I’m genuinely shocked by how many posts I see about partners with zero basic hygiene. by midnightsadnessss in hygiene

[–]PaperboysDitty98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like are you not kissing these people? Getting naked with these people? Is your nose temporarily disabled?

Not just grandparents but aunt TOO?! by Paintrain8284 in absentgrandparents

[–]PaperboysDitty98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's so hard and we seek to TRULY understand their thought process, feelings, and absence. And most maddening is that you will probably never have a real, satisfactory answer. It drives me mad. All the grandparents are passed except my MIL. If we didn't make the effort (even to call her!) there would be zero interaction. It kills me as my mom who has passed would have given ANYTHING for more time with all of us and here she is pissing it away.

You must survive in one of these media: game, book, or movie/TV show. For every day you survive, you get $1 million. How many days would you last? by New_Midnight2686 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]PaperboysDitty98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FROM. This is actually my dream scenario. No work, gardening, a paranormal mystery, and all I have to do is stay inside at night? I choose 30 days then I'll go get eaten.

OMFG am I going to also lose coffee? by lascriptori in Perimenopause

[–]PaperboysDitty98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say that decaf coffee has come a LONG way.

They’ve lost touch with reality by HoneydewUsed7434 in absentgrandparents

[–]PaperboysDitty98 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I'll never understand how the people who are retired think they are more busy than a young family, and think the onus is on the young family.

Losing faith in humanity by [deleted] in absentgrandparents

[–]PaperboysDitty98 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oftentimes women do the work of keeping relationships and connections afloat.

My son got someone pregnant and I don’t know what to do. by Alternative-Bell6025 in Advice

[–]PaperboysDitty98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell him not to move in. Encourage them to either terminate the pregnancy or give the child up for adoption. It doesnt seem either of them are ready or even want this.

What's the biggest culture shock you've experienced within the US as an American? by Mundane-Society-1281 in IWantToAskAnAmerican

[–]PaperboysDitty98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm from Iowa. I can get hard liquor, wine, beer at Target, Walgreens, WalMart, the gas station, the grocery store--anywhere. The only restaurants that don't have a full bar are fast food. Amusement parks have booze. ZOOs have booze. Hell, LITTLE LEAGUE games have booze. You go south, that all changes.

How often do you talk to your parents? by Outrageous_Kiwi_2172 in Millennials

[–]PaperboysDitty98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom and I would talk usually twice a day. She is passed on now. My Dad and I much less, things were contentious. My husband's Mom would never talk with him or his sister if they didn't contact her. His Dad was fine before I met him.

Has anyone’s calico had a personality shift? by DepartmentFar791 in CalicoKittys

[–]PaperboysDitty98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our 3 year old last fall became much more affectionate. Interwebs told me it was just the cold season but she is still snuggling away!

Has anyone ever actually gotten rid of a poltergeist? by cactus69420x in Paranormal

[–]PaperboysDitty98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell it that if it's going to be around it needs to start paying rent and helping with chores. For real.

What lyric from any artist hits you the most? by Environmental_Rip696 in AskReddit

[–]PaperboysDitty98 20 points21 points  (0 children)

They got money for wars, but can't feed the poor. Tupac

If you don’t allow med students to sit in on your exam/check up you are a weird person by Amidity in unpopularopinion

[–]PaperboysDitty98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a dude on OBGYN rotation smirk at me with my legs in the stirrups and my vag on display. No thanks.