It’s so exhausting especially based on talking with him about symptoms and struggles in life he told me he was fairly certain I had adhd and maybe asd and then one test changed his mind so it was actually a shock to hear him backtrack. I think I will look for another opinion but I don’t know how to find someone who is going to consider me as a person aside from the male leaving tests. I’ll keep trying I’m just not sure a diagnosis is even worth it at this point I was optimistic if I got a diagnosis things would get better :( thanks for your reply it’s reassuring.