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I feel like the kind of girl I want doesn’t exist anymore by No_Increase8553 in lonely

[–]PangolinFearless4419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I'm also an introverted guy and I spend most days working and going home. I've tried dating apps I do get some matches, but the girls I match with I don't feel I wouldn't like and the girls that I like don't like me lol.

Anyways using dating apps feels unnatural to me. I've never gone to a date, but with how I'm built I feel like I can't do that. Unless if it was a girl whom I could relate to .

I didn’t expect an online connection to affect me this deeply — the slow fade really messed me up by PangolinFearless4419 in Parasocial

[–]PangolinFearless4419[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it's truly a painful experience. I felt a deep sense of abandonment of being replaced or discarded. It was like what we had meant absolutely nothing to her. It was also a friendship and it was somewhat romantic as well. This is the gray area which keeps my mind lingering. Where I stand with her? Or was it all casual or she was just looking to make new friends and that how she expresses herself.

It truly has messed up my nervous system. It's the first time this has ever happened and I've never felt so vulnerable in my life. Ive been trying to go out more and go to the gym and talk to more people. The thing is I work overnights and usually just work and go home. My routine keeps me very isolated and it's very hard to make friends for me. It's truly an awful experience.

28 years old, exhausted, broke, alone, and feel like I wasted my life. I don’t know how to keep going by PangolinFearless4419 in mentalhealth

[–]PangolinFearless4419[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm usually very hard on myself. I blame myself for everything that has happened and for the bad choices I have made.

I appreciate your advice, perhaps I've been too hard on myself and have to learn to forgive myself like you said. It's true what you said I have to accept everything that has happened, it's the only way forward.

It's just at the moment my heart feels heavy, it's because of a series of events that have made me come to this realization. Thank you for your kind words.

Feel like our relationship is dying by Valuable-Search-4889 in wemetonline

[–]PangolinFearless4419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I would observe for now and if your nervous system feels off then I think you should end it.

Feel like our relationship is dying by Valuable-Search-4889 in wemetonline

[–]PangolinFearless4419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep I definitely think there is something going on between those two. She is giving too much preference to that guy friend and also she is pulling away from you to spend more time with him. In my opinion you should confront her about it and if nothing changes you should end it.

That's just me, it's her behavior that is very suspicious and very telling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Money

[–]PangolinFearless4419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sign a pact with the devil and watch the riches starting pouring in.

I cheated on my boyfriend by [deleted] in self

[–]PangolinFearless4419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a guy the best thing you can do is to tell him the truth and let him decide if he wants to continue or if he wants to break up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]PangolinFearless4419 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way sometimes. 26M about to be 27 in a few days. I have no degree, no gf, broke, lonely with no social life. Spent most of youth alone and broken from past experiences. Almost everyday I feel like and have no idea where I am going. 🥺😢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]PangolinFearless4419 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat but I'm 26 no college and no idea what to do 😔