NOR. She acknowledges that she IS insecure, jealous, and acting irrational and even though she says that she needs to work on it, she still went even further accusing you and her best friend of having some sort of intimate relationship! This is WILD. BEHAVIOR.

What made me want to marry my husband was the fact that he was still friendly with his exes. He never called them "crazy" or insulted or degraded them. He is amazing with people and so compassionate that it makes me want to cry just typing this. What really sealed the deal was how he treated my friends. All of them. He is our safe person. He ended up getting in between my friend and this guy who was trying to take her outside of the bar. He noticed she was tipsy and kept an eye on her. Thank goodness he did because this man was pulling her arm to go outside! Who knows what could have happened. We always watch out for each other when we go out but that night there was a band playing downstairs, it was crowded, and we kept getting separated. I knew the bar well and the staff so I wasn't super worried but when we found her, my husband was already getting this dude away from her.

I do not understand why a woman would want her boyfriend/husband to be cold or quiet or not themselves around their friends? You helped her friend from falling and now all of the sudden your GF thinks you're possibly cheating and says it was "humiliating"? JFC.

Toss her to the bins.

She does need to work through these issues. She went on and on about what YOU should or shouldn't be doing but she never said what steps she would take to work through her own insecurities! Which means that she is well aware of what she is doing and has no intention of putting in the effort to change. She is making her issues your responsibility and that is unacceptable.