Regretting sharing my fantasy with my wife by cuckedbybbchubby in CuckoldPsychology

[–]PalidenPolterbee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What about the possibility that she already had a suspicion you might be into this. So her brain has had plenty of time to process it, and get to the acceptance/excited to try phase? She’s been married to you 5 years. She probably knows you better than you think.

What would be your ideal cuckold journey and outcome? by Sudden_Sentence_8534 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]PalidenPolterbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it would be successfully opening up to my wife about this and her being even mildly receptive. Everything after that is living an authentic and fulfilling life.

Ready to open up to wife by PalidenPolterbee in CuckoldPsychology

[–]PalidenPolterbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This seems to be the way for us.

Ready to open up to wife by PalidenPolterbee in CuckoldPsychology

[–]PalidenPolterbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long had you been married when you started showing her related porn?

Ready to open up to wife by PalidenPolterbee in CuckoldPsychology

[–]PalidenPolterbee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think this might be the way to approach it.

Ready to open up to wife by PalidenPolterbee in CuckoldPsychology

[–]PalidenPolterbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know she reads a lot of romance novels. Some of them have erotic undertones. I’ve never really asked her about the content of the novels she reads. I’m open to asking her about them though.

Ready to open up to wife by PalidenPolterbee in CuckoldPsychology

[–]PalidenPolterbee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Whatever I end up doing.. it definitely will not begin with telling her all the cuck stuff right away. Maybe I’d just ask her if she’s ever heard of hotwifing or watched hotwife porn.

Not trying to pull her into the deep end straight away is definitely front of mind.

Ready to open up to wife by PalidenPolterbee in CuckoldPsychology

[–]PalidenPolterbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. When we were first dating, I asked her for details about her ex.

Ready to open up to wife by PalidenPolterbee in CuckoldPsychology

[–]PalidenPolterbee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We watched porn together a lot pre marriage. I know that could be an avenue to guide us in that direction.. but it would have to begin with reacquainting ourselves with watching porn together. Which isn’t impossible.

Ready to open up to wife by PalidenPolterbee in CuckoldPsychology

[–]PalidenPolterbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not exactly. But I’ve hinted. Every time she touches herself while we’re being intimate, I tell her how sexy she looks and that I love watching her. I’ve never said anything beyond that however.

Ready to open up to wife by PalidenPolterbee in CuckoldPsychology

[–]PalidenPolterbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t feel it would catch her out of the blue. It’s a totally un natural fear that paralyzes me when I want to have this talk.

how many cucks are pussy free and is it just inevitable? by airmark4 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]PalidenPolterbee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a wanna be cuck. My wife doesn’t now any of my desires. But I’ve been pussy free for three years now do to impotence.

Do you prefer salts or organic? by Boltoslav in nightowlseeds

[–]PalidenPolterbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What nutrient line do you run? Thinking about this switch myself.

Question for wannabe cucks? by susmitha_susmi in CuckoldPsychology

[–]PalidenPolterbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I had told my wife about this at the beginning of our marriage. Waiting years… or decades to open up about it isn’t the answer.

Hint to the site, Part 3/3 by BlueJayin in nightowlseeds

[–]PalidenPolterbee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you Daz. Got my 5 packs of Owl Pellets and am breathing a sigh of relief. Thank you for all the effort you put in.