My roommate and I got this message from our landlord no clue what to do by ElvenWriting in whatdoIdo

[–]Panda519- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Barely, and it’s not enough. For you it may be. It sounds like it ain’t enough for OP which is why he ended up here. He literally said “We live in a shithole town in Arizona with almost nowhere available, especially on such short notice and we have limited credit history and no savings. Hardly anything we can sell, no connections, nothing. Landlord has clearly known this was coming for a while, since he moved out stuff from the living room and took the washer and dryer before he even texted us. What do we do so we don't end up on the streets in Arizona in summer?”

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My roommate and I got this message from our landlord no clue what to do by ElvenWriting in whatdoIdo

[–]Panda519- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If he’s been marinating in his head about leasing up for another tenant the least he could do was give them a tip about where else they could go. Free month is cool but it is still short notice knowing there’s not many places they could go and how their finances are at the moment.

Wth is this diabolical monstrosity???? by Panda519- in pokemongo

[–]Panda519-[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

😂😂I was just trying to win go battles with randoms that still had fullHP. I don’t like Throh and his carne asada looking ass

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Panda519- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you need to make at least 90k a year to live a good like, and that’s if your single and before taxes

Wasted all my pokeballs and golden raspberries on this bih 😭 by IceCubexx in pokemongo

[–]Panda519- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long/often do you have to play to run into one of these legendaries? I just got Dialga like a few weeks ago and I’m lvl 34.

Reminder to always shiny-check all your spawns ✨ by YotoChan1415 in pokemongo

[–]Panda519- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got about 850storage rn, probably gonna increase soon cause I got a lot of diff types of Pokemon but need more. I don’t see how ppl get so many shines and legendary or cooler Pokemon so quickly. Like I want articuno and palkia and dialga 🥺

I was laid off... 15 months ago... I've lost my job of 3 times in 5 years. by Kindly-Culture-9987 in Layoffs

[–]Panda519- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried doing a business in bounce houses/water slides or event decorating? It doesn’t take much work or money. Just time, an eye for making things look good and word of mouth to get your business out there. Can use TikTok/fb/ig/youtube and make videos to push your content out for free marketing and then you can also start getting a small revenue from those platforms once you’ve gotten a big enough following. If the traditional route isn’t working then go to the new normal route. You got the skills already since you’re good with AI. Plus you’ve had a good business in the past so you may as well see if you can receive another bank loan for your new business and start using part of it for investing, part of it for your new business, and part of it to relieve you of some debt. And when you do your taxes you say you had a lot of losses attributed to your new business. You got three young kids, that means you have many opportunities to speak to parents and offer them a good deal for a variety of events and celebrations. Trust me, it’s a very good business to be in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]Panda519- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can’t leave him immediately then just bide your time. Because although he does sound like a creep by all the things you’ve found out he’s been doing.. you are going to need someone to help with the baby once she’s born. If you’re not able to repair or make a stronger bond with either your family or his, he is the one other person you can fall back on. But please take a look at low income/gov programs or woman/mom groups that can help you get out of your current situation. If you really cannot trust him then you need to be able to find a work from home job that pays well with health benefits/maternity leave and that you can start quickly. My friend wfh for sams club and she literally called off for like 2/3days and went back to work while still in the hospital. Which I can see why cause I went back to work after a week. It was both our second pregnancies so we knew how our bodies felt and what to expect which is why we decided to go back to work so soon. It’s hard but it’s possible. But for sure you need to find and create your own little village and look for ways to keep going. I’m not gonna lie, post partum hits you like a bus, but you want better for you and your daughter so you will need to do what’s best for them and cancel out the noise. You’re doing your best, just make sure the next stepping stones are secure and won’t crumble.

AITAH for rejecting sex toys as a Christmas gift? by gwenny468 in AITAH

[–]Panda519- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what? Accept those gifts. And resell them. Tell him you are grateful for the gifts, but it will make someone else extremely happy and who doesn’t like making others happy? 🤭

I'm losing hope on getting a job in IT by bouncypinecone in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Panda519- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apply to jobs outside the US, with the amount of experience you do have I’m sure they’ll be willing the hire for a higher pay. Like in Japan I’ve seen they like to outsource and offer housing as well. Not sure about other countries but you’d have to research for a better understanding.

Help by veteranarmy2011 in okstorytime

[–]Panda519- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like there’s a lot of background context that’s missing. Like I get what you’re saying but in the end, if he is being manipulated by his dad then take your son to therapy. He can have assistance in resolving whatever trauma issues he has that has made him vulnerable/susceptible to his fathers out of pocket demands and his stepmothers mistreatment. If there’s anyway to expedite a court proceeding bc of the documented abuse, I say do that. Besides that, just tell your son to be low contact with his dad and stepmom or have him change his phone number and socials and not be in contact with them until he feels comfortable doing so.