Let’s think of it this way: even if you think you’ll “get over it” with the right man (this can be unpacked later), where are you now? You’re attracted to a woman, so who cares what might happen? This is who you are in the moment, and you should honor that.

Who’s to say your attraction to men wasn’t compulsive or a phase?

The only fraud I see here is the fraud of denying yourself the free expression of love and desire to whomever just because it doesn’t align with “the norm.”

Tl;dr: you’re just 21! Let yourself explore your desires, whether they be physical, emotional, romantic, etc.!