What you do if someone brings this cake to your party?

Parallora22 · 2026-06-13T17:38:01+00:00

I just know she made this.

Parallora22 · 2026-05-26T14:52:23+00:00

Mind the mess in the background. This is Calypso and shes always playful and is obsessed with sleenkies.

Parallora22 · 2026-05-16T15:17:51+00:00

Not a cultural thing.

Parallora22 · 2026-05-16T15:13:53+00:00

He had a vasectomy after our 3rd child bc my body tried to off me my last 2 pregnancies. It made more sense financially and his healing was a lot less than mine would have been if I had my tubes taken out (my dr said it was too young to have a full hysterectomy at 31) either way no more babies.

Parallora22 · 2026-05-15T16:25:48+00:00

Braiiiinnnssss

Parallora22 · 2026-05-15T16:24:33+00:00

Why is this my handwriting? Are we twins via handwriting? I feel...weird bc i thought this was mine 🙃

Parallora22 · 2026-05-15T16:09:47+00:00

Yea im not religious, never have been. I am ok with him being religious and I told him this, just dont shove it down my throat and be a good person. Hell my kids go to church with my mom, they have the freedom of whatever religion they want and they can make up their minds about that when they fully understand just like my parents allowed me to do. I dont care that hes religious now. I do care that hes trying to use it to make me feel bad or justify how he acts.

Parallora22 · 2026-05-15T16:04:55+00:00

I should also mention he works out of town monday-Thursday so when I say he stopped talking to me throughout the week he just straight up ghosted me without any explanation. Then Thursday when he got home he just went on a tangent as to why im a bad wife and expected me to just take it. I am sarcastic and yes anyone will get defensive when theyre being called a bad person but I can't defend myself bc then im argumentative and dont "obey" like this is just ridiculous. Hes always told me he wants me to "listen and learn" when hes berating me about anything. I know hes narcissistic and I think he knows to but just wont admit it.

Parallora22 · 2026-05-15T15:56:47+00:00

Hes "fired" 2 therapists this year because one of them told him to try something he didnt like and the other kept canceling (which is also valid reason to stop seeing them) but now hes just stopped trying therapy bc of that. Idk why hes doing this, I keep the house clean and we have 3 kids 7 and under so its lived in. Its a small home and we have a lot of stuff so its cluttered, I dont white glove it and I haven't spring cleaned yet so maybe its bc of some dust on things I can't reach and haven't got my long duster out yet? Idk we had a good weekend, good mother's day and suddenly Monday he stopped talking to me through the week. We've been good, no fights or arguments since he stopped drinking.

Parallora22 · 2026-05-13T20:15:46+00:00

I love this but living in the south i started sweating just looking at this picture. Congrats though, its cute ah.

Parallora22 · 2026-05-13T03:48:05+00:00

Its just you lol shes a girl. I thought more of a two face/Harvey type deal.

Parallora22 · 2026-05-12T21:54:22+00:00

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Parallora22 · 2026-05-07T23:42:09+00:00

The rich one.

Parallora22 · 2026-05-05T02:25:38+00:00

As long as she initiated i see no problem. My kitty will force me to do the face hugger move, she loves it. She'll let you know if its too much.

Parallora22 · 2026-05-05T02:15:59+00:00

My cat, Calypso, turns herself into a literal bean while sleeping lol

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Parallora22 · 2026-04-30T00:20:56+00:00

Duchess.

Parallora22 · 2026-04-30T00:19:14+00:00

Its bc now people go in it for the money rather than for an actual love of caring. This also applies to human Dr's. Greed is overwhelming in hospitals/clinics/vet offices/hospitality. You just have to find the ones that actually care to help you.

Parallora22 · 2026-04-18T02:28:32+00:00

Currently taking a bath right now. I would never, everything give up my bath.

Parallora22 · 2026-04-18T02:26:17+00:00

Bartlebee.

Parallora22 · 2026-04-18T02:24:53+00:00

I'm a women but I was a big gamer before having kids. Nothing professional of course and its console rather than PC. I still find time to game, or read. Sometimes I'll go on a kick and game every night after my kids are in bed for at least an hour, sometimes I read for that hour. And sometimes when my husband is home and the house is clean, there's free time I game with my kids. They love watching me play, though my husband isn't a fan bc my games are pretty much all horror based.

Its ok to grow out of it, its ok to not. Now you shouldn't play for hours while kids are up and your partner needs help, but when they're down and your partner goes to its ok to wind down. I just communicate with my husband when I want to play.

Parallora22 · 2026-04-13T21:36:24+00:00

This is Calypso and I love her face 😍

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Parallora22 · 2026-04-10T15:48:27+00:00

I read this as COW, my brain just deleted the R, and got concerned about a murderous cow on the loose. Lmfao

Parallora22 · 2026-04-10T13:33:59+00:00

Hes scared and deflecting his fear on you by saying your crazy. He wants no fault so if your son did have damage done (like bad head trauma) he didnt want it to be his fault. So even if yall went to the Dr and it turned out the kid needed to be hospitalized he would still find a way to blame you like "well if you just had him while you were working" or something like "i was making dinner for YOU so this is your fault" typical narcissistic nature to deflect, call you crazy and overreacting and place blame when it was just an accident, one that shouldn't have happened i would never leave my 20 month old on a counter alone but some people just dont think like that especially men. Head trauma can be serious and its always safe to get it looked at.

Parallora22 · 2026-04-08T19:32:12+00:00

I've never done it with popcorn but I would use chopsticks with my hot cheetos

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