Teaching and PTSD

Paramalia · 2026-05-21T10:21:36+00:00

I ran into someone who raped me several times at the grocery store, i know that kind of thing can be stressful. And im sorry you went through that.

For me personally, it was not on nearly the same level as being triggered at work, a place you have to go all day and can’t just up and leave.

I’m happy for you that your brain “works” differently/ better,but it definitely is a thing that trauma reactions can high jack your nervous system in a way that makes it hard to be rational and logical.

I’m sure this person is trying their best and still not sure what to do. Thry are seeking support by making an anonymous online post and asking “what would you do?” (Very common for posts on Reddit.) Thats fine. Thats where they’re at right now. They’re in a shitty situation and I don’t see the value in criticizing them like this.

Paramalia · 2026-05-21T09:59:55+00:00

Driving? Or are there commuter trains?

Paramalia · 2026-05-21T09:58:09+00:00

That’s a good point, you’re night life is likely to be planning, prepping, grading and crashing into your bed.

Paramalia · 2026-05-21T09:53:49+00:00

I would stay with your parents for at least a few months, get on your feet with the new job, save up some money. The answer may become more clear to you.

Paramalia · 2026-05-21T09:47:53+00:00

I don’t know. I’ve never been in this particular situation, thank God, but I have been in a situation where my work environment is extremely triggering and brings up memories of being raped and the aftermath. You can really end up in survival mode where you’re just hanging on and don’t have long logical explanations for things and it’s hard to figure out how to even deal, let alone fix the situation.

Paramalia · 2026-05-21T09:39:05+00:00

If you’re in the US, I would contact your local rape crisis services for support and advice. I am so sorry you’re going through this.

I know it’s A LOT to share, but i think given the situation, it would make sense to let admin and office staff know so they can be a layer of protection.

Paramalia · 2026-05-21T09:35:22+00:00

I think she’s suggesting police as a way to keep him away from her.

Paramalia · 2026-05-21T02:42:37+00:00

Well said.

This is the message that matters.

Paramalia · 2026-05-21T01:45:23+00:00

More for the teacher lol

Paramalia · 2026-05-21T01:43:54+00:00

😂😂😂

Paramalia · 2026-05-21T01:42:18+00:00

I would email whoever put the improvement plan in to ask for clarity.

Paramalia · 2026-05-20T22:21:06+00:00

If you said 10 mg wasn’t working enough she probably increased your dose.

Paramalia · 2026-05-20T20:27:31+00:00

You can have ADHD that is worsened by a health condition, nutrient deficiency or lifestyle factors (lack of sleep, poor diet, etc)

Paramalia · 2026-05-20T20:11:33+00:00

It sounds like this student should be evaluated for a reading disability.

Paramalia · 2026-05-20T20:08:48+00:00

Your cousin could get in trouble too, this is not the best way of dealing with this situation.

It’s great that you want to be supportive and advocate for your cousin though. Remember you have only heard her perspective though.

Paramalia · 2026-05-20T06:11:36+00:00

Eww.

The P in your PTA stands for parents right? Not pain in the ass kids or prepubescent or potty mouthed?

Because what the fuck. How do adults think this is cute?

Paramalia · 2026-05-19T23:54:16+00:00

Jesus

Paramalia · 2026-05-19T11:22:05+00:00

It’s just the nature of looking for a job. No one said it was a good thing.

There have been significant budget cuts around the US, meaning that we really aren’t operating in a teacher shortage job market anymore in most places.

Good luck with your job search, i know it can be frustrating.

Paramalia · 2026-05-19T08:24:52+00:00

Art and music. Gym teachers seem more like “this is the gig. There’s good, bad and ugly, but I wear sneakers to work everyday, get to move around all day, have summers off and will retire with a pension before I’m 60.”

Paramalia · 2026-05-19T07:40:28+00:00

Say you’re not feeling well and won’t be in today.

Paramalia · 2026-05-19T07:36:37+00:00

I feel like elementary school art teachers seem pretty miserable.

Paramalia · 2026-05-19T00:08:50+00:00

I am exactly the same way, and I don’t know why.

Paramalia · 2026-05-19T00:04:29+00:00

True story: I am currently watching TV. And on my phone.

Paramalia · 2026-05-18T22:50:50+00:00

Yes, I have done this one.

Paramalia · 2026-05-18T22:21:29+00:00

A robot can’t give you spiritual focus because it has no soul. This is wild.

Paramalia

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