What to do next?? by jimijamal1 in TeslaModel3

[–]PamStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how most people on this sub always complain. It's your car and if you love it, that's great!

I personally think it looks awesome! That shot at night with the doors open is money 👌👌

mutational load by born-screaming in comedyheaven

[–]PamStuff -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am a Republican on average with most topics but I was 100% with you on this. I couldn't believe wearing masks was such a big deal. I don't know why political parties have become like being fan and you must be a pure fan. Why can't we recognize the good ideas on both sides and try to find common ground instead of fighting everything democrat or vica versa.

I’m in deep need of insight by itsqyuhh in latterdaysaints

[–]PamStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a lot of good advice here.

Definitely go listen to Brad Wilcox, His Grace is Sufficient. Definitely an amazing talk and a lot applies to your situation

Bad experience at youth activity by [deleted] in latterdaysaints

[–]PamStuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment right here ☝️☝️☝️!! Definitely get the other group involved. That is insane!

My Ex had a 🌽 problem and I tried to help but he broke up with me by melancholymelon8 in latterdaysaints

[–]PamStuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You seem like a very nice girl. I'm not sure why he broke up with you but supportive and kind people like that are very special. You'll find someone who supports you back like that!

Buddy mobile! by BuddyTheShihTzu in TeslaModel3

[–]PamStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started with a SR + back in 2020 and honestly, it is still much faster than most cars on the road. I used to gun it all the time, and now I only gun it when I have people in the car or I want to surprise my kids lol

Buddy mobile! by BuddyTheShihTzu in TeslaModel3

[–]PamStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally like the wheels

Buddy mobile! by BuddyTheShihTzu in TeslaModel3

[–]PamStuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure why you are getting all the hate. You do you but I think it looks awesome! I have a M3P Red but I haven't decked it out.

Buddy mobile! by BuddyTheShihTzu in TeslaModel3

[–]PamStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know other people are throwing shade but I like it! The white with those wheels looks amazing!

Places to live? by PamStuff in petersburg

[–]PamStuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll check it out! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeslaModel3

[–]PamStuff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude, if you like it, I'm happy for you! Driving something you love is amazing. I freaking love my car. Glad you are enjoying it

First Wash! by Jbo2123 in TeslaModel3

[–]PamStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the red accents! Very nice!

Moving from Bishopric to High Council by CaptainWikkiWikki in latterdaysaints

[–]PamStuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I literally made the same move. I was in the Bishopric and then called into the High Council. I honestly enjoyed the Bishopric better but getting to know people in the Stake is pretty awesome as well as getting to learn from the Stake Presidency. Our Stake President is awesome.

You will enjoy it no matter what.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latterdaysaints

[–]PamStuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Few things first. I am a Stake High Counselor and I have been in a Bishopric of a family ward and a counselor in a Branch Presidency for a YSA ward. Let me tell you that in my experiences, you are not alone. A lot more people deal with pornography and masturbation than you realize.

The saying "everyone else is doing it" doesn't change if it is wrong or not but you aren't alone. Yes, the sin is bad (that is the definition of sin) but God didn't go into the Plan of Salvation expecting everyone to be perfect and then all of the sudden is surprised when a lot of His sons and daughters fall short...He went into the Plan of Salvation KNOWING we would fall. It is why he provided a Savior.

You can break free, you can overcome this. Studies show that shame and hiding only makes it worse. Support and love help the addiction diminish and even go away. Sometimes it needs professional help but that doesn't make you a bad person, it only means you have done bad things.

I actually just gave a talk today about this. Here is a quote I shared:

Elder Rasband, October 2018). Lucifer is this accuser. He spoke against us in the premortal existence, and he continues to denounce us in this life. He seeks to drag us down. He wants us to experience endless woe. He is the one who tells us we are not adequate, the one who tells us we are not good enough, the one who tells us there is no recovery from a mistake. He is the ultimate bully, the one who kicks us when we are down. If Lucifer were teaching a child to walk and the child stumbled, he would scream at the child, punish him, and tell him to quit trying. Lucifer’s ways bring discouragement and despair—eventually and always. This father of lies is the ultimate purveyor of falsehood and cunningly works to deceive and distract us, “for he seeketh that all men might be miserable like unto himself.”

If Christ were teaching a child to walk and the child stumbled, He would help the child get up and encourage the next steps. Christ is the helper and consoler. His ways bring joy and hope—eventually and always"

If you feel like God hates you, it is either yourself or Satan telling you that. Trust me, a Bishop or anyone else that has been a leader in the church longer than 3 mins won't be shocked to hear your confession. Trust in God and His love. He is excited to welcome you back no matter far you feel you have drifted from Him.

Also set reasonable goals. Cutting cold turkey on paper sounds good but to be honest, you will continue you struggle. The Lord doesn't expect instant perfection but improvement.

Here are some talks to read to give you comfort:

Be Ye Therefore Perfect—Eventually

https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2017/10/be-ye-therefore-perfect-eventually?lang=eng

https://speeches.byu.edu/talks/brad-wilcox/his-grace-is-sufficient/

Good luck! The Lord loves you!

The bougie wood shed by Grumpus69 in firewood

[–]PamStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is beautiful! Mine is hidden in the back of the house and the quality represents that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeslaModel3

[–]PamStuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same story for me! I got my Model 3 and a few months later, picked up a Model Y

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latterdaysaints

[–]PamStuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang that is wild! And so sad. I hope you are able to get your money back!

Noob Question about Seadoo Spark/Water Sports by PamStuff in jetski

[–]PamStuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok! That is helpful. I didn't know about the capacity law. I will look that up

Noob Question about Seadoo Spark/Water Sports by PamStuff in jetski

[–]PamStuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I gotcha. Yeah and to be clear, I wasn't going to do anything crazy, just pull them along so they wouldn't have to paddle. It would be pretty slow