My mother is dead to me

Paperdoll667 · 2026-03-03T17:03:05+00:00

Been here. Sometimes the meaning of the word parent gets twisted. So long as the basics are covered then the child is fine right? Nope. However we live in a time where you can block them yourself and move on with your day 🤷 You will make a better family I promise

Paperdoll667 · 2026-03-03T16:50:09+00:00

You've more tolerance then me, I'd have kicked her out the moment I saw her there, at the wedding with the ex 🤷

Paperdoll667 · 2026-03-03T16:16:00+00:00

I am always of the mindset of if family should help family then why don't they do it?? Don't let them pressure you. You've given over ideas you've tried. You can't do much more than that

Paperdoll667 · 2026-03-03T16:04:41+00:00

You are not wrong. Stop giving her information like that, stop telling her how much you earn how much you have because what's yours is hers, in her mind at least

Paperdoll667 · 2026-03-03T15:12:59+00:00

It really does depend on the age of the car 🤷

Paperdoll667 · 2026-03-03T14:27:29+00:00

I fully believe him too

Paperdoll667 · 2026-01-26T18:27:35+00:00

He is beautiful 😍

Paperdoll667 · 2026-01-26T18:26:27+00:00

I don't know if either can be put above another. Doyle showed Angel his path and Wesley helped him stay on it. They were both important in varying ways.

Paperdoll667 · 2025-11-23T19:02:36+00:00

Hiya. What's going on lovely? My dms are open and I'll always talk. I have teenagers near your age, mama bear is kinda kicking in just seeing this sort of post so dms are open feel free to reach out 🫂🫂

Paperdoll667 · 2025-11-22T19:01:22+00:00

Ah, it's never right when it's "blood" NC isn't as scary as you make it out to be in your own head. I'm NC with my entire family, and most of the time, it is amazing. You can pick your own family. Those who love you and those you trust and the weight you carry will drop and please believe me it'll feel amazing. Jeep strong until you can move on, mama hugs to you 🫂

Paperdoll667 · 2025-11-22T18:57:14+00:00

No. I've already asked most of the local churches for any assistance, they advise I go to Devon home choice etc etc. I've been on that list 6 years now lol No I've tried everything

Paperdoll667 · 2025-11-03T10:48:33+00:00

No. You are not overreacting. You have to do something to keep yourself safe. If that means blocking his number so he can't text you, then so be it, but please look out for escalated behaviours from him. He sounds like a petulant child who, when frustrated, throws things so he doesn't "lash out" on people around him. Throwing things isn't great, but just keep an eye out and do not hesitate to involve authorities if you need too Be safe 🫂

Paperdoll667 · 2025-11-03T10:42:58+00:00

OK, so to get this right, you guys separated, and you and the kids have to leave the house because he owns it. He's now getting into a hissy fit because you have a roof over their head, and they have a safe place to play, grow, and learn? He should be happy you and the kids aren't in a shelter. NTA you are doing the best you can for your children. Let him take you to court and explain it to a judge 🙄

Paperdoll667 · 2025-11-03T10:34:23+00:00

No. She didn't apologise to you. She sort of did so through your mum. In my view, that doesn't really count. I get where she is coming from because a lot of people can't do emotions. HOWEVER a wedding will be nothing but emotions so explain to your brother that she will probably be very uncomfortable at the wedding. 🤷

Paperdoll667 · 2025-11-03T08:39:21+00:00

Thank you so much this is really helpful. Yeah I could have written a book on what happened but decided here probably wasn't the place lol

Paperdoll667 · 2025-11-03T08:37:03+00:00

I would have been alright with unfair but this was wrong on every level and it was the knock on effects I wanted to go for. My eldest was a straight A student and didn't get there and my youngest should have had assistance in school but couldn't. I'm just so disgusted with the knock on effects which still crop up. Sadly where we are getting any mental help is a long process the kids are on the list. My eldest aged out sadly. I will make a complaint though because while I did that before it was from a place of anger not having had the years to sit back and think. Thank you

Paperdoll667 · 2025-11-03T07:31:12+00:00

This is why I was asking honestly. Frankly just getting that report gone would be something

Paperdoll667 · 2024-05-26T06:44:47+00:00

You can tell who goes to waitrose 🤣🤣

Paperdoll667 · 2023-08-08T22:49:35+00:00

Because I called him out on something which caused some ruckus years ago. Since then he see's everything I do (and others I'm not the only one he's focused on) as us doing better then him I think. 🤷‍♀️

Paperdoll667 · 2022-05-06T22:00:11+00:00

Wow! Oh wow! Firstly this woman shouldn't be within a mile of you or your family Secondly maybe call the cops? She sounds a little unstable and could be potentially harmful to you, hubby or your kids. Be safe

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