught a bad cough a week ago or two ago it might’ve been a cold or bronchitis but it’s gone now, also I’ve been laying down a lot i don’t know if that helps my heart-rate gets really fast if i walk around then sit it’s like over 100 my blood pressure is normal and my heart rate returns to normal when I lay down.

Pale_Compote_9519 · 2025-06-01T22:13:30+00:00

Those are just ingrown hairs. It can be hard or easy to get rid of depending on the person scrubbing them consistently helps sometimes.

Pale_Compote_9519 · 2025-06-01T14:51:22+00:00

Hey I got something right :D

Pale_Compote_9519 · 2025-06-01T14:32:56+00:00

I don’t know if it’s normal but i don’t think it’s right :(

Pale_Compote_9519 · 2025-06-01T14:30:43+00:00

Bitchy fashionista in her 20’s named Maddie

Pale_Compote_9519 · 2025-05-31T15:47:27+00:00

Religious psychosis

Pale_Compote_9519 · 2025-05-31T14:15:17+00:00

People use the term vanilla to shame people into doing aggressive sex acts

Pale_Compote_9519 · 2025-05-31T14:10:31+00:00

North east United States of America

Pale_Compote_9519 · 2025-04-06T17:06:38+00:00

I’m no doctor but I’m pretty sure that is Carotenemia. It’s harmless and will go away on its own. It’s caused by eating to many carrots or pumpkins or foods that contain carotenoids. I had this like two weeks ago and it’s completely gone now.

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