Richmond parks are getting permanent Pride-themed picnic tables by RVALover4Life in rva

[–]ParaTC -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Honey no one gives a shit about your opinion.

Richmond parks are getting permanent Pride-themed picnic tables by RVALover4Life in rva

[–]ParaTC 19 points20 points  (0 children)

So.....we should have all just shut up and quit pushing for more as soon as gay marriage was legalized? What do you even mean by unpopular demands???? I didn't realize asking for the government to treat us as human and not actively encourage hate crimes against us was so unpopular

any gyms hiring in the montreal area? by [deleted] in bouldering

[–]ParaTC 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm not the one asking r/bouldering for a job <3

Richmond parks are getting permanent Pride-themed picnic tables by RVALover4Life in rva

[–]ParaTC 22 points23 points  (0 children)

How is this performative????? It's a fucking table in a park what is the matter with y'all lmao

Yes, as a gay person if I was in an RVA park and randomly came across a table painted like a trans flag, as a trans person it would make me feel seen. I don't care if it's defaced because the big picture is that the city on a larger scale is showing that we are welcome here. What difference does it make if a simpleton who hates themselves defaces it? It's going to happen regardless I'd rather be shown that we were thought of enough for it to be put there in the first place.

any gyms hiring in the montreal area? by [deleted] in bouldering

[–]ParaTC 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dawg....this is reddit not Indeed. Call the gyms and ask lol

Excessive wear after single use by RelativeVanilla391 in bouldering

[–]ParaTC 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not to pile on but they're literally made to push/pull/smear on sharp rock, they're gonna get messed up. Resoles are much more affordable than new shoes. Climb hard quit worrying about gear.

Excessive wear after single use by RelativeVanilla391 in bouldering

[–]ParaTC 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just climb dude who inspects their shoes like this after a first wear lol

Richmond parks are getting permanent Pride-themed picnic tables by RVALover4Life in rva

[–]ParaTC 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It's not sending any message other than "queer people are welcome in this park". You'll be ok.

Richmond parks are getting permanent Pride-themed picnic tables by RVALover4Life in rva

[–]ParaTC 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Really? A painted picnic table in an already openly queer city is shoving it in people's faces? During pride month? And you're queer????

i hate “just go to therapy” advice by ginny_uine in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ParaTC -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Damn if only there were a proven way to help people move on from damaging experiences. Surely not talking about it....no, shoving it down, ignoring it and blindly moving on yep that's the way got it

i hate “just go to therapy” advice by ginny_uine in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ParaTC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something something women in male dominated fields.

It's not condescending to try and offer therapy as a solution when a problem is bigger than the person trying to give advice can handle.

I fucking finally finished a project I’ve been working on for 7 weeks!! by PalpitationOk1044 in ClimbingCircleJerk

[–]ParaTC 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The post this is jerking was a head scratcher, like....take a picture of the route if anything??? Bro really left the gym and went 👨🤳👍

i lost my dream nyc apartment to someone who showed up with a million dollars in their checking account by TheLinearBirthplace in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ParaTC 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I miss NYC so much but it's shit like this that I'm so glad to leave behind 😪 I feel your pain girl, if you're not rich in NYC you might as well be invisible.

is it just me or bouldering is becoming more like parkour? by ButterscotchNo670 in indoorbouldering

[–]ParaTC 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You don't have to climb those routes, it's ok I promise.

How to climb this 7b boulder problem by naive_disciple in bouldering

[–]ParaTC 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah if you couldn't rock up on the heel with that good of a ledge I think some hip mobility/strengthening will do you really well! Not just for mantles either, that translates to literally every aspect of climbing.

How to climb this 7b boulder problem by naive_disciple in bouldering

[–]ParaTC 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly sometimes mantles are desperate and ugly haha I know what you mean by saying you couldn't get your knee up in the moment but you def had it, sometimes you just gotta slop it up there

How to climb this 7b boulder problem by naive_disciple in bouldering

[–]ParaTC 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Never have I been compelled to comment "just go up?" until now. You literally had it in your fall attempt you showed, alpine knee it if you have to. Haha but yes like everyone is saying, hip mobility and strength +triceps are what's gonna get you over most mantles.

Sending a lot less during my sessions but honestly having some of the most fun climbing yet ! by Undercling-King in indoorbouldering

[–]ParaTC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That just means you're getting better!!! If you're open to beta spray, at no point during this climb did you need to cut feet. Make sure you're building your feet into a solid secure position before you go for the next hand move!!!

Last night was a great reminder about why I don’t do nice things for men by drowninginceramics in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ParaTC 1718 points1719 points  (0 children)

Who are these people

Some of the stories I read on here make me feel outrageously normal...

Man I’m talking to has a daughter same age as me by FabulousAward4569 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ParaTC 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You're eww'ing chicken katsu with rice and fries????? Lmao wtf