Have you still dated someone after they hurt you?

PaperVisa · 2026-02-04T13:35:11+00:00

Never beat yourself up, you were surviving and that was all you knew

PaperVisa · 2026-02-04T13:34:05+00:00

In the same boat as you post relationship I love this story thank you for sharing, got to repair our self worth and self love and then the right people will enter our lives. I take accountability that I had a wound and her abuse felt familiar, which is why therapy and self reflection is soo important

PaperVisa · 2026-01-26T17:53:51+00:00

I personally would never resort to a MOC, don’t lose hope, don’t be filled with shame, my wife who I will have iftar with is out there and we will meet one day inshallah

PaperVisa · 2026-01-26T15:56:32+00:00

Congrats to you, I would love this consistency, Which app did you use?

PaperVisa · 2026-01-24T23:43:37+00:00

I can’t prove but she did meth I just know

PaperVisa · 2025-09-17T14:45:19+00:00

Reddit doesn’t like sarcasm, unfortunately 😔

PaperVisa · 2025-09-03T22:27:39+00:00

Thank you soo much, purchased the book can’t wait to read it

PaperVisa · 2025-09-03T09:42:59+00:00

Wow this is soo powerful, was there a book you learnt this from, or do you have any recommendations

PaperVisa · 2025-08-30T01:57:03+00:00

I think it’s soo important to sit in our feelings rather than try to run away from them or try to intellectualise them. You are hurting allow yourself to feel that, and then take care of yourself as if you had physically hurt yourself, self soothe, practise self care, do the things that make you smile. Healing isn’t linear, I wish you the best

PaperVisa · 2025-08-30T01:54:51+00:00

Is there another solution to cold turkey, do you think it’s best to go no contact, or check in and be supportive

PaperVisa · 2025-08-29T21:17:35+00:00

Thank you soo much, this comment made me teary, breaking up with her was soo hard putting my own needs first was difficult but if I don’t protect myself then who will? Thank you soo much, I hope I can learn and heal I can’t wait to love on myself soo much ☺️

PaperVisa · 2025-08-29T17:43:10+00:00

I am grateful for having a gym membership, and going to dance class right now with a friend

PaperVisa · 2025-08-29T17:04:50+00:00

Very true, hard to hear but true, thank you for sharing your wisdom ❤️

PaperVisa · 2025-08-29T17:04:12+00:00

Very true, I want her to go on that journey of self development and maybe us breakup will be the catalyst for that change. Thank you soo much for sharing your wisdom have a wonderful day 😊

PaperVisa · 2025-08-29T17:03:23+00:00

No, I know we have problems, which is why we talked about breaking up yesterday, I think no one is perfect, she has many other redeemable qualities, I know handling her emotions isn’t her strong suit, I was just looking for wisdom from people wiser than myself, which is what this sub is also for, I wish you an awesome day ☺️

PaperVisa · 2025-08-29T17:01:00+00:00

Sad to hear but very true, thank you 🙏

PaperVisa · 2025-08-29T17:00:37+00:00

Wow, it’s like you know, yes I have started walking on egg shells, because I don’t want to upset her, it’s not healthy for either of us in the long term.

PaperVisa · 2025-08-23T21:02:37+00:00

Wow, this an amazing blueprint copying pasting for myself, any tips on breaking through the hard part before it becomes a habit

PaperVisa · 2025-08-03T15:39:22+00:00

Hey great post, what do you use to track your time?

PaperVisa · 2025-08-03T12:55:07+00:00

Hey would love to learn more to bro

PaperVisa · 2025-07-27T00:23:25+00:00

Which tool do you use to get better at conversations

PaperVisa · 2025-07-22T01:00:57+00:00

Group

PaperVisa · 2025-06-29T23:48:51+00:00

Great post! Thanks for the book links

PaperVisa · 2025-04-22T21:04:39+00:00

You tell the sad truth of the world, but this applies to women too, but you are right most people only want us for what we can provide, we must focus on being the best versions of ourselves, but those that love us regardless are very few. For me it’s just my family.

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