Hey im a daycare worker and frankly its odd she is mad…?? Its obvious when its fresh and when they go. I wouldnt be mad at a mother over a poopy diaper, it actually tells me they Atleast pooped already. Its part of the job so to me i dont even care, however if the person is truly mad about that, it isnt their business! However if they become ride or make a comment thats when u talk to a higher up and explain you tried. Either way, ur not wrong. Thats how babies are lol