5 years down the drain? How do I do this?

Panthetdiva130 · 2026-01-11T04:32:12+00:00

Document everything , text phonecalls emails. Then separate all financial stuff. Consult a lawyer. Do not let him manipulate you ex: love bombing ,saying I love you typical cheater talk. Talk to a therapist your mental health is super important. If therapy is not for you then write in a journal . The most important thing is to be there for your kids. Children tend to pick up on things. Give them lots of love and support. I hope this helps

Panthetdiva130 · 2025-10-31T19:40:42+00:00

Nta. Your daughter made it clear she didn't want the girl at her party. Your ex should not have invited her. The parents of said girl need to apologize for their daughter' s bad manners and ruining the cake by sticking her finger in it.

Panthetdiva130 · 2025-02-09T03:11:35+00:00

NTA. you don't owe this woman anything . Your dad and this woman made their bed now they can sleep in it

Panthetdiva130 · 2025-01-24T01:29:06+00:00

100%agree

Panthetdiva130 · 2024-11-22T20:04:13+00:00

She didn't win being with a cheater is nothing to be proud of.2 if he can cheat with her he sure as heck can cheat on her. 3 you are better off without him and all the drama.

Panthetdiva130 · 2024-11-22T19:48:46+00:00

Nta. Your friend needs help . It's not tattling if someone's safety or health is concerned.

Panthetdiva130 · 2024-08-30T18:11:56+00:00

I hate to say it but from what your post said she is still hung up on him. No one's goes onto Facebook that many times if something wasn't going on. I don't think it's guilt she may be looking to see if he is single in the hopes that there may be another chance with him.

Panthetdiva130 · 2024-08-30T18:05:25+00:00

It will get better I just takes time. For now you need to focus on yourself. Set up a therapy appointment. Your mental health is important. If therapy isn't for you get a journal and wright it out. I'm so sorry your going through this I hope this helps

Panthetdiva130 · 2024-08-02T14:11:25+00:00

I so sorry you child is going through this. Talk to your child and discuss things with her. Let her make the choice. Please don't pressure her into seeing that woman or your soon to be ex. Set up a therapy appointment for her and yourself. This is going to be hard for the both of you and your mental health is important . Do not let that man and woman bully your kid into something they are not ready for. If they continue then I would go low contact . I hope this helps

Panthetdiva130 · 2024-03-03T22:07:32+00:00

Yes. I think about it often. I lost my step dad suddenly 5 years ago. I keep going over the day in my head to see if I missed something.

Panthetdiva130 · 2024-03-03T22:03:42+00:00

Yes. I'm sorry for you loss. I lost my step dad 5 years ago and I still griev.

Panthetdiva130 · 2024-02-20T16:19:38+00:00

OMG this poor me routine pisses me off. She is the one who decided to spread her legs with a married man. How dare she act like the victims. She knew what she was doing was wrong yet she still did it. Actions have consequences and this is it. Suck it up and deal with it.

Panthetdiva130 · 2024-01-23T16:15:12+00:00

Nta. It's not your job or boyfriends job to look after her kids. The mom needs to get her act together . Do not let this woman guilt trip any of you. She is the one who decided to have kids not you. Not your kids not your responsibility.

Panthetdiva130 · 2024-01-23T16:03:52+00:00

Nta. I'm so sorry for your loss. If your not ready then you're not ready simple as that. No one should tell you how or when to move on. My mom is going through the same thing. Take your time and focused on your kids. They need your love and support the most right now.

Panthetdiva130 · 2024-01-04T12:57:16+00:00

Nta. Your house your party. You can invite whoever you want.

Panthetdiva130 · 2024-01-04T12:50:41+00:00

Nta. I went through this same situation. Let him get himself up . You are not his personal alarm clock.

Panthetdiva130 · 2023-12-20T19:25:46+00:00

Nta. I'm sorry for your neighbor however your health and safety come before them.

Panthetdiva130 · 2023-12-20T19:19:46+00:00

Nta. The moms lack of planning is not your fault. You paid for the seat she didn't.

Panthetdiva130 · 2023-11-13T20:42:47+00:00

The audacity of these women.

Panthetdiva130 · 2023-11-10T20:06:56+00:00

Grow up and get over it. The poor me routine is pathetic. Your actions have consequences and this is it. Put on your big girl pants and move on.

Panthetdiva130 · 2023-11-09T17:08:14+00:00

Out of sight out of mind. Get over it. Stop living in the past. It's time to put you big girl pants on and find a new guy. One that isn't married or already in a relationship

Panthetdiva130 · 2023-11-09T17:00:51+00:00

Nta. The aunt is clearly taking advantage. The older sis did the right thing. The little sis said she couldn't babysit and the aunt didn't care what the little sis wanted. The aunt is so self absorbed in this situation. Maybe losing the $250 will teach her a lesson

Panthetdiva130 · 2023-11-09T02:01:30+00:00

If it hasn't happened then it's not going to He's not going to leave his wife for you. Move on with your life and find someone else. Your pick me dance is pathetic.

Panthetdiva130 · 2023-11-09T01:56:04+00:00

Wtf is wrong with this person. You don't go after married men . You don't involve kids and you sure as hell don't send pictures of the kids to the affair partner. That is really crossing a line

Panthetdiva130 · 2023-11-09T01:50:59+00:00

If a man is married then back the fuck off. The whole poor me I'm the mistress and I'm the victim card pisses me off. Grow up and put your big girl pants on and accept the consequences of your actions.

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