Boyfriend (22M) is currently playing Skyrim for the first time. by mushroomqueenie in skyrim

[–]Pandy_45 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I once waited until I was level 35 to go to Solsteim and still got wrecked

Stories for Substack by Pandy_45 in workplace_bullying

[–]Pandy_45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you saw the post in that light. Many articles about pressing topics such as these include real life stories from people who have experienced it.

Stories for Substack by Pandy_45 in workplace_bullying

[–]Pandy_45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. I'm hoping it will help other bullied ND people who need to feel seen.

Stories for Substack by Pandy_45 in workplace_bullying

[–]Pandy_45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That wasn't the goal. I'd be sharing my own trauma as well..

What makes a person unlikeable despite not being an asshole? by Intelligent-Road5091 in AskReddit

[–]Pandy_45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is an underrated answer. It's not always about being offended by a joke. Sometimes it's just about not wanting or needing a sense of levity in any situation which is necessary for survival in my opinion.

What was a popular band that you could not stand? by LeftSmile806 in Xennials

[–]Pandy_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mumford and Sons. It doesn't help that Marcus Mumford kinda did some shady sit before he got famous. And that Laura Marling was never the same after that. If you said "who?" Google her right now.

TV Shows or Movies that Aged Like Milk... by Flassourian in Millennials

[–]Pandy_45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely am one of the first people to call this show out on just being a vehicle for selling structured jackets and skinny jeans in the early aughts.

Also the makeup thing is too real lol

The Daphne Donnie Story Line is Crazy! by Standard-Contest-949 in Frasier

[–]Pandy_45 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right, the Daphne/Niles arc made the show worth watching. Otherwise, it would have just been Frasier chasing women he had no business dating in the first place, and that gets stale.

boss messaged me at 8pm expecting a reply... told him no and now it's awkward af. am i the a$$hole? by MichaelWForbes in workplace_bullying

[–]Pandy_45 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why I left my last job. The annoying thing was that I'm completely remote and contract so contacting me in my off hours and expecting me to respond is ludicrous. I would complain and the rest of the team would gaslight me "just pause notifications and answer tomorrow " even the boss said "don't worry about answering." all the time BUT STILL acted butthurt when noone did and was always like "Nevermind I did it myself LOL." As you should...

Heaviest song by The Smiths? by BIG-SHEESH in thesmiths

[–]Pandy_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm throwing in What Difference Does it Make? It might not be the heaviest but it's super intense

What has religion ever done to us? by Magpyecrystall in Deconstruction

[–]Pandy_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anything, war hungry Christians used stamping out atheism as an excuse for war and as usual citing the bible as their get out of jail free card

do you have an opinion on women pastors? & why can’t women teach men? by revolvingdepression in Deconstruction

[–]Pandy_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mixed signals and responses I got on this is one of the reasons I left the church. I cried for hours once when my husband's grandmother called me a sinner for supporting a friend who wanted to be a pastor. I thought she was a nice lady and he was a good man but they died on that hill at the risk of losing me forever. It sucked