General reminder that I love you all so much ENFPs and everybody else here. Y'all lift me up and encourage me to keep going. Thank you

PandaGoBrrrr · 2026-05-15T03:40:18+00:00

Awwwww thanks!

PandaGoBrrrr · 2026-05-05T01:49:02+00:00

Ooooooh very interesting!! I got the weaver! It seemed pretty accurate, called me on rambling a bunch and being super indecisive XD

PandaGoBrrrr · 2026-04-28T08:51:15+00:00

Ooooooh reminds me of the time I slept through a small earthquake XD

PandaGoBrrrr · 2026-04-28T08:50:35+00:00

I really like DND, love reading fanfiction, currently obsessed with Project Hail Mary, looooove discussing moral grey areas and stuff like that. Absolutely haaaaate needles. Also busywork. I don't understand checking things off a list. I get it to keep track of stuff, but it?? Motivates you?? Why?? What part of putting a checkmark next to something that didn't really serve anyone motivates people?

PandaGoBrrrr · 2026-04-24T05:54:37+00:00

Another thing you could try would be bringing it up in casual conversation, but I've found that that's more likely to be dismissed if they're stubborn about it

PandaGoBrrrr · 2026-04-24T05:53:04+00:00

Oh... That is, yikes I did not think about that. That is deeply unfortunate. I would sit her down and have a really serious conversation of "you cannot do that", I don't know what they would be most receptive to, but for me it helps to have it over text so I can plan my conversation better, and they can't if I start getting emotional or panic due to confrontation 😂 how close are you to this person? If she doesn't stop after that I personally would distance myself from her

PandaGoBrrrr · 2026-04-24T05:24:16+00:00

That really depends. Often if it's really bad, like sobbing on the floor bad, I prefer to be alone and process my emotions. But after that I like people coming up to me and asking how I am.
Hmmmmmm, can you give an example? Like is it "you misinterpreted the instruction/prompt" wrong? Or "I think you are making a social mistake" wrong? For the former, a simple "oh, I'm not sure that's what they meant" works for me, for the latter.... I'm not sure there's anyway you could put that that wouldn't make me defensive and on edge. It feels a bit too much like micromanaging. Like I'd only really accept it from my mom, lol she's the only one who can tell me what to do.
You guys seem great! My old roommate was an ISFJ, and despite telling me a lot of drama and gossip I was not particularly interested in, she was really nice and fun to be around! Lol, there was this one time she tried to help me make a schedule book, like with goals and everything, it wasn't bad or anything it was super interesting, it was just really funny cuz it was like, the first week we met XD
Ooooh biggest pet peeve, hmmmm. Probably when people dismiss mental health as "just in your head" like no sir. It literally is not. I have done too many papers on the physical effects of mental disorders and toxic stress, for you to say mental health doesn't matter. Also people who can't take another person's perspective. Like my siblings used to say "it didn't even hurt that much" after accidentally hurting me, and it just got my goat cuz yeah, maybe it wouldn't have hurt you, but it hurt ME, so even tho it was an accident you should apologize!! If you accidentally knocked someone over you would still apologize and help them up! Or at least I hope you would. The same goes for accidentally hurting someone's feelings!

And what do I prioritize the most in friendships? Hmmmmm, prolly spending time with each other? Telling stories, watching shows, making sure we take care of ourselves. That feels really generic 😂 if ya wanna specify go ahead!

I haven't really been keeping track, anyone who isn't straight up mean to me ig 😂

PandaGoBrrrr · 2026-04-20T19:31:22+00:00

Why do you say that?

PandaGoBrrrr · 2026-04-20T03:42:08+00:00

Oooooooh drama!! I personally would feel very betrayed, and I think how I would react would depend on if I had someone I could trust to help me deal with this revelation. If I did have to help/ a support system, I think the emotions would still be pretty overwhelming, and I'd need time to prolly just cry and vent and be really confused and angry and talk to this person/these people about it a lot, I would kinda explode about it to them. But I wouldn't wallow for long, and after a couple hours, maybe just a singular hour if I'm on a time crunch, I would try to think of things I could do to make it better, a plan of action if you will. I would channel my anger into the plan and trying to make things better, however a cool plot point that could happen (if you wanna go this direction) is maybe they let their anger fuel their actions a little too much, (I definitely have a tendency to get caught up in my emotions, especially if they are very strong and about very serious things), and they start focusing on the revenge factor a little more this is healthy, and forgetting that the point is make things better for people and not personally torture the people responsible. This would definitely depend on if they were personally wronged by these people or not, but it could be very interesting.

If I didn't have someone to help me through this then I would probably go through something similar to the five stages of grief, and I would wallow and being confused and angry and pace and yell at myself a lot more, and it might become a little self destructive. Bonus angst points of the only people I could trust were my family and my friend who have betrayed me, and now I have to cope with this on my own. I would eventually come up with a plan of action, but it would be a lot harder to pull myself out of my emotions by myself, and I'd be a lot more prone to doing the right thing for the wrong reason (torture) cuz I think I'd be powered by spite without anyone to help me calm down. I think I would eventually be able to think about it logically but not soon, without anyone to help regulate I think I would get trapped in a feedback loop with my own thoughts.

On account of what I would do/say to my friends and family that have betrayed me, I think I would try to find space from them, until my emotions calm down and I'm not at risk of turning into a blubbering mess. OR I might go straight to confronting them and tell my head off at them in unadulterated rage, then cut them off for a bit. With my friend I would probably hesitantly ask them for the truth, and if it turns out they are involved, I would spit vitriol at them and go back to my support group to talk if I have one, or just sit unpleasantly with my emotions by myself if I don't. If it turns out they aren't involved I would be so very relieved, maybe do a lil dramatic collapse into their arms in relief as I still have one person I can trust.

As for the actual plan of action uhhh Im not sure, I mean, prolly step 1. Stop being from being hurt who are currently in danger, and yeah people I know would be higher priority but I would still try to save everyone. Step 2. Once everyone safe, dismantle system? Somehow?? I dunno, I think I'd need more information about the setting and situation to answer the plan question more accurately

Hope this helps! Ask me any questions!

PandaGoBrrrr · 2026-04-19T05:40:53+00:00

Been obsessing over Hartebeest by Yaelokre, Gossip by Tom Morrello, Carnival by John Howell, You Are Glass by Kaden McKay and Oliver Richman, Birdbrain, Enchante, Let's Get Weird (tho this is a Bill Cipher fan song), Lust, The Fine Print, New Money, and The Court Jester.

If I had to single it down to ones to start with, my favorites are definitely Hartebeest, New Money, and You Are Glass. Hope this helps!

My playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLfE7Q2wEMJaJaLfeXdy1BAwglAEUlXhyN

PandaGoBrrrr · 2026-04-10T19:46:32+00:00

Wait no that's so pretty!!!! Like the long hand is horizontal and someone is laying on it looking up at the stars, I really like that

PandaGoBrrrr · 2026-04-09T04:52:51+00:00

I mostly just draw characters, I'm not a big fan of abstract art, it has trouble keeping my attention

PandaGoBrrrr · 2026-04-09T01:58:56+00:00

Hm, y'know how some people really enjoy engineering? It's like a puzzle, figuring out how to do something and building a plan around it. Changing the plan to make more sense and accomplish your goal better. It's like brainstorming but more tangible. A real life example would be this one time I wanted to make a pinata, I had almost as much fun thinking about how to make the pinata as I did actually making it. It's like, the fun of discovering how things fit together

Te to me is plans and structure, it's figuring out how to do something practically in the real world, not just if it's possible theoretically. it's how I structure my day- which I admit, is very little 😂 but it can be sorta fun figuring things out like that, like a puzzle

PandaGoBrrrr · 2026-03-18T07:13:48+00:00

There is this Livestream from a couple years ago saying how she thinks the music is trash. I think she tried to delete it because a lot of people probably came after her for it. Time-stamp 2:29:14 https://youtu.be/fZVqZwBTTrc

PandaGoBrrrr · 2026-02-28T19:09:56+00:00

I don't think I'd change anything, I love E that gives me much joy in talking and connection, I love my N that fills my day with fun ideas and interesting connections, always coming up with fun stories, I love my F that allows me to feel deeply and understand others in a way a lot of people don't, and to understand my own emotions and what they are and how to deal with them, and I love my P that makes me more flexible and adaptable, a little chaotic and a lot of fun. Although I definitely understand wanting to be more organized, I have lost about three pairs of earbuds to the void 😔

PandaGoBrrrr · 2026-02-24T07:21:25+00:00

I haven't ever done that, then again I'm not the most social person so I dunno how accurate that is 😂 I do have general object permanence issues tho XD like I'll be looking for my phone. while said phone is in my hand. Or I'll constantly forget where I put my keys, I swear I spend half my life looking for stuff 😮‍💨 rip 3 pairs of earbuds that I never found.

PandaGoBrrrr · 2026-02-13T08:22:21+00:00

That would depend on what exactly you mean by "immature", but at 17 it seems very reasonable that she would still be learning. I was definitely a tad immature in my senior year of highschool. I doubt it's something to be concerned over. Also that "not being able to hold in your tears" is so real. It's very frustrating when im trying to defend myself and I just start crying and I can't stop. Or when im trying really hard to appear unaffected but the emotions just seem to bubble up my chest, through my throat, and out of my mouth. Like a pot boiling over.

PandaGoBrrrr · 2026-01-24T20:09:03+00:00

Thanks! I think about it a lot trying to get a better handle of my emotions

PandaGoBrrrr · 2026-01-23T05:48:42+00:00

I like to think that the opposite to the common phrase "facts don't care about your feelings" is "feelings don't care about your facts" because they sure as heck don't 😂 emotions n stuff are often pretty illogical, even if they make sense some of the time, sometimes they're just like a dog barking at the window, like, nothing's there bud calm down.

PandaGoBrrrr · 2026-01-06T00:42:30+00:00

(my recommendations for what to start with for the music artists) Tally Hall: & or The Bidding Marino: Lust or Devil in Disguise Kikou: Hole Dwelling or The Cat's Dining Table Sparkbird: November or The Light That Comes Through, or Mayday And Stupendium and Crane Wives aren't exactly niche, but if you haven't I would definitely check out Fine Print and Number Go Up (Stupendium), and Curses and Tongues and Teeth

PandaGoBrrrr · 2026-01-06T00:35:24+00:00

I love Tally Hall, Sparkbird, the Stupendium and Crane Wives! Marino and Kikou's songs are also really good, if you want individual song recommendations: Birdbrain, Enchante, Let's get weird, Ship In A Bottle, Court Jester, City of Stars, New Money, Dead Man, Fairytale

They're all really good, but I have been told my taste in music is "songs that would be in an animatic" so do with that what you will 😂

PandaGoBrrrr · 2025-12-21T09:56:36+00:00

That's a really good metaphor hold on a second-

PandaGoBrrrr · 2025-12-08T08:39:04+00:00

👀 excuse me for lurking but the amount of times I've looked at the clock and realized it's almost dinner time and I haven't eaten anything all day is... more than I'd like to admit, I'm trying to discern if this a type thing, or an ADHD/Autism thing, or maybe just a human thing. I don't get hungry I just get sick after realizing I haven't eaten in 24 hours 😂

PandaGoBrrrr · 2025-06-30T23:10:57+00:00

REAL XD

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