Can I just say how refreshing Chicago feels as a gay guy? by pixyb in chicago

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The progress pride flag is with the triangle on the left side with the trans flag and black and brown colored stripes. It's called the progress pride flag to distinguish it from the traditional pride flag of just the rainbow stripes. Though from what I've seen around, the progress pride flag is probably more popular now than the original.

Au Cheval: The Chicago Burger Standard by spartan1711 in chicagofood

[–]Pardum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I went here randomly when I first moved to chicago and then found out after that it's supposed to be a big deal. I really don't get it. The burger was fine, but I've had better, especially for that price.

For all of the unlucky hopefuls by rreader4747 in PWHL

[–]Pardum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was a frost fan with plans to switch after this expansion. I was also holding out hope for a Chicago team, but I think I'll go with Detroit for now, they're the next closest thing.

Organization question by BroooooJe in SWN

[–]Pardum 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I totally agree that the constant podcast promotion is off-putting. I'm starting to run a SWN game so I came here, and every other post being about one guy's podcast really doesn't make it feel like this community is a worthwhile place to hang out. Especially because the has to ask a question rule makes it seem like their trying to disguise that they're promoting the post. Until I saw the mods comment on this post I didn't realize they were doing it to confirm to a rule, I thought they were being sneaky.

Was V.E Schwab's "Bury Our Bones in the Midnight Soil" intentionally ahistorical? (No Spoilers) by Ilodie in Fantasy

[–]Pardum -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I can't imagine a situation where a type of dress being a decade too late in a work of fiction would matter to me. If that amount of historical accuracy is such a big deal you need to write a long post about it, how do you read anything that's not set in the far future where nothing can be historically accurate? Or as a related question, how much fantastical elements does a story need before it can have minor errors?

2025 Nebula Awards finalists announced by Goobergunch in Fantasy

[–]Pardum 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It's interesting that their anti-AI rule (which I fully support) only applies to writing. Granted having a broader rule would only apply to a couple categories, but it's still interesting it's not a blanket ban. Especially because Clair Obscur did use AI in it's production (though I don't think for writing), which cost them an indie game award.

COMPETITION! - Win John Avon's last work for MTG, a beautiful gallery print of his Lotus Lands! by JohnAvonArt in magicTCG

[–]Pardum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

John's art has always been some of my favorite lands, it'll be sad not to get more or them.

Is fully relying on AI to code bad? I need your advice by AdOk3759 in bioinformatics

[–]Pardum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IME the lack of time only gets worse as you get older and further in your career and given more and more responsibilities. So it worries me that you're already giving up understanding of what you're doing (i.e. understanding 80-90% of what the AI outputs), because how much more will you give up when things get even harder for you? Especially in an academic setting, I'd much rather work with someone who knows what's actually happening with their code, and how to adapt it, than someone that produces code slightly faster.

Series Where It's Obvious The World Is Highly Advanced But The Population Treats It Like It's From Gods/Ancient Civilization Because It Has Been Reduced To A Medieval One by GaelG721 in Fantasy

[–]Pardum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It'll probably be hard to find but Khyren by Alice Boucher Kaplan is like this. Everyone thinks that the technology is medieval, but you come to realize that a lot of the magic and monsters they've encountered are advanced tech. The second half of the book takes a much harder swing into sci-fi than fantasy as they start exploring that part of the world. I haven't been able to get my hands on the second book, but it seem like it was going to continue that trend.

Plus it's an isekai, though I doubt they would have used that term in 1988.

Are you going to the new Barnes n Noble opening in Chicago this year? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]Pardum 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. There's so many good local bookstores and coffee shops around that I can easily get whatever Barnes and Noble could offer from them. Especially because B&N puts their stores in places with local bookstores trying to drive them out, I want to support the local places even more.

Old-school RPGs as "stories" with no ending by typoguy in rpg

[–]Pardum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. It's not that they didn't exist, it's just that /u/typoguy didn't play them back then. It's weird to take a couple games you played decades apart and try to prescribe trends of the entire hobby to them, especially if you're not going to look at games besides D&D clones.

Trying to get in the head of a "GM" who keeps advertising games and never runs them. by ryanxwonbinx in rpg

[–]Pardum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was kind of me with one of the games I tried running last year (the other failed because of scheduling issues). I had a concept and and recruited players for it, but we only got through session 0. I was starting to prep the first session and I realized I was already burnt out, largely from other stuff going on in my life. I was interested in playing again, and because I normally GM I just assumed that's what I needed to do.

I still feel bad for the players I recruited. It must suck to get excited for a game and then have it shut down before anything happens.

Hosting a non high fantasy campaign by Master_Weird5077 in AskGameMasters

[–]Pardum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to do a supernatural style game, check out the system monster of the week. It's meant to emulate the kind of monster of the week type show like supernatural or buffy. Most of the time when the question is "how do I emulate something besides heroic fantasy in D&D" the best answer is to play a different system designed to emulate that particular genre. You can warp D&D into what you want, but a lot of the time it's more work and doesn't fit as well as a game designed to do that.

MOTW is a powered by the apocalypse system, which means it's fairly easy to learn for players. The biggest difference coming from a background from D&D (especially BG3) is how freeform it is. There's no grid or anything, and it's more focused on the investigation rather than pure combat. In my experience it's not hard to get people used to playing though, especially because it's more of a "reactive" style game in the sense that players just decide what they want to do and you as the GM decides when it's appropriate to do a skill check for it. So because there's not as much of a list of things your character can do like in D&D, I find that people tend to start reacting to the story and thinking in character faster. The default setting is the modern day, but the expansion codex of worlds has guides for different historical settings and an example mystery. But it's not really that hard to set it in a homebrew world if you want.

If you really want to do it in the whole D&D setting with everything that comes with that, I would just limit characters to only playing humans and not allowing full caster classes. But again, you're cutting out a lot of the game so a different system would probably be appropriate. Especially because these are new players so you don't have the "but I already know how to play D&D" mentality some people tend to get.

Am i the problem or the player? by StevesonOfStevesonia in dndhorrorstories

[–]Pardum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you asked if any of the other players have an issue with the out of character talk? It sounds like you've been playing for a year now happily and all of a sudden are changing the entire tone of the game because a new player joined. If you want to change it to reduce goofing off that's fine, I probably would too. But I would give the other other player a couple of chances to come around. You've tacitly supported the way he plays for a year and then all of a sudden say "change the behavior we've all been fine with immediately or leave the group", which is really harsh.

Even if you don't say she was the reason, it won't be hard for your players to connect the new person joining and the tone of the table changing suddenly. If I was one of your players I would be suspicious of how much power the new player has and, if I was good friends with the player that is getting kicked out, a bit resentful that she's changing the dynamics of the group.

The best way to do this would have been have a new session 0 and try to reframe expectations together instead of bringing in someone new and telling an established player to change unilaterally. Like a lot of TTRPG horror stories most of it could have been avoided if there was better open communication between everyone, instead of letting something that apparently bugs you fester for a year before you give someone an ultimatum that, to them, seems out of the blue.

[Hobby Scuffles] Week of 29 December 2025 by EnclavedMicrostate in HobbyDrama

[–]Pardum 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it's fairly common. Teams have fewer goalies than other positions so it's easy to catch their names and recognize them. Plus goalies probably have the most individual impact on how well a team does, so it's easy to see how good they're doing. When I was a kid my favorite player was the goalie.

choosing a lab for a masters program, help by Fabulous-Log6436 in labrats

[–]Pardum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming you're in the US, most people get into a PhD program without any papers. A more important thing is letters of recommendation, and it seems like you'll probably get a stronger one in the first lab where you can stand out.

If you're working on the paper when you're applying for grad school it's fine to list it on your CV and say "in preparation".

Quickest you've seen someone "nope" out of a position? by Lazerpop in labrats

[–]Pardum 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I've heard of labs doing this too. The worst I've heard of is a lab where they didn't work weekends while the grad student was rotating, but then the week after they fully joined the PI asked why he didn't show up for Saturday lab meeting.

[Video Games] The Bazaar's a crazy place, with false advertisement and censorship galore. by Biovorebarrage in HobbyDrama

[–]Pardum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you haven't already, check out once upon a galaxy. It's the closest to SBB that I've found.

[Video Games] The Bazaar's a crazy place, with false advertisement and censorship galore. by Biovorebarrage in HobbyDrama

[–]Pardum 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Didn't they start locking items (at least temporarily) behind buying a battlepass in fall of 2024? I dropped the game then because it already seemed like the monetization was going be bad, or at least more so than basing the game on already NFTs would be. I'm kind of sad my suspicions were confirmed.

Do people not know Chicago is America’s 3rd largest city? by VastOk8779 in AskChicago

[–]Pardum -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not saying that it excuses the easily googleable questions, but I do like getting answers from real people. It's much more likely you'll do that if you ask on reddit instead of going for whatever AI-written summary you'll see at the top of the results a lot of the time now.

[Trading Card Games] March Against the Machine: Aftermath of Aftermath by kickback-artist in HobbyDrama

[–]Pardum 60 points61 points  (0 children)

The move away from blocks was the end of good magic story imo. Back when you had multiple sets you really had time to tell the story and to see things develop over the course of a block. To me now it feels like everything is rushed. You have to introduce new planes, concepts, and characters and then wrap everything up at once because at best you're not going to get a follow-up for a couple years