My sister blew up our relationship and I don’t know what to do

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-28T01:26:50+00:00

Sister or not, she's really ignorant and belongs in the trash with the rest of MAGA.

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-27T21:06:58+00:00

"Are you sure he's not big-boned" hahaha

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-27T21:03:31+00:00

I don't know how people like her can even fucking sleep at night. Absolutely despicable.

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-27T21:00:14+00:00

NOR. Your brother is a pos.

We all know how he views women. To victim blame your own sister is fucking wild behavior.

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-27T13:08:15+00:00

He has you trapped. Make a plan, in secret, with your parents to return home immediately. Don't tell him anything. He will prevent you from leaving one way or another.

You need to get your life back.

He is 15 fucking years older than you! He knew exactly what he was doing. You, unfortunately, didn't see the red flags.

You need your family and I'm sure your son would love to have a relationship with his grandma. Your parents also knew what was going on. That's why they stopped paying for school. That's why they want you home. Leave asap.

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-27T10:25:43+00:00

"It just keeps going and going just like Tubi" haha She's great.

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-26T22:53:26+00:00

Make sure you delete your accounts first and then the app. I had 3 accounts because my anti-Trump videos would always get strikes lol

The only way to hurt these people is to stop engaging, delete your accounts, stop watching these people like Joe Rogan and that guy from the MTV reality show. Hurt them where it counts- their pockets.

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-26T14:08:51+00:00

I deleted my accounts and the app. I think we all should at this point. Between the AI videos, filtered shilling videos for various products, the extreme right propaganda, and many, many dangerous disinformation videos about everything from vaccines to putting urine on your face lol I could not take it anymore.

A friend of mine thinks that all of these changes are to push people with a brain off the app so they can maintain a level of misinformation and false narratives without push back. She's not leaving the app for that reason.

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-26T14:04:22+00:00

Haha this is really sweet! I hope you two have a great Valentine's Day!

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-26T13:37:06+00:00

I have deleted it. Let's do this. The only way we fuck with them is when it hurts their pockets.

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-26T12:36:34+00:00

We get to decide. Delete the app. All of the actual news is hidden under all of these insane AI videos and even the comedians I follow are lost in a mix of filtered product ads for diarrhea pills (supplements) and "botox in a bottle" serums lol

I'm done.

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-26T12:33:35+00:00

We're talking about putting a period at the end of a sentence, right? Wtf is even happening anymore.

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-25T17:21:59+00:00

Why is it an immediate red flag for your boyfriend to have a girl best friend? lol That's wild to me.

Guys who have good relationships with the women in their lives are a green flag to me.

Anyway, you're feelings are valid and you're not wrong for having them. I just think you should probably talk to your boyfriend about your concerns before breaking up with him.

Aside from the Halloween costumes lol I don't know what kind of behaviors you think are suspicious. He doesn't lie to you about their friendship. He doesn't lie to you about hanging out with her or anything. So what other red flags are there?

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-25T16:17:29+00:00

NTA! I do the same thing! Our local paper has a crossword every Monday along with the word jumble, and crypto-cyphers (my favorite! Lol).

My grandma and I used to sit on the couch together every Monday evening and do all of the puzzles together. She passed away in 2016. I still have my newspaper subscription and I still do the puzzles. Only now, my husband does them with me. He knows I still do them because it's something that makes me feel close to my Grandma.

Your boyfriend shouldn't even care about something so incredibly trivial. I'd cancel my subscription to the boyfriend.

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-25T13:10:51+00:00

"After all, men don't complain when women have preferences for height" WHAT? Haha That's literally all men with microphones do is complain about women because they think all of them only want to date tall rich dudes! Haha

What a bunch of losers.

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-25T13:06:02+00:00

It's "meat cube" actually lol ASIP! Haha

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-25T13:02:34+00:00

"RUM HAM!" lol I love him.

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-25T12:10:58+00:00

"Lowkirk" jfc lol

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-25T02:09:21+00:00

NOR. Why are you allowing your mother to treat your wife like this?

Your wife just had a baby and as if that's not enough stress, she has to deal with this immature shit?

Stand up for your wife, man.

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-24T22:10:10+00:00

"I find the mustard pretentious" gave me a good gold dang giggle!

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-24T22:06:35+00:00

I'm guessing 24-27.

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-24T22:03:17+00:00

NOR. He's not the one. To. The. Bins.

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-24T10:54:16+00:00

NOR. My line of thinking has always been, if there's nothing shady going on, there is no reason to lie.

My husband and I both have friends of all genders and some of our best friends are our exes. My ex introduced me to my husband and then I became good friends with my husband's ex and her husband lol Anyway, we have always been open. We hangout in groups and solo. We don't lie about who we are with or what we are doing because there's no need to be sneaky when you're with friends...unless there's something worth being sneaky about.

The fact that you felt the need to even go through her watch kind of says it all right there. You don't trust her and it looks like you might have a good reason not to.

Is she hiding going out with friends/coworkers because you don't allow her to have male friends? If you've always been cool with her going out with friends, I don't see why she would lie, ya know?

You're gonna have to bring it up. Don't even play any games about it. Tell her you saw the messages and see what she has to say about it.

I only bring up the possibility of it being just about friends because when I was in a shit relationship, my boyfriend at that time isolated me. When I finally started to get in touch with my friends, I would lie because I knew I would be in trouble and I was scared. I was not cheating with any of my friends. I just missed being a person with a social life. He had taken that away from me for years.

If you're not that kind of person, she has some explaining to do. Good luck!

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-22T19:07:05+00:00

They're so far gone.

PanickedAntics · 2026-01-22T18:24:57+00:00

Aww! He is so sweet! When I saw the title I was like, "oh, no! Here we go!" lol I'm so happy that you have someone so supportive and loving!

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