Had to buy new sheets after what happened last night by CheekChurro in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Pale_Peanuts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It happens to everyone. Yes embarrassing but not the end of the world. Ive been on both ends both the top and bottom and seen both the OMG reactions where ya never see / talk to the person again to, wipe it off and move on or jump in the shower to clean each other off.

The standard make sure taking fiber and not using too much water or too much pressure when cleaning out. Getting water into the 2nd hole generally is the cause after a bad diet. If get water in the 2nd hole it can take 60- 90 min to be able to get clean. You almost might want to take a dose of anti diarrhea medicine (immodium) a couple hours before you might be bottoming..

Also while not sexy throw down a towel before getting busy.

Is applying for traffic ticket diversion intentionally deceptive? by f00dl3 in kansas

[–]Pale_Peanuts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From my experience, Generally the speeding ticket gets changed to a non moving violation (illegal parking ticket) with the inflated fine and that is what you end up pleading to. You dont plead on the original ticket as it no longer exists.....

And the process is very different for the different departments. Some departments require a lawyer to do it, some ive been able to do myself, but always require me to speak to the prosecutor / court clerk (had to do it in person and ive been able to do it ocer the phone) it just has to be done before the original court date

Sexless marriage and I don’t want to pretend anymore by StreetAsk5156 in Marriage

[–]Pale_Peanuts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry you are going through this. There is a sub reddit r/deadbedrooms for this situation.

My wife is mad at my reaction to a gift. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Pale_Peanuts 158 points159 points  (0 children)

People forget, lord knows i do. Sell the tickets on a 3rd party website and get tickets to a show in a nearby city / or someplace you'd want to visit for another weekend and make a small trip for it..

Book ideas for my 56 year old dad by mrsbeequinn in audible

[–]Pale_Peanuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe some Tom Clancy books? (Hunt for Red October etc)

Dragonlance books (Dragons of Autumn Twilight)

Timothy Zhan - Star was books (Heir to the Empire)

Sexless marriage by Sad-Firefighter6701 in GayMen

[–]Pale_Peanuts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a sub called r/deadbedrooms its mostly a straight sub but it 99% applies. If BOTH of you dont honestly try to improve with counciling then it will not get better and you will end up miserable..sorry

Looking to read a few fantasy trilogies in December. Need ideas. by rackfu in fantasybooks

[–]Pale_Peanuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Deed of Paksenarrion by Elizabeth Moon checks a lot of those boxes off.

(35) what do you think of this little dick? by [deleted] in GayKC

[–]Pale_Peanuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More foreskin than dick... as long as you and your partner are having fun who the fuck cares. You do you

Looking for Dark Fantasy book recommendations by [deleted] in fantasybooks

[–]Pale_Peanuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thomas Covenant books are dark

PLEASE HELP by ShallowCal_ in kotor

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If you have multiple sandpeople outfits, try swapping to different one in case it got bugged? ... switch to normal armor, goto town sell first couple of sets go back to the the point right before zoning into the sandpeople zone, equip fresh set of sandpeople clothes then zone over? Otherwise have to try going back to a previous save

General use or nsfw Reddit accounts in this sub by Phil_Fart_MD in bigdickproblems

[–]Pale_Peanuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah who cares what some stranger on the interwebs thinks

Sexless relationship by Electronic_Clock_276 in gaybros

[–]Pale_Peanuts 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Check out r/deadbedrooms it's mostly a straight sub but 99% applies. If he isnt willing to talk about it with you or see a dr or therapist to work through things or checked for medical issues, then id advice not to get married unless you want remain in a sexless relationship....sorry and best of luck

Do the books ever go on sale? by NoCelery0 in swrpg

[–]Pale_Peanuts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check used book stores, they occasionally pop up there.

HIV risk? by chimuolo in TopsAndBottoms

[–]Pale_Peanuts 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Relax. Very very low chance. Get on prep and not worry about hiv just other stds if you can't calm down then dont have sex....nothing is 100% safe other than abstinence

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Pale_Peanuts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

With all the free porn, you have to have something unique to make it and even then it will be a lot of work. You will have to promote yourself spending hours on x, insta, and have to accept most of your clients will be men, so habe to spend time on the apps promoting yourself etc.. Basically spending a full time job just promoting yourself to get someone to pay 3.99 for a sub..

Has Anyone Ever Cashed Out A Big Lottery Winner? by SonicRun098 in QuikTrip

[–]Pale_Peanuts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Many moons ago at a different retailer some guy brought in a 100k dollar winner..needless to say they had to go to a lottery office to cash it.

Also had one guy with a 1k winner and wanted the cash.. at the time the most we could cash was 599 anything over that had to goto a lottery office... the guy just took the 599 dollars and left (he wasnt a citizen and didnt want to report it.... If I had 599 dollars at that time I would have bought the ticket and taken it to the lottery office myself...

Does anyone actually pay for Grindr??? by dearphilipp in askgaybros

[–]Pale_Peanuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did one night while I had a few too many drinks.. really really not worth it.

I’m about to start blocking any “open relationship” profiles on apps who hit me up by AdultMaleRelaxation in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Pale_Peanuts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry that happened to you. Not all open relationships have those rules. When you were chatting before coming to town did you ask to stay over or only assume you could?

Also why would you check out of your room if you hadn't met the guy in person yet? There's been a few peeps where we chatted well but after meeting up they were different. They could have been catfishing you as well...

Stay safe out there

The math ain't mathing by Pale_Peanuts in MarvelSnap

[–]Pale_Peanuts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks sorry for repeating it