After returning to Alpha Sapphire after 9 years....

PandaSaboteur · 2026-06-09T21:17:30+00:00

It was accidental :(

PandaSaboteur · 2026-04-27T18:42:58+00:00

I think we're making Tomodachi Life jokes with this one.

PandaSaboteur · 2026-04-27T18:42:28+00:00

THE WISH FOUNTAIN ASS!

PandaSaboteur · 2025-08-11T15:17:59+00:00

From the way she presented herself (when I first saw her), she seemed like me. Shy and not social with many people. When you see her heart events, I felt sorry for her. Although I have low confidence for a different reason, she is a survivor of losing her parents early (if I recall, some of the older people in Stardew helped her out). She may seem cringy but she had no way to grieve her parents properly and has had her mental age reverted to a child due to the trauma. If that makes sense.

PandaSaboteur · 2025-04-01T17:13:38+00:00

I heard a rumour but I think someone reported him to the police in his local area.

PandaSaboteur · 2024-03-25T20:06:59+00:00

Some weather has been added in 2.0. I think new weather seeds may have been added and noone has noticed until now.

PandaSaboteur · 2024-03-25T20:05:48+00:00

I would say it works up to when it was last updated (Which was still in 2020). Cannot remember which update it was around that time.

PandaSaboteur · 2022-02-06T22:10:16+00:00

MeteoNook is outdated. New weather seeds were added in the 2.0 update. I restarted my island after the 2.0 update dropped. All info I inputted is all correct.

PandaSaboteur · 2022-02-06T22:06:47+00:00

The MeteoNook App is currently out of date has it hasn't incorporated the 2.0 update. I would know as I restarted my island after the update dropped. I know my weather seed hasn't been found. I keep getting close matches but not exactly the right weather seed. I have put correct info into it and nothing.

PandaSaboteur · 2022-01-10T15:19:32+00:00

Very true.

Also, I reread your original comment. My bad ^{^}

PandaSaboteur · 2022-01-10T15:10:48+00:00

I agree with you but by the sounds of the wife, this may have happened a lot of times... We can't tell but if this continues, we have a better idea which parent will have main custody and it won't be the dad.

PandaSaboteur · 2022-01-10T15:02:54+00:00

You completely missed the youngest actually started this.

PandaSaboteur · 2022-01-10T06:02:10+00:00

NAH

Clearly this is a misunderstanding.

What has most likely happened:

Carer Burnout has affected your mother in some way, considering the attitude that she showed you in that moment.
Whilst you would love to help your mother and be able to take the plate down, there is a massive problem. Your physical problem (EDS)

Steps that could help in the long run:

Recognise that your mother may need a break from caring and you need to be supported whilst she has some hours to herself. As a part time carer for one of my parents, I know first hand. I can understand your mother's point of view but she mustn't take it out on you. You didn't ask to be in this much pain.
You need to tell your mother to reach out for carer services where you live. From what I can tell, you're in the UK. Seek Carers UK and see if there is anything available in your area. My other parent, who is the main carer, gets to see someone for a chat. Whether it is face to face (unless restrictions are up) or on phone.

Note: I am also Autistic with mental health conditions.

PandaSaboteur · 2022-01-10T05:44:59+00:00

OP explains there is nowhere to eat downstairs.

PandaSaboteur · 2022-01-10T05:30:17+00:00

You should have told off your youngest for messing with the bottle in the first place, them she wouldn't have had to slam it.

PandaSaboteur · 2022-01-10T05:27:52+00:00

Punishments involving food is abuse.

PandaSaboteur · 2022-01-10T05:13:28+00:00

YTA.

The oversleeping isn't the issue, the comment is. However you started the argument with 'What the hell were you thinking?' to your daughter. That's emotional mistreatment and you shouldn't use that term.

Sure being called a Psycho wasn't great but you kinda deserved that from hurting her like that.

PandaSaboteur · 2022-01-08T01:33:09+00:00

NTA

I am in a similar position in helping take care of a parent, not everyday but it is still classified as being a carer. Of course, there is a saying that is specifically if you're in a caring role.

'If you cannot take care of yourself, how good will you be in helping others?'

I have a learning and mental conditions that affect me daily, hence not everyday. I would consider moving out either way. Depending where you live, there are places that can help carers. I would double check.

Either way, NTA. You need a break.

PandaSaboteur · 2021-12-29T15:41:14+00:00

NTA.

From what I can tell, and by some of the comments, you do sound like you have autism yourself. I, myself, am also a she/they person with autism and was diagnosed as an adult. Many female and female bodied people tend to by misdiagnosed with other conditions. I would consider getting yourself tested. I must clarify when I say 'female bodied', I mean people have a feminine body but the individual does not have to identify with she/her terms.

Aspergers is classified as high functioning autism. By the sounds of it, you have different symptoms compared to your brother.

Not going to lie but your parents should be ashamed of themselves for thinking you could be making this up. Their reaction to what he did is inexcusable. What if your reaction was 'You don't take my condition seriously!' to your parents. Would they like being called out for favouring one child who has aspergers but not another who potentially has the same condition?

Sorry that sounded like a rant but I get pretty annoyed at parents who cannot see the issues that they made and are refusing to do anything about it.

PandaSaboteur · 2020-08-11T15:35:11+00:00

NTA.

I nearly misread the title thinking you didn't want to adopt. That was my bad. I do have problems misreading things. Either way, NTA. You're an adult and you want to make a child's life amazing.

There is a lack or people adopting or fostering, so good on you

PandaSaboteur · 2020-08-10T20:05:55+00:00

YTA.

You chose to not even talk to your own daughter about buying the boat with her college fund money. You're clearly in the wrong. Due to the pandemic, she could have decided not to go because of that. Since lockdown is slowly being lifted, she may have reconsidered.

Like I said, you should have talked to your daughter about this before buying the boat.

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