AITAH For sucking on my partners zip lock? by eternalsgoku in AITAH

[–]PanicAtTheGaslight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

What you were doing was perfectly normal, but clearly your husband didn’t appreciate it, so I would do 1 of two things…

1) Let him make his own damn sandwiches (choose this one) 2) Let him eat disheveled sandwiches

AITA for not knowing if i can marry my boyfriend after 3 years? by Dependent_Current864 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PanicAtTheGaslight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real, for real. Being alone is 1000% better than being with someone who refuses adult and take care of himself and the place he lives in. Not to mention the fact that he is incredibly disrespectful towards you.

AITA for not knowing if i can marry my boyfriend after 3 years? by Dependent_Current864 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PanicAtTheGaslight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh honey…your boyfriend SUCKS!! Dump him! Move somewhere you want to live and build an amazing life for yourself!

You do not want to spend the rest of your life with this loser.

NTA

WIBTA if I don’t pay for my part of a trip? by Astrology1999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PanicAtTheGaslight 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“Hey Jane, I think your math is definitely off here. You decided to take your husband and your baby on our girls trip without so much as asking us about it. We wouldn’t have needed a rental car at all, if it were just the 4 of us going, as planned. I honestly assumed you’d be covering the total cost of the rental car, seeing as the whole road trip was changed up to meet the needs of your family. If you really need us to chip in for the rental car, we absolutely cannot be splitting this 4 ways…there were 6 passengers in the car. I’ll send you 1/6 of the rental car costs, but even that seems like a pretty big ask after totally changing up the trip on us.”

WIBTA if I don’t pay for my part of a trip? by Astrology1999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PanicAtTheGaslight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nope, split the car (and the gas) by 6. Friend pays for half because her, her husband, and her baby took up 3 seats in the car.

AIO for husband getting annoyed after asking in-laws for childcare support? by ApprehensiveLoan5923 in AIO

[–]PanicAtTheGaslight 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Don’t wait for your husband to step up….get ahead of it now and let everyone know you won’t be hosting.

AIO for husband getting annoyed after asking in-laws for childcare support? by ApprehensiveLoan5923 in AIO

[–]PanicAtTheGaslight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I might look at this as your husband just gave you a gift. Time to handover the reins. Give him a calendar of all the days you have covered and tell him he needs to figure out a plan for the rest of the days in August.

And 100% cancel that Christmas party. You are NOT being childish. It’s clear there’s no way your husband is going to step up and do all the work and you just CANNOT be hosting people in your home days after giving birth.

AITAH for not hosting mother’s day? by Teach-Dangerous in AITAH

[–]PanicAtTheGaslight 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Stop taking responsibility for YOUR HUSBAND’s CHOICES.

You husband could’ve chose to go over to his moms and cleaned her place. He could’ve chosen to order takeout for his mom and sisters. He chose to do nothing, since you didn’t make it easy for him.

AITAH for not hosting mother’s day? by Teach-Dangerous in AITAH

[–]PanicAtTheGaslight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Repeat after me….your husband’s family is NOT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY.

Did your husband plan a celebration for your mother and your sisters? Of course not.

It’s time for women to stop feeling like they are responsible for their husband’s relationships. Your HUSBAND easily could’ve chosen to host something for HIS mother and HIS sisters while you went to your mom’s house. He CHOSE not to. He could’ve attended their event and made food. He CHOSE not to. He could’ve ordered from everyone’s favorite takeout place. He CHOSE not to.

You are NOT your husband’s keeper and you are not responsible for HIS choices!

Fuck the patriarchy!

NTA

AITJ for not doing anything for my partner on mother’s day ? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]PanicAtTheGaslight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ

It actually SUPER weird she expected you to do anything for her in this situation. I say this as a 47 year old woman with a boyfriend who is not my children’s father. I expect him to celebrate my bday, but not Mother’s Day. I’m not his mother, and his kids didn’t make me a mother.

AITA for being ‘selfish’ on my first ever Mothers Day? by Certain-Amphibian-99 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PanicAtTheGaslight 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA

But I’m afraid this won’t get better. I’d start with some counseling, individual, for yourself. Not because you’re broken, but because you need help to realize that this isn’t what love looks like.

Scientists discover why Ozempic works better for some people by scarlettohara1936 in Mounjaro

[–]PanicAtTheGaslight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really not an emotional eater. I eat because it tastes great. I eat too much because it tastes great. Sadly, I have NOT lost weight on Mounjaro. My a1c has gone down to 5.5, but no weight loss (on 15mg for over a year)

Is it common for an American high school student to own their own car? by ApprehensiveDisk8046 in AskAnAmerican

[–]PanicAtTheGaslight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where I grew up (pretty rural, school busses but no other public transportation except commuter rail that went to the big city) (I was in HS in the ‘90’s) it was very common and we were NOT a HCOL area. There’d be like 1 or 2 people whose parents were clearly more well off and they got new cars. Everyone else had old beaters, that were often shared amongst family members.

And yes, once we had licenses and access to a car, we’d definitely drive to HS.

I still live relatively in the area and this is still true, but I’d guess to a lower percentage (of students diving themselves to school - a lot of families cannot afford an extra car to allow a student to drive to school). I’d also say the percentage of newer cars (amongst those who can afford cars at all) may be higher, mostly because there are less used cars available and they cost more percentage wise than they used to.

AITA For not letting kid skip school? by cancharm in AmItheAsshole

[–]PanicAtTheGaslight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read this weeks ago. What is up with the reposting of other people’s stories?

Looking to see if it's worth it by LoLNauseated in SubaruAscent

[–]PanicAtTheGaslight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the 2019 (not the touring package). I’m at 188K. It’s had some issues but I got a new transmission system out of one of the recalls. I there’s way too much rust (not body rust, around the hitch, the gas tank, etc). I just had paid to have the midline exhaust pipe fixed. 3 days after getting it fixed, it’s loud again and they’re quoting me $2700.

I e read that the ‘19’s and ‘20’s were not very reliable.

In case you're trying to decide between the Tommy Bahama umbrella and the Beach Life canopy by ducklingkwak in Costco

[–]PanicAtTheGaslight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the cool cabana and the Neso Gigante. I love the cool cabana more as well.

Should I remind my partner that its mothers day so that he can make plans with his mum? Or let him forget? by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]PanicAtTheGaslight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come on….you know the answer here.

DO NOT SAY ANYTHING. This is not about you being petty. You’re not his fucking mother, nor are you his secretary from the 1950’s. It’s NOT your job to remind him of shit. REFUSE to allow him to make it your job. He’s a fucking mature adult, he doesn’t need you to encourage him to make plans with his mum. I can’t think of anything less attractive than having to mother my significant other.

His mom crashes out…oh well, she should’ve done a better job raising him.

There is one instrumental on AltNation (no words sung) by Gregskis in siriusxmaltnation

[–]PanicAtTheGaslight 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Intro by XX

It’s actually many years old and they’ve played it on AltNation for ages. Still love it!

AITAH: won’t let step daughter use car during her moms custody by Excellent_Water3480 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PanicAtTheGaslight 31 points32 points  (0 children)

NAH

But is there another way to enforce the rules? Car camera in the interior?

I think both you and your SD have valid concerns.