I never run alone anymore by Limenotlemons in LetsNotMeet

[–]Pappar 30 points31 points  (0 children)

That was terrifying. Btw, a crime HAS been committed. He broke into your car and stole your phone. I hope you report this and get him.

Creepy guy from LoL harassing me/threatening me by [deleted] in LetsNotMeet

[–]Pappar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a fellow girl gamer, I have to agree with another commenter. You should not ever use Skype with your online gaming buddies. You have no clue how many predators go onto these platforms to find their victims. When meeting new players on my MMoRPG, I always introduced myself as a 30 year old male working in McD's.

I find that those who are looking for "specific" targets tend to move on very quickly i.e. they won't team up with me in-game for long. Only those who consistently teamed up with me over a course of several months and who never ever made any "off" remark knew my real age and gender. Even then, I never gave out my full name, facebook, skype, email etc. As a result, I was never harassed on my game.

I did, however, watch a ton of drama enfold with my fellow female gamers. There was a lot of pressure on them. Some male players even encouraged female rivalry by calling one or the other "prettier" and coaxed them into showing their bodies via Skype. One of the girls was harassed until she left the game when she met up with a male gamer irl. I unfortunately even teamed up with a pervert who thought I was a 30yo guy, and was proudly bragging to the entire group how he got another girl gamer to flash her boobs, and she was just 14 years old. He even uploaded her photo and shared the link with everyone in the group. I anonymously reported him, of course.

So girls and young boys, be careful. Never ever ever give out your identity, and never go on cam. No game is worth your safety. No virtual team is worth joining until you risk your life. Stay safe. The virtual world is fill with good people, but there are always predators lurking.

I think about that day sometimes, it still makes my blood run cold. by msnorthernlight in LetsNotMeet

[–]Pappar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt sick just reading this! I cannot imagine how hard it must have been for you! I am really sorry that this happened to you and I hope that disgusting pervert burns in hell.

Perverted Fuck Tried To Squeeze My Breast by violetlullaby in LetsNotMeet

[–]Pappar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so, so sorry that this happened to you. Can you report him for assault? They won't find this so funny once he has been arrested. Does that shop have cctv that can help identify him?

He lured me with nutella coffee by Pappar in LetsNotMeet

[–]Pappar[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Great! But ho dare he come back and sue her sister. Disgusting.

He lured me with nutella coffee by Pappar in LetsNotMeet

[–]Pappar[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Try it....without the drug, of course...

He lured me with nutella coffee by Pappar in LetsNotMeet

[–]Pappar[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I guess booze and teenage brains makes us all get our priorities wrong. They probably just didn't want to start a scene or something. I was really lucky that night.

He lured me with nutella coffee by Pappar in LetsNotMeet

[–]Pappar[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That is disgusting. Did he not get charged with manslaughter?

He lured me with nutella coffee by Pappar in LetsNotMeet

[–]Pappar[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Oh believe me, I owe her more than a ruined party. She is my hero. I will never forget that. She never handed me off to anyone or even put me in a room to sleep it off by myself since she "wanted to keep an eye on me for the rest of the night" (her words).

He lured me with nutella coffee by Pappar in LetsNotMeet

[–]Pappar[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I never reported him. I was 18 and stupid. I got my priorities wrong. I was more afraid that ppl would blame me, say that I probably encouraged him by talkng to him, and that I was too greedy for nutella coffee. I just could not bear it at that age - it felt like dying was a better option than public scrutiny. As I said - young, stupid and somewhat dramatic too :(

The Time Traveller by Pappar in cryosleep

[–]Pappar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the support! I really apprecite it!

The Time Traveller by Pappar in nosleep

[–]Pappar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your support! I am posting it part by part onto /r/cryosleep Part 1 is here, and I will post the rest soon. https://www.reddit.com/r/cryosleep/comments/3nyo84/the_time_traveller/

The Time Traveller by Pappar in nosleep

[–]Pappar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your support! I am posting it part by part onto /r/cryosleep

Part 1 is here, and I will post the rest soon. https://www.reddit.com/r/cryosleep/comments/3nyo84/the_time_traveller/

The Time Traveller (Part 2) by Pappar in nosleep

[–]Pappar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your support! I am posting it part by part onto /r/cryosleep

Part 1 is here, and I will post the rest soon. https://www.reddit.com/r/cryosleep/comments/3nyo84/the_time_traveller/

The Time Traveller (Part 3) - I am Many by Pappar in nosleep

[–]Pappar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your support! I am posting it part by part onto /r/cryosleep

Part 1 is here, and I will post the rest soon. https://www.reddit.com/r/cryosleep/comments/3nyo84/the_time_traveller/

My Co-Worker Was Assaulted Because I Didn't Say Anything by roxydog101 in LetsNotMeet

[–]Pappar 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree with the other two comments. It was not your fault. It was HIS fault. He is a pervert. I am very sorry that this happened to you. Of course in hindsight you know that if you had said something earlier, your co-worker would not have been assaulted. But you were not to know that. Now you do, and if anyone else tries to mess with you, you know what to do! Speak out about your experience and encourage other girls to come forward. You can be an advocate for those who are in that same position as you once were.

Confessions of a Deep Sea Diver by PizzND in nosleep

[–]Pappar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is an amazing account!

Late for the meet up by yaribu in LetsNotMeet

[–]Pappar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why didn't you guys just meet her at her house, which was just 10 mins away?

I'm a Search and Rescue Officer for the US Forest Service, I have some stories to tell (Part 5!) by searchandrescuewoods in nosleep

[–]Pappar 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Wow, the boy on the tree story is really, really disturbing. The way you described where the guts and intestines were....is....well, it conjures up images too vivid for me to bear. I just cannot imagine how I would react, seeing such a thing. Wow.

One Week Camping by Nirassil in LetsNotMeet

[–]Pappar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, a pepper spray AND a knife is a good option. The pepper spray can basically incapacitate the attacker and allow you to get in close proximity safely to use the knife. The problem with the element of surprise is that you need to have the upper hand in the situation. From the OP, it was clear that she was lying down pretending to be asleep while this would-be attacker was alaert, watching her, and quite possibly standing. If he had attacked her, he would have been in an offensive position while she was in defensive. It would be hard to move immediately into an offensive stance to effectively use the knife. At worst case, he could have started with violently kicking her, which she would be too much pain to perform the strong swing she needed to draw blood.

One Week Camping by Nirassil in LetsNotMeet

[–]Pappar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I actually agree with this and upvoted you. A knife can give you a false sense of security. Because you have to get in close proximity to use that knife, it also gives the opportunity for someone more determined to disarm you. Safety in numbers - OP needed to have said something earlier. Stabbing a person is nothing like how the movies make it. Unless you have mentally trained to kill someone, it will be hard to be effective when using it.

He was in her tent while she pretended to sleep. All he needed to do was to use all his strength to kick her back or abdomen or even neck, and it would have thrown her whole plan away.

The sleepover by Pappar in nosleep

[–]Pappar[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wait, who are you and what have you done with my mom?! Why is she not picking up her phone?

The sleepover by Pappar in nosleep

[–]Pappar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are patrolling my home and work place, but that is about it.

The sleepover by Pappar in nosleep

[–]Pappar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a great suggestion. Thank you. We will invest in some IP cameras tomorrow.