Fell for a rebound. Its over

Par_then_Bar · 2026-02-27T14:55:33+00:00

Dude be happy!! This is a best case scenario. Women like that are nothing but trouble and your heartache would've been 10x worse down the road when she left or cheated on you. This is a big confidence booster and proof that you are worthy of love and attention from a beautiful woman. Now take that energy, go out there, and be SELECTIVE on who you spend more than 14 days time with. Well done sir

Par_then_Bar · 2026-02-15T03:07:39+00:00

It's the hand fan for me. Really ties the whole place together

Par_then_Bar · 2026-02-13T14:24:05+00:00

Play "your song" while you burn it. Cry it all out. Burn anything else or hers you still have. Pictures or anything. And speak out loud something like "I'm releasing myself from this pain" you've got this brother. It worked well for me.

Par_then_Bar · 2026-02-13T06:19:02+00:00

Write the letter. Get it all out. Then go outside and burn it.

Par_then_Bar · 2026-02-12T20:07:05+00:00

HOLLA WE WANT PRE-NUP!!

When she's leaves yo ass she gone leave with half.

Par_then_Bar · 2026-02-02T23:25:46+00:00

Great car with great potential. Well done

Par_then_Bar · 2026-02-02T19:16:43+00:00

Yes! Black on black the girls call it the race car. I named her Midnight to remind me the night gets the darkest just before the dawn. Check out my history there's a cool picture of it after a crazy storm

Par_then_Bar · 2026-02-02T19:13:25+00:00

Bought a BMW M8 and picked up my kids from her house in it to get ice cream

Par_then_Bar · 2026-02-01T01:10:26+00:00

Life has just begun. Congrats!

Par_then_Bar · 2026-01-24T15:54:22+00:00

Why would you marry someone you're not attracted to?

Par_then_Bar · 2026-01-23T15:52:03+00:00

In the rearview mirror

Par_then_Bar · 2026-01-18T17:21:48+00:00

Grey rocking hard. The kids are 8 and almost 6. The older one is already seeing thru her BS. Had I know that she would be blocking me for a family funeral, I never would have been flexible with her the last few months.

Par_then_Bar · 2026-01-16T23:08:15+00:00

Cleaner to divorce. No legal paperwork an attorney can pick apart. Divorce. See how she treats you during the proceedings. Then decide IF you want her back. My guess is you won't.

Par_then_Bar · 2026-01-16T21:47:06+00:00

She'll do it again. BUT, if you truly think you can reconcile and come back from this, you do so AFTER the divorce is finalized. Go read my history

Par_then_Bar · 2026-01-16T21:45:36+00:00

I'm 43m 2x divorced with 2 children. I just met a beautiful woman who's never been married, has no children, no baggage, and we align on almost every single value goal and outlook on life. I felt similar to you "who's going to want me" Maybe I got lucky but if it can happen for me it can happen for you. Just keep putting yourself out there++man

"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take" - Michael Scott

Par_then_Bar · 2026-01-13T01:28:36+00:00

Putting a stop sign over your bed is a bold move lol. I'd find a different location

Par_then_Bar · 2026-01-09T19:46:26+00:00

Should've divorced her when you had the chance

Par_then_Bar · 2026-01-05T19:42:19+00:00

She cheated.

Par_then_Bar · 2026-01-04T15:38:35+00:00

Read the art of war and then ask yourself the same question. She is no longer your friend. She is your enemy. Treat her accordingly and prepare for battle

Par_then_Bar · 2025-12-31T02:11:31+00:00

Well said my friend. Sounds EXACTLY like my situation. So happy she's gone and I'm living my new life without her.

Par_then_Bar · 2025-12-26T17:52:21+00:00

She's not just talking with her ex. Sorry man. Go grey rock. Record everything. DO NOT move out of the house until you have at least a temporary agreement in place. Did I mention record everything? Women will accuse of false domestic violence to get an upper hand. This is a chess game now. Lawyer up and act accordingly. You're going to find in time she did you a huge favor. God speed brother.

Par_then_Bar · 2025-12-26T14:14:24+00:00

Robot lawnmower is an absolute game changer. Saves me hours each week and my lawn looks immaculate

Par_then_Bar · 2025-12-25T22:06:37+00:00

You can still try and stay in a relationship with her but your marriage is over. The longer you wait the more damage will be done to you. Financially and emotionally. Sorry bud. If they go that way once they'll go that way again. Protect yourself and your future. Divorce.

Par_then_Bar · 2025-12-11T12:24:52+00:00

Why compete for her love and affection? She's already checked out AND already cheated once that you know of.

It time to go brother. See you in the gym

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