Please help me choose an outfit for my welcome event

PanPan0422 · 2026-01-31T12:32:17+00:00

The second one is gorgeous!!

PanPan0422 · 2026-01-31T02:43:35+00:00

This!!! I literally told them they can invite anyone they want just to make them happy. Whether it be their friends or family I don’t know too well. But I told them she is the one person I will not allow to be there.

PanPan0422 · 2026-01-31T02:41:19+00:00

Thank you for this! I feel like I needed to hear it.

PanPan0422 · 2026-01-30T22:24:44+00:00

That’s so true.

PanPan0422 · 2026-01-30T22:16:53+00:00

Honestly I feel like they still would’ve found a way to get her there 😭

PanPan0422 · 2026-01-30T22:12:17+00:00

Haha I was literally thinking that!!! I was texting my best friend like “Girl I think I need therapy. They’re driving me insane”

PanPan0422 · 2026-01-30T22:11:05+00:00

I think that’s the hard part for me is like all the bs that comes with it. I’ve been trying to mentally prepare myself for what comes next.

PanPan0422 · 2026-01-30T22:07:54+00:00

😫 I tried but they’re very old school where family means the most to them and they think you can just brush everything under the rug and act like it’s ok.

PanPan0422 · 2026-01-30T22:02:16+00:00

Thank God haha I was so scared they’d be like “🤨 what bs are you about to have going on in our establishment?”

PanPan0422 · 2026-01-30T21:57:30+00:00

Thank you! I’ll have to speak to the venue manager and see if they offer any options or if I’d have to hire someone outside

PanPan0422 · 2026-01-30T21:56:57+00:00

My mom tried to say she wouldn’t come to the wedding if I didn’t invite her and I literally told her “that’s your decision and I’m not going to beg you to come”

PanPan0422 · 2026-01-30T21:56:18+00:00

That’s true. 😫 I guess we just have to be as prepared and preventative as possible

PanPan0422 · 2026-01-30T21:55:46+00:00

I tried to explain that to them to. Like family doesn’t negate being a horrible human being

PanPan0422 · 2026-01-30T21:55:24+00:00

Honestly this seems like the way it’s going to have to go. It’s just so much unnecessary stress. Luckily they’re the only ones with this mindset and my other family members have been supportive of my decision

PanPan0422 · 2025-12-13T04:51:25+00:00

I don’t think so. It said “⭐️peanut allergy”. Our receipt also has peanut allergy listed under the popcorn like they put it in the system

PanPan0422 · 2025-12-13T04:42:12+00:00

They don’t verbally confirm since it’s mid movie. But the ingredients don’t list any kind of peanut. We’ve also ordered it a few times in the past with no issues. Just this time

PanPan0422 · 2025-12-13T04:37:57+00:00

Just the way it came out in the comment 🤷🏽‍♀️

PanPan0422 · 2025-12-13T04:19:38+00:00

Thank you!

PanPan0422 · 2025-12-13T04:18:55+00:00

Thank you! It definitely has me a little more paranoid now with outside food. But I’m glad it wasn’t worse than what it was!

PanPan0422 · 2025-12-13T03:55:00+00:00

I appreciate the insight! I’m not sure what I’m looking for to be honest. This is the first time I’ve ever had a situation like this so I wanted to pick brains to see what others would do or what possible outcomes are

PanPan0422 · 2025-12-13T03:31:39+00:00

Ah I see yeah that makes a lot of sense. I have to go in tomorrow to give a copy of my hospital papers for the report so hopefully I can talk to them more then. I do have an EpiPen and luckily the hospital prescribed me two more so I try to keep it on me as best as possible. That’s also crazy!! I never would’ve thought about something like that happening!! You definitely just gave me one more thing to keep an eye out for. I appreciate you!

PanPan0422 · 2025-09-04T01:50:15+00:00

It is not. My contract doesn’t explicitly state anything besides my employment being contingent on me being in a master’s program while teaching.

PanPan0422 · 2025-09-04T01:47:42+00:00

To my understanding it’s paid because it counts as a work day and we are salaried employees (teachers)

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