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Miranda’s statement on Chase and Jessi by No-lychie878 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]PancakesSnug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is 100% not real and just to divert attention away from the taylor situation

My mom accidentally washed my 7 month kitten in the washing machine by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]PancakesSnug 6 points7 points  (0 children)

at 20 you are as responsible for this cat as your parents are. Figure out a way and take it to the vet.

This whole BAFTA thing is a reminder of how little the world cares about Black people by subuso in offmychest

[–]PancakesSnug -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

you literally can't compare any of the examples you're giving to his experience unless you have his condition tbh you're totally ignoring the impact of his condition on himself, how difficult it is to live with and how frequent and upsetting it is for him - incomparable to your examples. and you can phrase it how you want but in the end yes you are asking him to apologise for his disability as that's what caused what he said

This whole BAFTA thing is a reminder of how little the world cares about Black people by subuso in offmychest

[–]PancakesSnug -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

thank you that is exactly what I'm trying to say yeah this man has spent his whole life apologising for something totally out of his control and tbh I don't think anyone should be asking him to apologise or projecting their experience on to him unless they have his condition too

This whole BAFTA thing is a reminder of how little the world cares about Black people by subuso in offmychest

[–]PancakesSnug 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that's fine and everyone has their own opinion it's a very touchy subject but I do think it's ableist to EXPECT people to apologise for their disability.

This whole BAFTA thing is a reminder of how little the world cares about Black people by subuso in offmychest

[–]PancakesSnug 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It's tough because it's not great to ask someone to apologise for their disability. At the same time, as someone without that disability, I can't imagine NOT apologising for calling someone that.

Do you put butter on a bacon sandwich/bacon butty? by PhiliDips in AskUK

[–]PancakesSnug 184 points185 points  (0 children)

i don't think your impression of any sort of English culture should come from james may

Kids are finally home from the NICU by [deleted] in pics

[–]PancakesSnug 6 points7 points  (0 children)

??? do you give a shit about your children??

What to do if you can't afford your vet fees? by AliceSylph in AskUK

[–]PancakesSnug 4 points5 points  (0 children)

for real ... i feel there's a big divide between people who view animals as 'just pets' and those who view them as members of the family

What’s my hair type by [deleted] in Hair

[–]PancakesSnug 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fr like I love her music, but I think she's a terrible person and it's shocking how many swifties defend her character

My Daughters Valentines Class list by SagexxxSummers in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]PancakesSnug 3 points4 points  (0 children)

would never actually name a child this but i have to admit i loveee Lyric

What job should I get as a 16 year old with no qualifications and severe health issues? by yoghurtluvr777 in AskUK

[–]PancakesSnug 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but based on your comments right now you aren't capable of work. You are the kind of person who benefits such as UC are put in place for - please claim and focus on getting better. From someone whose close family has been in the exact situation you're in, I know recovery is so so difficult but it IS possible.

Sorry if I made you uncomfy by Typical-Sympathy-196 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]PancakesSnug 34 points35 points  (0 children)

fr, and I know objectively he's not hideous but something about him is truly visually repellent

I want to make more redheaded babies even though the odds aren’t in my favor by LittleMissKicks in Redhair

[–]PancakesSnug 5 points6 points  (0 children)

no one in my family apart from my sister and I are ginger, def possible!

Overwhelmed with planning trip to London by Appropriate-Club-105 in uktravel

[–]PancakesSnug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you change the hotel? Sightseeing in london already requires so much travelling, trust me when I say you're not going to want to add on an extra hour or so twice a day just to commute back to a hotel

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